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    Angry Day girls and their regs ate my money!

    I usually have been doing the day shift because it suited my hustle style. I never had a problem working the shift. In fact, I did fairly well. And I'm not a newb dancer at the club. However I am still somewhat new to the day shift. However all the girls (minus a few newbies) were literally zeroing in on customers/regulars and going into private rooms. Wth? It was strange.

    How can I ever compete with this? Well instead of pissing off in the DR I hustled even harder on stage. As a result, I did get more attention but sadly left with only half of what I normally make! Even more irritating was the fact a few girls were jealous of the attention that followed me. OK?... what more do you want? Sorry I made you work a "tad" harder for your Fking money.

    What do these bitches tell these men? I assume they tell them lies about me, like I'm some novice stripper that doesn't do privates. A few men I talked with either said they were "tied up with another girl", "wanted to see so-and-so next", "waiting for.... blah. They also went in packs to these rooms as if they were running some sort of pose? As if they were trying to run me out of the territory. I hate playing dirty but if they want to be that cut-throat so be it. But is it worth it? I don't know..

    I had a few "regulars" but they weren't that great. One bought a few privates from me but hasn't visited yet for a long time. The other is some cooky old guy who just gets a string of dances, never privates. So I'm starting to hate regulars. You never know if they're worth the trouble or not. It's like pure chance to get a good one -- and one that stays that way.
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    Default Re: Day girls and their regs ate my money!

    Day girls can get hardcore loyal regs, so don't just assume they're trash-talking you. I find it's like that at most clubs. The best thing you can do is stick it out until you make your own regulars like that, and just zero in on the non regulars until then. After a while you'll be able to recognize the regulars and won't bother with them.

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    If you can pay attention to how the bartender/waitress interacts with the customers-if they seem to know them (meaning could be a regular-for the club or other girls) or not. its not a guarantee b/c some customers dont interact with the bartender. also im good friends with one of the bartenders and she gives me a heads up on customers

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    I don't think they are talking shit about you to the customers. What is going on is that most day shift girls have a following with custys and their regulars are VERY loyal, so it is very hard for other dancers to compete with that.

    There are very few customers that come in on day shift and about 80% of them are there to see a specific girl or 2 and will usually not get a dance from a girl they haven't seen before, unless their ATF isn't there that day. That's just how it is.

    Also most day shift girls are very cliquey, so watch out for that too.

    If you want to make good $$ on day shift you gotta stick it out, like somebody already said. Be prepared to make less than $100 for a few weeks, but in the end I think its worth it. Ive been a day shift dancer for almost 8 years and although at first it was hard, now it is SO EASY to make money some days. I just sit and wait for my regulars to come in and most days I don't even talk to new customers, but I prefer that.

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    Default Re: Day girls and their regs ate my money!

    I also noticed that when I switched from night to day at my club that day shift has a lot of loyal regulars, whereas night shift not so much... Also noticed the same at other clubs.. You probably just need to "prove yourself" and over time you'll get more people interested in you too.

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    So sorry this is happening. Maybe stick it out a while longer on the day shift? Or you could find another club for the day shift, or if you think you're ready you could always try a night shift...
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    @Mindy Thanks no worries I think I'm taking the girls advice and sticking it out..

    I was just baffled by the first couple days that I did do good during day shift. I think those were my lucky days when the girls w long-time regulars weren't there. The girls do seem to be cliquey but to my perspective, almost 10-fold during night-shift. I also have kind of high anxiety with crowds so day hustle seems to work better for me.

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    Best of luck! Just keep your chin up.
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    I just started days at my club and I love it! The girls are SUPER CLIQUEY but I just stay positive and nice and slowly they are coming around. If I get the "Im waiting for so and so" I just introduce myself, let them know I am new to the shift, tell them I'm trying to get to know everyone, and when the girl comes back move on. A good "Oh youre waiting for so and so? She's Awesome/Nice/Beautiful/other compliment" usually if the guy knows the girl well he will say "Hey that new chick said you were nice" that way everyone wins, the regular knows you, the girl knows your cool, its the little things that help Etiquette is huge on day shift at my club atleast, I wouldn't act dirty yet, those girls are vicious!!!!!!!

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    Also;

    I straight banked my first week of day shift. This week? NOTHING. Hang in there hun

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    Quote Originally Posted by Elusive21 View Post
    I don't think they are talking shit about you to the customers. What is going on is that most day shift girls have a following with custys and their regulars are VERY loyal, so it is very hard for other dancers to compete with that.

    There are very few customers that come in on day shift and about 80% of them are there to see a specific girl or 2 and will usually not get a dance from a girl they haven't seen before, unless their ATF isn't there that day. That's just how it is.

    Also most day shift girls are very cliquey, so watch out for that too.

    If you want to make good $$ on day shift you gotta stick it out, like somebody already said. Be prepared to make less than $100 for a few weeks, but in the end I think its worth it. Ive been a day shift dancer for almost 8 years and although at first it was hard, now it is SO EASY to make money some days. I just sit and wait for my regulars to come in and most days I don't even talk to new customers, but I prefer that.
    ^Good advice

    I've been on dayshift for a year. Some of the girls I work with ONLY make money off devoted regs who text them & make appointments to come in and see them on, and NEVER talk to a single new guy. Like EVER. They can literally sit at the bar and chill every day waiting for their scheduled appointments to come in (or walk-in regs who didn't necessarily give them the heads-up cuz they happened to be in the neighborhood or whatever).

    I've had days like this, where I didn't introduce myself to a single new person, just danced for the usual guys who always get a few dances from me and/or someone who texted me that they'd be coming in that day.

    Last week I had 2 regulars scheduled to come see me the same day, one after the other. I made $400 off each one. They don't get dances from anyone else.

    One of 'em sees me every single week, like clockwork. He makes a lot of $, we click well, and since dayshifts are slow and chill we hang out and have a couple drinks and it's sorta like a "date" punctuated by a couple trips to the VIP room.

    Some weeks I make more $ on dayshift at my current club than I did on nightshift at divey-er clubs in the past, and I definitely make more $ now and have to "hustle" or "work the floor" less than I did when I first started on dayshift.

    Also, some guys who come in are on a time-crunch (lunchbreak or have errands to run or whatever) and so they sometimes just pop in to get a few dances from their fave girl(s). Like I've seen dancers meet their guy at the front entrance and lead them straight into the couchroom/VIP rooms.

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    A lot of day shift regulars have favorite girls that they like to stick to because they have had good past experiences with them, and would like it to be repeated. They have established a good rapport for over a period of time and stuff. I don't think you should take it personally. And you assuming these girls go out of their way to tell these guys lies about you is a bit paranoid and if I must say, a tad bit egotistical. Just sayin'!

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    Thank you all for the encouragement I did a little better this week as I transition more to day shift. I agree with BringOn that I prefer men who know what they want lol...rather then the little boys/drunks that seem to be more frequent during night shift. Just not my style.

    @femme Note to self and to you: is this a vent-free forum? If you and me weren't paranoid and egotistical, we wouldn't be posting such things as "Tan or not?", "15k in 3 months" etc." Just sayin'!
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    seems like day shift takes time but once you've built up the perfect hustle and have some regulars its a breeze. from the sound of you i think you will be doing great in time!

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    Quote Originally Posted by PhxRising View Post
    How can I ever compete with this?
    you compete with it by finding your own daytime regulars just like the other girls have....and dont expect that to happen in a week or two....it takes time....

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