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    curvy dancers... i'm curious how the industry been towards you? do you think being curvy makes it harder or easier? do you get perv'd on by guys more so than the other girls (per say).

    for me i notice that guys have a tendcy to perv hard on me. then the same guy will go and talk to another dancer as if shes just a normal chic, it honestly irritates me. also being curvy do you ever consider loosing some of your curves or just keep them?

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    I haven't ever noticed guys being pervier. I am a little on the thicker side, and for me I generally do have to hustle a little harder than thinner girls. Thinner girls, I think, can get by more on their looks than hustle skills, but if a thicker girl is pretty and can move sexily, it shouldn't be too much of a difference. I have been able to hustle guys who say, after my dances, that at first I really wasn't their type because they go for skinny girls, but after talking with me and getting a dance they have "converted" lol. I take it for the backhanded compliment it is. So just work on your conversation skills a bit. It is more difficult to get hired though. That's the only thing.
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    It makes it harder to get HIRED at clubs. Because managers are almost universally biased towards slimmer women. I don't find it has affected my earnings, I worked with a friend last summer a lot, who was blonde like me, had a similarly fun personality like me, but was slim, and our earnings were almost always very close, unless someone had an exceptionally bad/good night. I sell a lot of dances based off the fact that I'm always one of the bustiest girls at the club, so guys that are into that, or want to try that, don't really care about the little tummy pooch that comes with it, most girls with naturally bigger breasts are naturally thicker at the waist.

    I don't really understand your question about being perved on more than other girls...do you mean you get propositioned for extras more than other girls? Or guys are being extra touchy-feely with you? I get some guys trying to touch my boobs for free out on the floor, but there are also other girls that I see snuggled right up next to customers getting all felt up, so no, I don't think it happens to me more than other girls.

    I want to keep my curves and lose more of my tummy, if I can get flat stomach I'll be sooooo happy, and getting close! I don't think you have a lot of choice in the matter honestly, like you can eat really well and work out and lose weight, but your body shape and distribution is going to remain very similar, it will just be more lean.

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    I work in black clubs. To me, black clubs are like a different world compared to white clubs. The only way you'll get hired at the clubs I work at is if you're REALLY curvy. Once on a big party night at my old club, there was a new girl (who came just for that event), she had a beautiful face but she was skinny and she looked unusually skinny being on stage with the big bootied girls, anywho, long story short, on stage she made like $10 while the other two big bootied not particularly beautiful girls made like $300. Needless to say, she never came back.

    I am curvy and I find that guys on the street are perverted with me. I feel like people will treat you a certain way no matter what based on your look and my look is typical video girl so no matter what I do, I get treated like one when I'm in public. I hate it. I've become such a cold, sarcastic, conceited person because of it. I've looked this way since I was like 8 (wayyyy early bloomer) and I remember when I was growing up I'd have guys always trying to talk to me and I remember always replying back "I'm only 11" or "I'm only 12" and then when I turned like 15 that didn't work anymore and guys would be like "oh well I'm only 21". That was like a turning point in my life lol. I started staying inside, only had male friends if they were gay, started disliking everybody, etc. And when I was working regular retail jobs, I would get hit on all friggin shift and I hated that too. One guy even tried to touch my boob at this shoe store I was working at. I quit. Started working this other job where I had to wear high waisted khakis, and a big polo. I figured I'd be safe there cause I was dressed like a grandma, I was selling friggin computers, and the store was in a very nice, ritzy, neighborhood. After my manager kept calling me sexy and the security guards all called me their "eye candy" I was like fuck this. I quit, and started dancing like 2 months later. I get similar treatment now at work but I perceive it differently since they aren't being pervs, they're just being customers and with me walking around in a bikini it makes sense that men will act that way (it doesn't make sense to me for men to act that way when I'm wearing khakis and a giant polo). Not to mention, now at least I'm getting enough money for me to not mind being sexually harassed every night. So moral of that story, had I not been born curvy, I probably would have never started dancing and I would have a way different personality.

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    I work in black clubs. To me, black clubs are like a different world compared to white clubs. The only way you'll get hired at the clubs I work at is if you're REALLY curvy. Once on a big party night at my old club, there was a new girl (who came just for that event), she had a beautiful face but she was skinny and she looked unusually skinny being on stage with the big bootied girls, anywho, long story short, on stage she made like $10 while the other two big bootied not particularly beautiful girls made like $300. Needless to say, she never came back.

    I am curvy and I find that guys on the street are perverted with me. I feel like people will treat you a certain way no matter what based on your look and my look is typical video girl so no matter what I do, I get treated like one when I'm in public. I hate it. I've become such a cold, sarcastic, conceited person because of it. I've looked this way since I was like 8 (wayyyy early bloomer) and I remember when I was growing up I'd have guys always trying to talk to me and I remember always replying back "I'm only 11" or "I'm only 12" and then when I turned like 15 that didn't work anymore and guys would be like "oh well I'm only 21". That was like a turning point in my life lol. I started staying inside, only had male friends if they were gay, started disliking everybody, etc. And when I was working regular retail jobs, I would get hit on all friggin shift and I hated that too. One guy even tried to touch my boob at this shoe store I was working at. I quit. Started working this other job where I had to wear high waisted khakis, and a big polo. I figured I'd be safe there cause I was dressed like a grandma, I was selling friggin computers, and the store was in a very nice, ritzy, neighborhood. After my manager kept calling me sexy and the security guards all called me their "eye candy" I was like fuck this. I quit, and started dancing like 2 months later. I get similar treatment now at work but I perceive it differently since they aren't being pervs, they're just being customers and with me walking around in a bikini it makes sense that men will act that way (it doesn't make sense to me for men to act that way when I'm wearing khakis and a giant polo). Not to mention, now at least I'm getting enough money for me to not mind being sexually harassed every night. So moral of that story, had I not been born curvy, I probably would have never started dancing and I would have a way different personality.
    I dont agree with this. Ive seen small girls bank in black clubs. Personality goes a LONG way

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    I've never seen a small girl make money in any of the clubs I've worked at (mind you I've only worked with maybe 5 slim girls because they don't get hired) but the clubs I work in are too loud to hold a convo and meant for stage dancing and booty clapping around the stage so not much opportunity for their personality to shine. But we are from different regions and I can only speak on what I've experienced.

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    Odette: i was referring to extras yes. i had this one semi-reg before who after awhile he started calling me talking bout he loved me an all this crazy type of shit... it got so bad that he started stalking me an i actually had to stop going to work. i didn't have a car an he lived right across the street it made it way to easy for him to find me after work.

    the clubs here are multi-cultural so theres every type of every sorta race. mostly a bunch of asians though. (keep in mind i haven't started back dancing yet) couple more weeks waiting for 21. for me being that i'm black, if the manager likes little asian girls or white girls then its a no go.

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    I notice that black men tend to be more pervy/obnoxious towards me... otherwise... I haven't noticed that I get treated much differently except what's to be expected considering the different type of customer I attract than a slimmer girl.
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    Now are we talking curvy as in coca cola figure or "curvy" as a euphemism? Cuz if it's this... that is NOT sexy.....Attachment 26334

    I've met pappillion in person and she is too critical she is NOWHERE near thick....she is perfectly proportionate.

    but excess blubber and fat rolls, spare tires, that is fucking nasty
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    ooops should have changed the "save as" label when I obscured the example's identity


    now you want curvy and sexy! This is curves!

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    No I don't think I get propositioned more than other girls, but its hard to say because I don't really talk to the other girls at work so I can't compare. As a side note though, my city is dirty, lots of the girls do do extras anyways, and a lot of guys ask for them, but I know they ask evvvverrryyyone.

    Tempest I think she just means any girls that dance that aren't stereotypical stripper tiny, like US6+, and its not a debate on what kind of curvy conotations are appealing and which ones aren't.

    OP, it sounds like you're having some insecurities with yourself at the moment, like you're seeing yourself as valued less than the other girls because you're not as small maybe? Chuck that attitude!

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    I'm in a weird grey area as far as "curves" are concerned..I have a huge fucking ass but my pants size is a 3. I noticed when I was around a size 5 I got wayyyyy more money from young black men, but no dances. Now I make more money off dances from white men, but black men completely ignore me unless it is an older one (late 30's-early 50's) that wants company.

    most of the "upscale" clubs want you to be slim. I will never be 95 llbs. That doesn't mean I can't be toned and look good.

    Mainly I'm dropping weight for me, due to impending surgery and the fact that for my small stature (5'0") I do not carry extra weight well AT ALL. I don't want it to be any harder for me to drop my post surgery weight gain.
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    I think we're talking more plus sized like this: http://images04.olx.ca/ui/3/14/46/61560846_1.jpg

    I think that girl is hot. Her face is beautiful, and her bright lingerie makes her look like she has a spunky and upbeat personality.

    I'm a 'bigger' dancer, and although I'm a upper-middle earner, I plan on losing weight so I can make more $$. It's possible to make a lot of money as a larger dancer, but to be honest I'm sick of having to hustle so damn hard. Also, I do find men "perv" on me more because some figure that because I'm larger I'm more desperate for money and more likely to do OTC. Which I hate.

    OP: If you are happy with your body then you work it. Don't let the pervs get you down. If you decide to lose weight make sure you do it for you, or else it will become an unachievable task.

    Oh, and @ Odette: thanks for posting that about you and your friend. It's encouraging to hear. I think that as curvier dances we're forced to work smarter and hustle harder for our money, and eventually we do surpass the 'skinny dancers' because we hone our skills and don't rely soley on our looks.



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    ^^^^^^^^^^^^^ That chick is hot! She's toned and curvy I'd fuck you two
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    Being short fucking sucks ass! We have to work twice as hard to maintain our weight and be vigilant
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    I love you tempest thank you.

    In Colorado though, I am classified as a thicker dancer. Maybe it's skewing my perceptions lol.

    But as 4ever said, you really do hone your hustling skills and because of that you make more $$, since you don't depend just on you looks . although, that would be nice...to just make money off your looks... lmao
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    ^I know, right...
    Out there I was 110 and 5' and STILL one of the "thick" girls. *_*
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    ^I've heard you have to be really thin to work in Co.



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    Colorado SC MGR: "LOSE 25 LLBS AND TONE UP"

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    ^The 2 biggest girl I've ever seen hired were probably about 5'7+ish and 160-170... and one was allowed to work nights at one club but only under the (silent) agreement that she didn't fully remove her dress... and the other was at a different club and only allowed to work days... and only HIRED because she worked there pre-baby.

    Other than the occasional 'fluke' hire that doesn't last more than a couple of weeks... the only time you normally see a 'chubby' girl working it's because it's someone who has worked there long enough for them to overlook her weight gain.


    Funny because I never thought about it until I moved to LA... but looking back... I honestly think the girls were thinner back home.
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    ^^lmfao
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    I love strippers, curves and strippers with curves!!! I'm also a lil curvy in the butt and hips. If only I could learn how to clap my ass. lol.

    Definitely considering dancing one day.

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    hey gurls ok all of you are right in different ways. 1st

    tempest: the girl in the blue her body type is just like mine except i need to tone up.

    4everresolutions: the girl you posted well i sorta am talking about that type of body. she looks tall? i'm 5'10 170 i have broad shoulders and big hips.

    i'm honestly nervous... i know thas exactly what the issue is. i know that i'm probably worth more than most of the dancers around here. i used to escort for awhile and i know the kind of money i used to bring in. its just baring it all knowing that i have some problem areas. like if my boobs where big and plump i'd be like o shit fuck everybody, but till i get them fixed... i'm just gonna find ways to perk them up.

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    I was always a "bigger" dancer. I wasn't chubby (mostly size 6-8 while dancing) but heavier than most dancers I knew (who were usually size 4 tops). I was more big boned/muscular. Because of it I often had trouble getting hired at good clubs. It did affect the guys I got. I had many older men as regulars. I was usually too fat for the young white guys and too skinny for the young black guys (I have small hips and a small butt).

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    at 5'10 that's not bad, you can get away with a lot more. the other, ahem example I provided is 5'2, 155 llbs and a size 10. As you can see it is also not muscle mass it's whale blubber.
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