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    Quote Originally Posted by LexyNYC View Post
    I work in black clubs. To me, black clubs are like a different world compared to white clubs. The only way you'll get hired at the clubs I work at is if you're REALLY curvy. Once on a big party night at my old club, there was a new girl (who came just for that event), she had a beautiful face but she was skinny and she looked unusually skinny being on stage wetith the big bootied girls, anywho, long story short, on stage she made like $10 while the other two big bootied not particularly beautiful girls made like $300. Needless to say, she never came back.
    I'm black too and my main preference is working at black clubs. I'm 5'9, 225 ("36, 31, 55). but I have been "proportionally" blessed. Of course, me being light skin w/ a cute face is a bonus, but I only judge how much I bank off of my hustle. Same thing at white/mixed clubs. Always remember that every custy is different and has different tastes in women.

    We have a girl working at the club now who is very small, very short, with huge boobs and a huge butt, and girls were even telling her to gain some weight so she could make more $$$. She wasn't even making that much compared to our bigger stallions who were banking on the stage.

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    amazingamazon: i never seen a black club except on youtube or tv (sad to say) but i will say i give you guys MAD PROPS. hustlin in a black club is hard, i know that for a fact. so girls making bank they are true stallions.

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    I agree. You always have to watch and monitor the custys. I have an easier time just coming up to a customer, dance, and without a word get a good tippin'. There are always going to be the bums that just sit and drink, or hover around the pool table. *sigh*.

    Thank God for Ludacris, Rick Ross, Drake, Lil John and all the rappers who advertise strip clubs. I know a lot of people come in just to feel/see the "experience" of seeing black dancers, ghetto kaos, booty shakin, coochie poppin' madness and see custys walk to the stage and make it rain or make it THUNDERSTORM!.

    I told one custy the other day to "....make it tsunami or hurricane katrina! Dont make it rain!".

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    AmazingAmazon: that's so true. only thing though is the rappers put pressure on sistahs every man expects to see pussy popping, booty claping etc. being that i there isn't a lot of black people here its hard to learn to dance like that. i love the style.... i find myself trying to watch videos on you tube and it does make sense after awhile but certain things i just be like damn wtf. LOL i'm black i should know this. any advice girl....? i'm so intrigued, i've considered flying to atl to take classes LOL haha (seriously)

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    Bubblebuttt, what moves are you trying to learn?

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    lexynyc:trying to get my ass to clap like this while i'm bending over.

    http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RULw4...eature=related

    because once you got this down isolations should be easy right? just one check at a time...

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    She's just doing the "wiggle" while leaning over.

    The end of this video shows you how to do the "wiggle"
    http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=bj_69Mw1ggo

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    lexynyc: thank u =)

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    Quote Originally Posted by AmazingAmazon View Post
    I'm 5'9, 225 ("36, 31, 55). but I have been "proportionally" blessed.
    Dammmmnnnn those are awesome measurements, I want to see a picture!
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    Quote Originally Posted by 4everresolutions View Post
    I think we're talking more plus sized like this: http://images04.olx.ca/ui/3/14/46/61560846_1.jpg

    I think that girl is hot. Her face is beautiful, and her bright lingerie makes her look like she has a spunky and upbeat personality.

    I'm a 'bigger' dancer, and although I'm a upper-middle earner, I plan on losing weight so I can make more $$. It's possible to make a lot of money as a larger dancer, but to be honest I'm sick of having to hustle so damn hard. Also, I do find men "perv" on me more because some figure that because I'm larger I'm more desperate for money and more likely to do OTC. Which I hate.

    OP: If you are happy with your body then you work it. Don't let the pervs get you down. If you decide to lose weight make sure you do it for you, or else it will become an unachievable task.

    Oh, and @ Odette: thanks for posting that about you and your friend. It's encouraging to hear. I think that as curvier dances we're forced to work smarter and hustle harder for our money, and eventually we do surpass the 'skinny dancers' because we hone our skills and don't rely soley on our looks.
    Most the girls in my club look like this pic. It's a healthy look. I'm short (5'2"), and I may be the skinniest dancer in my club. The mid-weight to big curvy dancers make more $$ on stage than I do, but I have more devoted regulars which evens out.
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    Quote Originally Posted by noelle View Post
    Dammmmnnnn those are awesome measurements, I want to see a picture!
    Me too. Mine are like 33-23-33, lol!
    (Formerly known as 'Korina')

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    I'm what I now refer to as "Colorado Curvy"....meaning I'm 5'5" and bigger than a size 0. (Really, I'm a size 4-6.) I'm from the east coast and didn't even know I was "curvy" until I started dancing here in CO. hahahahahaha!!!

    Anyway, I rarely get asked for extras although I work at a really clean club with a very public private dance area, so I'm not sure any of the dancers do. What I do notice that is different about being "curvy" is the backhanded compliments like: "my friend thinks you're too thick but I love those curves". Gee thanks!! I usually laugh it off and remind myself that men can be welllllll......a bit clueless, however, comments/compliments like that can get annoying. Also, I definitely don't make as much money on stage from groups of young white college kid types as the super thin girls do, but that doesn't bother me as the older white collar gentlemen are my bread and butter.

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    I'm 5'4 and I'm 136...I love my curves and so do men.

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    "Colorado Curvy". I like that lmao
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    Quote Originally Posted by LexyNYC View Post
    I've never seen a small girl make money in any of the clubs I've worked at (mind you I've only worked with maybe 5 slim girls because they don't get hired) but the clubs I work in are too loud to hold a convo and meant for stage dancing and booty clapping around the stage so not much opportunity for their personality to shine. But we are from different regions and I can only speak on what I've experienced.

    Maybe thats why. I used to work at Strokers a very well known club for having thick girls and I saw all shapes banking. There is this one girl who has the most awful shape ever, nobody understood how she was hired and alot of customers talk shit about her shape but she BANKS From what Ive seen if you're standing out thats a good thing so a skinny girl with a buch of curvy girls can work out well if she has confidence and vice versa.

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    i'm working on the confidence thing. i know when the time comes, i'ma be like fuck the rest of these bitches its just the time waitn till i can start making some money. my tummy rand back fat really bother me thas all... so i'ma just keep tryna work it off.

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    I'm curvy, 5'9- 155 pounds, 38-28-38 and while I don't find that guys are necessarly more "perv" with me I do notice something else...
    Let's say one of my petite asian friends wears this cute tight dress with leggings to go shopping... she looks all cute and casuel. BUT I can wear the EXACT same dress (in a different size of course) with the leggings and Iook like I'm working the streets cause I have boobs and ass hanging everywhere. Kinda the same thing with girls who have smaller boobs can get away with wearing lower cuts at the office without looking "slutty" but if I wear a low cut shirt at the office my director would probably ask me to go back home and ut some clothes on!
    Am I the only one who feels like this?

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    ^ NO! Omg I didn't even think to bring that up. I HATE that. Lol, it was always the worst when I was younger and still living at home, I would get yelled at by my mom all the time for wearing things like camis and practically any kind of v neck that wasn't from eddie bauer, yet me sister who's thin as a board with no boobs at all can walk around in a teenie tiny skirt or even a swimsuit cover-up and she gets parental approval...does it not irritate the shit out of you girls that when they make bigger sizes in clothes they never seem to increase the cupsize by much? WTF!

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    Quote Originally Posted by Odette View Post
    ^ NO! Omg I didn't even think to bring that up. I HATE that. Lol, it was always the worst when I was younger and still living at home, I would get yelled at by my mom all the time for wearing things like camis and practically any kind of v neck that wasn't from eddie bauer, yet me sister who's thin as a board with no boobs at all can walk around in a teenie tiny skirt or even a swimsuit cover-up and she gets parental approval...does it not irritate the shit out of you girls that when they make bigger sizes in clothes they never seem to increase the cupsize by much? WTF!
    YES I can totally relate to the cup size issue! I would usually be a medium but with boobs i often have to go to large...and sometimes thats not even enough. but i shouldn't complain...I bought mine so I take full responsibility for them haha

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    Quote Originally Posted by LexyNYC View Post
    She's just doing the "wiggle" while leaning over.

    The end of this video shows you how to do the "wiggle"
    http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=bj_69Mw1ggo

    Gonna spend some time with this video, my web cam, and a mirror ... lol

    My stripper dream is to make money shaking my ass on stage like that, dancing to "Racks on Racks" lol But, seeing as how I SUCK and have the ass cheeks of a toddler, I'm going to need to strip vicariously through you, LexyNYC! lol

    eta: the GOAL vid! http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=WZQHp...eature=related chick in the stripes..
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    Quote Originally Posted by Addison View Post
    Gonna spend some time with this video, my web cam, and a mirror ... lol

    My stripper dream is to make money shaking my ass on stage like that, dancing to "Racks on Racks" lol But, seeing as how I SUCK and have the ass cheeks of a toddler, I'm going to need to strip vicariously through you, LexyNYC! lol

    eta: the GOAL vid! http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=WZQHp...eature=related chick in the stripes..
    lol that cracked me up

    You'll get it though, after like 5 minutes of doing it, you'll get the hang and after like half an hour you'll be a pro.

    And you have to accomplish your stripper dream soon before that song gets played out which it will any second. The new song is Oh My by dj drama, roscoe dash, and fab and that song has changed my life. It has like 300 plays on my itunes

    And speaking of songs and getting rained on and making dreams come true lol. The other day I was on stage and that song "For the love of money" by Trey Songz and every down south rapper you can think of came on. I used to LOVE that song a few years ago when it came out and I remember being on a train with it blasting in my ear (on repeat) while I was on my way to work (at a shitty retail job) and then I heard it on stage at the club for the first time. And it was like everything in the background kind of faded out and all I heard were the lyrics loud and clear. Everything looked hazy and in slow motion, I was dancing around all sexy and slow for once. It was surreal. I was looking around at the customers all staring up at me and there was one guy looking down tearing the wrapper off a bankroll. Then I did that move where you face somebody and slide down grinding with your back against the pole. Then all I heard was the "shwww" sound of crisp bills being thrown in the air in mass above my head. They fell down on me and the music and background noise came back. It was like an out of body experience. I never had a stripper dream, but if I did, that would have been it.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Jewel21 View Post
    YES I can totally relate to the cup size issue! I would usually be a medium but with boobs i often have to go to large...and sometimes thats not even enough. but i shouldn't complain...I bought mine so I take full responsibility for them haha
    Oh man, there's nothing more frustrating than trying on a dress and it fits everywhere perfectly except the boobs. Or it kind of fits there but makes you look like a prostitute because its still too tight there. Story of my life But that's why I learned to sew!

    But yeah. Mine are not bought but I definitely asked for them. Literally, when I was 12 when I said my bedtime prayers I asked god to give me big boobies, because I was jealous of girls in seventh grade that had them haha. I hate to use the cheesy phrase "careful what you wish for" buttttttt...evidence speaks for itself!

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    omg i have to same problem. no matter what dress i put on, if its not some long old made looking ish that makes me look fat i end up looking like i'm selling it. it gets so frustrating at times but i love my curves.

    as far as stripper dreams man... i wish as well. its hard because i feel like i should be able to do these dances with ease... last night i was jokingly bitchin at my grandma i was wtf why didn't you teach mom how to pop her thang so she can pass it down the line gma haha. my gma is this lil creole filipina whos lucky if shes 5'2 100 pounds hahaha she looks at me like i was stupid and tells me stop shaking my ass around like a animal hahahah.

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