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    Default Advice from Online Financial (and other) Dommes needed!

    Hey all...I've tried searching the forums, but I'm just putting this out there because I didn't see my question answered at all...

    Basically I'm just wanted to make contact with someone who has a little experience in online domination , especially financial domination.

    I think I am going to start heading down that road in my webcam career, and I'd really appreciate some advice from a pro. My questions are more technical in nature, like - what's the best way to use someones personal information that they give you, what are the risks of adding yourself as an authorized user on someones credit card, etc....

    Let me know if you don't mind me asking you a few questions!!
    Thanks girls!!!

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    Default Re: Advice from Online Financial (and other) Dommes needed!

    There isn't *too* much info out there that I have found. It seems like most girls who cater to this fetish like to keep their tricks a secret.. I have some experience but I'm no pro and have just kinda tried to figure it out as I go along.

    One tip I have is get the guy to pay you a tribute pretty much right away, even before discussing any details. Most of the guys I've talked to seem to get off just gabbing about it so don't give them any free jerk material.

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    Default Re: Advice from Online Financial (and other) Dommes needed!

    Dont become an authorized user on his account - that's too personal, too security-compromising, you want actual money (not credit) with limited risk to you

    Blackmail is a legal minefield - I have yet to really meet anyone who genuinely truly truly wants their life ruined.... only financially fucked up but not fucked over. You don't hear homeless guys smiling "Thank god Mistress------ on Niteflirt ruined my life! Now I can panhandle for her!", you know?
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    Remember that using his card online - even if he gives it to you - he can cancel the order. He can then find out your real name and address. Don't trust subs anymore than you would a random cam guy.... unfortunately too many girls make this mistake since subs are generally far more polite, unassuming and unintrusive - that's all great and makes them fun companions, but that doesn't mean you lower your guard
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    Default Re: Advice from Online Financial (and other) Dommes needed!

    Roast is correct!

    Ooh and don't listen to the fake dommes that tell you that you have to be born a domme to this kind work. Online financial domination has little to do with REAL bdsm. We all have fake personas here. If you can role play domme then go for it. Don't listen the the bullies that tell you you have to be a real life domme to do it. Most of the time they're full of shit.

    Just FYI I know a lot of ladies that are online dommes.

    Ooh and do not add yourself as an authorized user on some strangers account. That is just stupid and asking for trouble.

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    Default Re: Advice from Online Financial (and other) Dommes needed!

    Lots of great info....

    Ill reiterate again for good measure...never use anyones login for any purpose ever.

    In all my years, Ive yet to have a guy into blackmail turn into anything but a pain in the as and a waste of my time,. and never any money out of it. 10 times out of 10, hes just going to ask a million questions "to be sure youre the one for him" about what youll do with his info, what his punishment will be, how much you think youll get from him, etc... and then starts the...oh Im so scared, I cant believe Im going to do this, you can ruin me, Im so close to giving in... Whatever.

    Work with your personality...I tried the cruel bitch when I first started, but problem is...Im not cruel or a bitch. I also hardly ever..if ever curse. I literally have to go back through what Im saying and add in curse words and it just looks rediculous and forced.

    I was always a sensual domme...until a guy made me angry then I was dropped off the face of his earth domme, guy doesnt even get the pleasure of me telling him off There is a market for that too..not all guys want to be treated cruelly, though there are many who do like that. Just market yourself for how you feel comfortable, and guys who are attracted to it will come your way.

    Also, youll find that certain types of guys will be interested in you...as you figure out what that is and find that its something you enjoy, then youve found your niche..work it! I landed on sph and cuckolding by chance...and so thats what I heavily marketed myself towards.

    I never off the bat said I expected a tribute, just isnt my style...but if after some time, like 5-10m I see that this guy is a talker or throwing out all the cliches I hear from timewasters, I tell him Im busy and move on. He will either pay up, move on, or get annoying to which Ijust block him.

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    Default Re: Advice from Online Financial (and other) Dommes needed!

    Any guy that is going to pay, is going to pay. It's a lot like most guys asking for a cam show or anything else.

    Guy: hi Mistress
    You: Hi
    Guy: how r u?
    You: Good.
    Guy: That's good to hear. I would like book a 20 min humiliation session on cam.
    You: Skype or yahoo?
    Guy: Yahoo, how do I pay?
    You: go here....do this....

    That's really it. Some will want to chat, but most that respect your time, will keep it short, or get off your IM if you indicate your busy. If they don't get off IM if you say you're busy, then they're a time waster, boot them now!

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