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Search malayataylor and you will find a ton of info on here about escorting, screening, working with an agency and working as an independent escort. She is no longer on here but her posts will help you out a lot.





Search Malaya Taylor. I doubt she's too far away.
I've posted a lot of info here about screening, how to avoid getting arrested, my past experiences. I've never been in trouble. I figure it because I didn't see anyone and everyone. I also marketed myself as VIP.
Given your situation, I would get an attorney ASAP! One that is escort friendly. Always have an attorney on call. Do you mind sharing how you were arrested? Did you screen? What it a sweep? How long were you in police custody? It would be really nice if you could share.
There are so many ways to avoid getting busted but the secret is not getting in police radar. Keep your nose clean, Treat your clients well (Do not rip them off/treat them bad/I've heard of clients setting up women they've seen due to bad business practices), Take a break when you need to (Don't be all work, enjoy the freedom escorting has to offer. Don't see 15 men a week. Don't overdo things. Don't be greedy. Don't do too much. Breathe!
Always ask for feedback from your clients.
I find that the ladies that get arrested are all work work work. They don't give themselves time off, they don't know how to screen, they don't verify screening information properly, they don't check references. They make stupid mistakes...like letting the clients do drugs at their incall!
Ex: If a guy contacts you and gives you references of all Backpage girls/girls that aren't established, have no online footprints but their ads.. RUN! (Please note: There are backpage girls and backpage advertisers .. BIG difference)
Another site that helped me out was escortdrama.com. Check out that site and review the mistakes others have made. Another thing is not staying in one area too long, Not using the same hotel too often, Not walking into the Ritz Carlton with an outfit that screams HOOKER (I have a friend that checks into hotels wearing scrubs.. brilliant!) The last group of people you want to upset is the hotel staff. Treat them well and tip well.
Again, get an attorney on your side! Understand that part first! If you do not get screening then pay someone to do it for you but do not work with an agency unless you have no problem with someone taking half or almost half of your money. That's my 10 cents. Good luck!![]()



I agree fully with TG especially the don't get greedy part. And that scrubs idea is cool! I usually do the I'm a business associate, don't bother me, I'm here on very important business look. Maybe I should try the I'm a tourist, beach dress complete with straw hat and utterly confused about my surroundings look. No, that might not be a good one lol. If you are a mid-range, I would say don't get greedy. You don't need to see so many guys a month/week/day just to live comfortable and afford leisure/nice items or maybe that's me because I am a minimalist. I'm glad this will allow me the funds and time to cam, or engage in my other interests that could lead to money making (non-adult)
Also, that sting last did make me extra paranoid, but all is well. I do believe I've had a couple of po-po contact me though. One try to disguise himself as a doctor. Good ole screening.





Well said TB. I will add more to this:
Quick story: A friend of mine uses escortsite.com for her website. I have told her not to use it but she still does because escortsite has the ability to track the "organization" that are visiting your site. There was a time she was touring jacksonville, florida and got a weird phone call. The guy kept calling her and sendnig vulgar texts. When she checked her site to see what "organizations" had been visiting her site she saw "Jacksonville Sheriff department" had visited her website several times. She immediately banned them from visiting her again. Of course they could go to another computer but at least escortsite.com gives you that option to see WHO is watching you... cool huh?
I always tell girls DO NOT USE ESCORTSITE.COM but the site if valuable in that sense. I have a wordpress site now that I am absolutely in love with. If I could find a way to track "organizations" that would be awesome! However, my screening practices are damn good so I'm not too worried.
TB, Don't use the lost tourist look. That could probably only alert them. My friend went as far as going to kinkos and making a fake hospital badge (she didn't use a real hospital's name). When she gave me the idea.. I thought "My goodness that is just brilliant". When she was driving back home to Louisiana, a cop pulled her over for speeding and gave her a warning after she told him she pulled an all-nighter at work. (Little did he know)
Last thing.. One BIG mistakes a lot of girls make is that they don't take time to research, they're not thorough in their practices and they're not punctual. If you're going to Washington, dc tomorrow, Don't just get in the car and go. Research Washington, DC!! Go to google: Type in "Busts in Washington, DC , Busts in DC area", and do that for surrounding cities. The last thing you want to do is to go to a city blind! YOu'll want to know what conventions are going on, You want to know how many girls that resemble YOU are touring that city the same time you'll be there, You'll want to know if the pope is in town... avoid staying in the same hotel as the pope please. My friend once told me that she just gets in the car and go. I do my research, I have a GPS in my car AND a map you just never know!
Most of all, Have fun! It's a fun and lucrative business.
i definitely have learned a bit about dressing the part and not as a hooker. wearing the scrubs is brilliant. will need to use that.i agree with the tipping as well!
as far as working for an agency, i do not oppose it, if i am in fact kept safe and not having to do any advertising, or screening. but its just so scary to actually know what they are in fact doing and if its worth that nice cut they all take.
escortdrama sounds neat. i will be checking that out.





I'm glad I asked why ....
Cops can LIE! Cops can LIE! Cops can LIE! They can even have sex with you in some states. The main thing is knowing about the state you are in. Knowing the laws and the consquences that comes along with being charged for prostitution.
Did you screen? I'm guessing no? If you didn't... that's why that happend.
You asked him if he was a cop as a screening method? if you did? that's a no no because again Cops can LIE and they are allowed to LIE!
He asked you about sex and you agreed. BIG mistake. You have to drill this in your mind "I am not an prostitute, I am an escort. I do not sell sex. I only sell my time". I have walked into a sting and was not arrested because I knew what to say.. and I know ........how to run. Always be firm, always say no, always deny deny deny when asked about sex. You are not there to be used as a fuck doll anyway. Those type of clients are not the ones you want to see so ... NEXT!
Another mistake you made is you did an outcall. Do not do outcall if you do not know what you are doing. That is the quickest way to get busted. When I first started the agency I worked for was outcall only so when I got on my own I preferred outcalls. I knew how to screen and knew the red flags to look for.
Ok.. here is the big secret: YOU DO NOT answer such questions.Some things i am looking to learn are:
I truly love this hobby and want to be the best i can be. The risks can be so scary though! I just wonder what you gals say to, when they ask about services? You know the question, What does that include? Are you GFE? Just have heard so many different ways to go about it, and am very uncertain about what is in fact correct.
YOU DO NOT ANSWER QUESTIONS LIKE : "Are you GFE?", Are you full service", Do you kiss?. Anything related to sex you will not answer! You just don't do it unless you are willing to go to jail. You should see my website (maybe I will share privately).. it is very vague. The only way you could tell that I spend bcd time with my clients is if you actually met me in person. Never list your reviews on your website, never talk about sex on your website... ALWAYS be vague!! Again: DO NOT ANSWER SUCH QUESTIONS! When a guy asks you such stupid question, tell him to read your website or do not contact you again. Simple! *sigh*
.Id love to see how to go about the screening in a way that makes us each comfortable. So many men that would inquire on one of my ads, would be bugged when i asked if and what other providers they have seen? Some will gladly provide the info, and others will question why and/or only have one reference if that. I read many articles by one of the names listed above and yes, they were very informative
It is all about how you market yourself. DO you have a free website you know the ones that look like this , Do you take your pictures with a camera phone/bathroom pictures?, Did you NOT spell the texts on your site correctly, Did you put stupid sayings like "Available 24/7". It all comes down to this: How did you present yourself?
When you have a professional image you will attract clients just like yourself: Profesional, respectful business men. That is all I attracted. There was one or two times I will get those one liners saying "Are you available?" or "Are you FS" but of course I ignored it.
Fact of the matter is you attract the image you put out there. What works for me won't always work for you and vice versa.. that's just the game.
Ok. Men in THIS hobby KNOW that they have to give you information to feel safe. Do not make excuses for THEM. They know that there are certain aspects of the job that is not legal. I have never had a problem with a man not wanting to give me his info. Did you list your number too? If you did remove it! Seems like you're attacting a lot of losers/ timewasters. Become email only and age gracefully. If that does not work then you are still doing something wrong. I would like to see your ads and website just to check things out if you don't mind. Seriously you have to analyze the way you are doing things for this to work for you. Most of the time it's not the men's fault its our own. We have to take a look at the way we are doing things sometimes. IF THEY DO NOT WANT TO GIVE YOU INFO, DO NOT SEE THEM! That is why it's good to always save your money. Never get to the point to where you are so desperate that you have to see that one client.. it will not end well. It never does.My problem is what do you do if they absolutely do not want to give you that information. I would love to have enough calls coming in to where, i could just say screw it, ill find another, but its been very slow even with my few regulars! I see why they would be scared by giving up the info like full name, bday, employer, ect. ! I am not sure if i would give up all of my info if i were a client either. He dosent know me either, you know?
That is why I love touring. Sometimes I couldn't make shit here where I live but I could go to Columbia, SC and make 1k before 6pm. It's truly amazing. Successful escorts tour!The volume of clients that contact me is decent, but being in this small city of Spokane, WA LOL, the volumes are in fact a lot smaller than others. I cannot re locate at this point in time, so i do need to make it work here for the time being.
No seriously get an attorney. I have an attorney and I have never used him. I have never needed him for legal reasons. YOu want an attorney on your side just incase something does happen. Ok you don't have money now? set aside an emergency fun the first 3 months of escorting. you will not regret it.id love an attorney but do not have the funds for that unfortunately. i am no longer in any legal trouble btw, not sure if i said it was a year ago.
You don't mind agencies huh? Are you willing to travel? Check out agencies like Gibson Rose Models, Aphrodite Companions, Sweetheart escorts, Glamour girls... etc. They're all reputable so is the Bella Donna but don't apply there unless you are willing to "audition. Ugh!





Yup .. big mistake on your part. YOu could have been killed also. Remember
cops aren't the only reasons why we screen. Who wants to go bcd with a Ted bundy?
Welcome to Sw! :-)i am so thankful for finding you and others like yourself who can provide your long, hard-learned insight to these topics. it more than likely took years TO GAIN ALL OF THE KNOWLEDGE that some of you gals more than likely have. so thank you so all so much. it is highly appreciated! it really is a happy Easter! LOL.
No I provide outcall. Remember I said I started with an agency that was outcall only so I felt comfortable doing outcall when I got on my own. Outcall is actually very easy for me and most of all I don't have to pay $200 for a hotel which is awesome. If you know what you are doing of course go for it but I wouldn't recommend it to someone that does not screen.i have heard many people say the same about doing outcall. i take it that it is just easy for them to set up their equipment, and make the sting? makes sense, however, so many gents will want an out call. do you provide them at all?
Again you are an escort not a prostitute. YOu sell your time, not sexual services so why would you talk about sex? Something that you are not selling? If they are agreeing to be paying your for your time then it should not come up. Any hobbyist/client that have done their research should know that.as far as communication goes, basically no sexual talk of ANy kind back, then? i have assumed this, however, many men ask so much and i feel if i don t answer or make some sort of flirt that i may loose them as a client. but i need to stop that i see. no client is worth my freedom!
Did I say I didn't provide any sexual services? I said I do not talk about any sexual services before, during or after the meet. Talking and doing are two different things. Now you're confusing me. As far as overal flow of the session? I will let you figure it out. Just read some escort blogs. It's not that hard to figure out. I won't go into that.that brings me to my next question: how does the overall flow go during the session? since your not providing any sexual services, how do you properly initiate things during the session?
Yes escortsite's org page is amazing but the site is too cookie cutter. I built my current site by myself and it looks damn good. You do not need a pay a "professional" to have a professional looking site. It's all about knowledge, learning html, knowing coding.. etc.i do not currently have a website. took it down long ago. i have had some of the free ones before through vista print & escort site.com in the past. i loved the organizations page! AMAZING! i actaully had a similiar encounter before as well! YIKES! however, even with a paid package, i feel that MOST of the sites look really amateur still. soon, i would ideally like one built for me by a professional, to ensure that it looks classy and not thrown together.
It seems that you are very confused about this industry. I will say it again. Escorting is legal. Prostitution is not. So there is nothing illegal about setting up a webite for escorting. It is illegal to accept money for sex not money for your time. Do you get it now? I did build my own website. It's hosted through hostgator. I might share it with you. I will think about it.did you build your own site? if so, what is it hosted through? id love to see your site! it would be amazing! id love to use it as inspiration in the buiiling my own here very soon.i do love making them, so it will be greatly appriciated. having a website seems to be a very important key to this hobby. havbing one has always scared me though. how is it not illegal to have a website? that is just weird to me especially if you admit that it is your in person?!
I didn't get the last part of your message. I don't show my face. I would advise against it..
You have 40 plus reviews and you are still clueless about the industry? I don't even have 10 reviews on the world wide web and I'm quite knowledgeable about this business. I think it's better if I hear your voice via phone, skype.. wanna chat?i have 40 plus glowing reviews from reputable clients in the surrounding areas of my state, from experience over the years on tours and/or my city. i did learn to never link them to my site, is that still valid? i also learned to never comment on the review posted on any site. b/c in doing so, you are admitting that you do in fact agree with what was stated in the review.
You toured not screening??touriong is something i really would love to do again. just want to get back in the saddle here and be sure i am comfortable and things are stable. then, asap, tour!Yikes. You were playing with fire. I say take the time to learn the business first this time. You still have a lot to learn. I mean you are doing something and you don't know the legalities of it. Do you know how dangerous that is? No.. really.
I wish you the best of luck. However, I'd like to talk to you over phone if you don't mind.
no i do not mind... when is a good time for you?








I never came across EscortDrama.com before but reading that shit is such an eye opener! It seems like none of them even screen which is insane to me. If I didnt screen I would be losing my mind with paranoia and would probably scare the clients away lol





I was going to suggest search Malaya Taylor or TouringGirlfriend and found that those were already suggestions!
Pamand has some good pointers on escorting too and AngelCummings did a whole thread on Sugardaddy stuff.
That's my advice. Mostly MT and TG, a little the rest.
has any one ever heard about the agency classactcompanions? they were one of the few who did want to hire me. wondering if any one has heard any good or the bad...
TG is right about setting aside an emergency fund. You need to have enough saved for at least 2 months before you even buy yourself a cup of coffee.
I've saved for 3 months now and there are sooo many things I want to treat myself to, but I won't do it until I've saved for six months!
side note: escortdesign.com also lets you track who visits you site![]()
any one else have experience with escortdesign.com?





escortdesign.com is much classier than escortsite.com. They also give you tons of marketing advice for your escort site. As for classactcompanions.com, I have no clue. I will check out the site and let you know what I think. Looking forward to chatting with you tonight.
thanks! yes let me kow what you think of it? seems ok...





Ok so I checked out classactcompanions. They are also hiring in my area. When I put the address in my browser I saw that I had looked at their website a few weeks back.
They look legit. See when dealing with agencies like this you have to screen them. I googled their phone number and this is what I came up with
I found ads like this
Sorry but I wouldn't work for a company that did half hour rates. I don't even do half hour appointments as an indy. This ad looks soooo ghetto!! They even have those ridiculous symbols.
You say why does it matter? You have to be careful with agencies and how they put you out there. Their ads aren't classy to me at all.
Then they have this ad. Same thing. I wouldn't exactly call their girls VIP.
It depends on the image you're going for but I would not work with them.
How come there aren't any pictures on the ad.
I didn't look but they also don't have an ad on EROS.
There is no TER logo nor is there any mention of TER.. so
you can only imagine the men they appeal to. I don't know .. it's a hell no for me.





Sorry to threadjack, but where on escortsite can you view who has looked at your site and how to block them? I have an escortsite and I wasn't aware of that.










Thanks TouringGirlfriend!![]()
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