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    I was working SM tonight and a guy1 took me to premium and set up c2c which is fine. Guy2 came in right after (I'd been talking to him before) and wanted to stay. Cool, the more the merrier.

    Then guy1 asked if I did dirty talk and I said I only do that in exclusive. So bad, it's not even true. I just freaked and lied. Then he left. What should I have done? I made the mistake of making a comment that there were other guys in the paid chat room my first or second day and then everyone left (guys don't like that apparently, lol).

    Should I have just said I would be happy to if we are alone but there's other guys watching? There didn't seem to be a way to work in dirty talk the way he wanted without making the other guy leave. Or maybe there was and I'm just not experienced enough.

    I really prefer one-on-one. I'm still struggling to get the group show thing down.

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    I always do what the first guy asks
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    Default Re: What should I have done?

    Yea I usually do that, I guess I just got thrown off, it was a bad call. There will be others.

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    Default Re: What should I have done?

    If it's a general type thing that I think the other guys might be into as well I go for it. If it's really specific or weird I tell the guy that I'll do it as long as there aren't any other folks in the room but "if other guys come in I don't want to alienate them and I'll have to stop. If you have fun and want to play again later it's best to pick exclusive chat so then I can just pay attention to your specific needs, no interruptions or distractions!"

    It seems like you're worried about dirty talk period. If you don't feel comfortable, don't do it. If you're just unsure how to do it there are lots of threads on how, just search.


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    ^^Yes,I had this guy in group yesterday,he just wanted to talk,talk and talk some more!! I didn't know what to do! Guys kept dipping in and out probably wondering why in the hell isn't she taking something off. I didn't want to cut the guy off,he was older and seemed like he really needed a listener or a typer(LOL) because I don't use audio. Anyway I noticed this one guy came in private like four different times! I finally wrote him the last time asking if he could wait until I came back out to free,then I would take care of him. He did just that When I came out,I told him I appreciated his patience and explained the situation. He said no problem then took me exclusive,claiming he wanted no distractions between us So if they really like you(and are not cheap!) then they will come back so that you can cater to their needs!!

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    Oh, I think you were right to do what you did. When it's one-on-one, something as personal and specific as dirty talk makes sense. But as soon as other people enter the room, I think it's best and fair to keep it as general as possible. If one user dominates, it's not fair to the others who are paying the same rate. If they have a specific request, then they should pay for the exclusivity.

    I do that all the time. I'll be in group, with just one person, and I'll say straight out that if others enter, I'll be doing my own thing. I've never had a problem with this when I make it clear.

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    I have started something on sm to help combat this thing. I make my exclusive chat rate higher than group and it never fails. I prefer the one on one chats. Less stress.

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    I think it's kind of weird to not have your exclusive rate higher than your group rate. If someone asks in free for something specific or taboo or that not everyone is going to be into, I tell them to take me exclusive. I treat group like group. Just a masturbation show. If one guy takes me first I'll probably end up paying him the most attention but I never pretend there's only one person in there if there isn't.

    Those guys probably left because a. They nutted already, or b. They're cheap.

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    Is there any way to disable group and only accept exclusive chat? That's what I want to do, bc usually I don't have more than 3 guys in group at a time so is it really even worth it? Do you girls make the majority of your money on streamate from groups or from privates?
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    You can't please everyone but you try and accomodate the first guy the guys know the site is set up where your chatting with multiple people at once and i think thier comment feature is a bad idea
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    Quote Originally Posted by TouringGirlfriend View Post
    I have started something on sm to help combat this thing. I make my exclusive chat rate higher than group and it never fails. I prefer the one on one chats. Less stress.

    Isn't that what most models do anyhow? Or did you mean to say you do the opposite: Group/Premium higher than 1-on-1/Exclusive? Because I"m thinking of doing that. I'd rather have solo sessions and try to discourage group annoyance, but at least if they pick group, I'll make more!

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    Wouldn't group earn you more?? Considering the fact that multiple guys can be in there at once.

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    Quote Originally Posted by That"MODEL"Chick View Post
    Wouldn't group earn you more?? Considering the fact that multiple guys can be in there at once.
    It could earn you more, but in my case, I get guys popping in and out of group non-stop and it drives me nuts because only one is really staying to watch a masturbation show, the rest are just freeloading peepers. Now sometimes I'll have two that stick around a bit longer to watch whole show but never have I had over 3 paying customers stay at least 5 min each.

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    Quote Originally Posted by kittykrane View Post
    I had over 3 paying customers stay at least 5 min each.
    Me either All of a sudden,I get the point.

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    Quote Originally Posted by That"MODEL"Chick View Post
    Me neither All of a sudden,I get the point.
    In my case, group is usually guys trying to get the same stuff I do in Exclusive cheaper, so why not make exclusive the less expensive option? Not sure how it will work, but it's worth a try. I'll revert back to the old way if I don't have any luck. Most of the group guys are like "ok, it's just us now, so let's do 'that thing' until someone else comes in"... Eventually they figure out they should have spent the extra money.

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    Quote Originally Posted by kittykrane View Post
    In my case, group is usually guys trying to get the same stuff I do in Exclusive cheaper, so why not make exclusive the less expensive option? Not sure how it will work, but it's worth a try. I'll revert back to the old way if I don't have any luck. Most of the group guys are like "ok, it's just us now, so let's do 'that thing' until someone else comes in"... Eventually they figure out they should have spent the extra money.
    Then guys aren't going to pay more for the show they they specifically want, they'll be paying less... it's backwards. Maybe you should work on your sales skills instead.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Juliette25 View Post
    Then guys aren't going to pay more for the show they they specifically want, they'll be paying less... it's backwards. Maybe you should work on your sales skills instead.
    Nothing wrong with the sales skills. Just want to avoid having to do groups. I have no problem getting them to upgrade to exclusive when they find out I don't do what they want me to in Group. I actually prefer the fetish shows to group stuff and wanted a way to avoid having to do group altogether.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Juliette25 View Post
    I think it's kind of weird to not have your exclusive rate higher than your group rate.
    So that works for you. That is just great! It works for me too. However, I feel that it's always great to experiment with rates. Just because something works for you doesn't mean it will work for someone else.

    Quote Originally Posted by Juliette25 View Post
    Then guys aren't going to pay more for the show they they specifically want, they'll be paying less... it's backwards. Maybe you should work on your sales skills instead.
    .... and now you are just being rude.

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    If anyone can come up with a better way to avoid groups in SM, please, let the rest of us know. All some of us are saying is that for now, the only way to avoid group is to price it higher. I'm sure that sounds dumb to some of you since yes, normally exclusive is higher, but for those of us who can't stand group to begin with, it's all we can do.

    And all I'm trying to find out is does/has this reverse idea work(ed) for anyone? Because I haven't tried it yet but I"m considering it because I'm tired of doing group shows just because some guy doesn't want to pay .50 cents more for exclusive.

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    I wasn't trying to be rude I was just very matter of fact. Sorry.

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    There is one host I know of who priced exclusive lower and she said they still clicked on private! these guys don't read. they think Private means private not group.

    I do sometimes wish there was a way to disable group. I'm tempted to try this but it's hard to decide because sometimes I do get a long group with several in it.

    What I think you would need to do is make exclusive your usual price that you want to get and price your private as high as you possibly can, and then they wouldn't click it. Be prepared for the insults though when they see the price.

    Most of these guys are not the brightest bulbs in the bin (or it's just all the blood is in their cock and nothing left for the brain). I'm surprised at how many don't realize Private = group.

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    I'm still not sure I did the right thing. Guys seem to want to pay the cheaper rate for group but want to think it's one-on-one even if it's not. That's fine, but I'm only one person. I find it difficult to talk to new people popping into my room while entertaining the guy that was there first and then requests. Maybe I just need to decide who's more important and/or who was there first and stop trying to be wonder woman.

    I'm comfortable with dirty talk, but when I do it it's very much a one-on-one "ohh it's so hot to watch you stroke that c*ck" etc. Unless I talk about what I'm doing to myself which I can do, but only in the right setting. I find guys with c2c especially want very individual attention. It's tricky. I'm still working out the kinks.

    I don't advertise BDSM but I did say I was roleplay and fetish friendly. Usually I say I'll do it in exclusive, because a lot of guys like me that aren't into that and yea I don't want to alienate vanilla guys.

    Does anyone here do anything in exclusive they don't do in premium/pvt chat?

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    Quote Originally Posted by jessatron3000 View Post
    I don't advertise BDSM but I did say I was roleplay and fetish friendly. Usually I say I'll do it in exclusive, because a lot of guys like me that aren't into that and yea I don't want to alienate vanilla guys.

    Does anyone here do anything in exclusive they don't do in premium/pvt chat?
    As far as I'm concerned roleplay and fetish should be for exclusive only. That's what one-on-one is for to me, for personal attention doing something not suitable for group shows.

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    Quote Originally Posted by laurielegs View Post
    As far as I'm concerned roleplay and fetish should be for exclusive only. That's what one-on-one is for to me, for personal attention doing something not suitable for group shows.
    Exactly.

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    I like that SM added the feature of being able to block certain states and countries...from seeing the models that is...Maybe it was on there for a while, but I just noticed it today...plus I only started like 5 days ago anyway..lol..didn't notice it before though because that was the MAIN feature I was looking for on my profile.

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