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    Default Phone/Instant MSG in Camming

    So, I am beyond frustrated. I only work one site and I do very well. I tend to chat quite a bit (frequent shows over and hour just talking) and I've developed quite a few regulars who claim to be falling in love with me. Uh huh... feel however you want about me as long as you're paying me, right?

    Anyway, I'm expensive (apparently). My rates are good because I get frequent messages from guys who can't get into my room because I'm in private chat close to 80% of my time logged in. Anyway, they send me messages asking if they can chat with me on an instant messenger site and/or begging for me to call them because they "miss me soo much" (usually with an excuse and complaint about how much I cost). I refuse to even do free chat and they keep coming back and begging (literally) for more! How do you girls handle this? I'd be willing to block my number for really good customers or even set up an instant messenger... but I feel they should be paying (well) for the priviledge... and not just by being a good customer. I mean literally paying a handsome sum for the priviledge.

    Also, is this even acceptable under the sites rules and regulations?

    How do you girls handle this? Just keep doing what I'm doing? I'd hate to be wasting an easy upsell to make more money...

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    Chatting with them outside of site u work on makes them feel important.On the other hand,some dont deserve this privilege as they wont come in pvt,thinkin that now there s no need to pay anymore and can have not only chat,but shows too,for free.
    If i were them I would not pay to chat with a girl when there are so many socialisation sites where u can chat but that would be soooo bad for our business

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    You give them an inch they take a mile is always the rule of thumb here. I have done things like this in the past only for me to get so frustrated with them that I could care less that they ever spent a dime on me again. I like keeping my work at work, and not instant messaging or calling when im not "working" it get overwhelming and too bothersome in my real life. It might make them feel important, and so much that they wont contribute in the form of tips and privates anymore, because they have your attention in your downtime. That is priceless....

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    It's one thing to promote yourself on Twitter or wherever, and interact A BIT with fans, but guys want access, lots of it, everywhere you are, and no model should be giving that away. Holding their hand and playing along with "being close with them" takes a lot more effort than rubbing your boobs on cam for 3 minutes, but when guys are spending on a regular basis, it's nice to factor-in some kind of "gift with purchase" lol.

    Having an IM account where you can spend 30 minutes or so a few times a week chatting with guys off site (and NOT just to bring up when you will be on next) is a good idea, but if you give out a number for the really big spenders, use Google Voice so you can better manage your phone time.

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    Quote Originally Posted by sactinydancersf View Post
    Anyway, they send me messages asking if they can chat with me on an instant messenger site and/or begging for me to call them because they "miss me soo much" (usually with an excuse and complaint about how much I cost). I refuse to even do free chat and they keep coming back and begging (literally) for more! How do you girls handle this? I'd be willing to block my number for really good customers or even set up an instant messenger... but I feel they should be paying (well) for the priviledge... and not just by being a good customer. I mean literally paying a handsome sum for the priviledge.

    Also, is this even acceptable under the sites rules and regulations?

    How do you girls handle this? Just keep doing what I'm doing? I'd hate to be wasting an easy upsell to make more money...
    It might get you banned on some sites. You need to check the rules (you didn't mention which site).

    When I first started camming I used to do this, but I find the more unpaid attention I gave, the less they ended up actually buying. Turned a lot of what were good customers into freeloaders, so proceed with caution.

    If I did give out a number it'd be google voice so it can be turned on and off and block numbers at will.

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    you have to train regulars from the beginning. more money = more attention, once the money stops, the attention will stop. you want more attention? gimme more money. i try to show them this. when one guy tips me a lot, i love him..he's my boyfriend, he gets all my attention... the guys are seeing this and then the next guy will tip wanting that same affection which will make the other guy jealous. I love my regulars but now if they have no tokens they'll sit in my chat room and tell me, i have no tokens now so i'll just sit and watch and not demand things of you, or they'll continue to talk as usual and they'll actually tell me that they'll contribute later for taking up my talking time in my chat room. they even refer to it as, paying for my time.. if they get my attention in my chat room and they're not tipping, they feel like they owe me. lotta times i get offline tips with messages like, "making up for my ranting..or chatting yesterday". it's really cute and i love it. i never get toooo personal to begin with though, some say they love me and ill tell them i don't love you, don't love me...i'm just a regular girl tryna get by! lol....Just don't lead them on, keep it real. A regular who's in love with you will eventually leave when he sees he's spent way too much and it's going no where. i don't know..hope this helps. don't pay attention to any of these fucks unless they're buying. you dont owe them anything outside of work.

    if a regular becomes too demanding ill just tell him im sorry i'm talking to 500 different people at once, goto private if u want to talk

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    Quote Originally Posted by xfatrabbitx View Post
    you have to train regulars from the beginning. more money = more attention, once the money stops, the attention will stop.
    CamGirl Academy
    Class 2104 -How to train your fan base.




    I was going to say something about milking members, but it sounds a bit raunchy

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