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    Question Your ideal level of contact and exposure

    what is your ideal contact and exposure situation in a club? in regards to what is available and whether different levels are available. Where do you think you make the most money where your boundaries dont feel pressed?

    My ideal club would be almost completely topless (some nude available but i will get to that). I prefer it when a standard lapdance is one way contact and grinding is allowed but nothing over the top (i.e. cap each grinding moment at like 10 seconds or so. no grinding heavy for the entire song or until the customer comes). i would prefer it if one foot remains on the floor, because this means headstands with pussy in face or girls facing a customer and just slamming their pussies into their crotch etc. during these lapdances i like it best if the customer MUST keep his hands to himself. i.e. if he even touches your calf or hip the bouncer comes over and says 'sir you may not touch the dancers here'. I like it best when these dances are in a couch area, not the roll-y chairs. i hate those.

    i also like it when there are table dances available for half price for cheap custies. i would prefer the table dances to be half price... and keep the clothes on and do very light contact to make hte customers regret being cheap.

    on stage i like topless. customers must keep hands to themselves. i like being able to do boobs in face. i think heads in crotches, both ways should be strictly banned and i think customers touching the dancers should not even be considered an option.

    in champagne rooms i like to be able to upsell contact. i think the club should offer champagne rooms where dancers are allowed to let the customers touch what they want except of course the pussy. but they should be private so a dancer can tell a custie not to touch ____ or at all if their boundaries are different and the customer wont hafta watch other boobs be groped. cameras are definitely preferred for me.

    Also in my ideal world, a nude champagne room would be an option for more money. same contact as topless.

    so your girls thoughts? what is your ideal situation in terms of contact and how you earn and what keeps you sane.
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    me: uhh... i think you are misunderstanding what a shotgun marriage means. A shotgun marriage means you knock me up and my daddy shows up at your door with a gun and forces you to marry me and raise the baby. You mean elope.
    customer: hmm... nah actually i will take the shotgun marriage. At least then we would be having sex.


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    Ideal? Full nudity on stage, topless during lapdances, and the customer can't touch me at all in any situation. I don't even like customers touching my hand to shake it.

    I'm fine with touching customers, though, as long as there is a layer of clothing between contact, my mouth and pussy doesn't touch anything of his including his clothing, nothing of mine touches his mouth, and my hand doesn't touch his clothed (or unclothed) crotch.

    Other than that, I'm fine with grinding the guy to orgasm.

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    Athena, you describe much of what my club offers...
    We are a full nude club. No spreading. No floorwork while naked onstage. Men cannot touch you onstage but you can't put your boobs in their faces either. Getting naked isn't optional. I've asked a million times to make it non-nude onstage and then we might sell more naked table dances. Which brings me to... we offer tableside and tabletop dances (fully nude). Our lapdances are topless only, one foot on the ground, 10 sec grinding rule (they don't really enforce it unless they see a girl just grinding for a whole song), one way contact, no pussy in the face, etc.. and they watch where your hands are. With our Champagne rooms they don't bother you too much up there. I try to upsell (as does everyone) by promoting the fact that I will allow light contact (everything but my pussy and boobs) Depending on the guy I may let a little boob touching go I love my club but location kills it and the many many rules. I wish they'd let us take money in our thongs or boobs onstage (I mean thats what a SC is about! LOL) I can't really think of much other rules.. They just need to loosen the reins on some things.. Otherwise, I absolutely love my club

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    I prefer 2 types of clubs and I go back and forth between an all nude byob and a topless with fullalcohol.

    Nude on stage. Nude lapdances. Contact is up to the dancer. Theyre building a VIP room and will have a rivate members area with alcohol.
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    Medium contact (able to straddle and lightly grind during dance, but they are not allowed to touch)....is that medium? I guess it's subject to opinion and location....but I consider that medium. I consider "high" contact the customer being able to touch (2-way contact and some call it)

    I also like being allowed to touch customers under their shirts....I've sold multiple dances this way for a while.

    Exposure....topless only. I don't think I'd ever have the guts to dance nude!! At the same time, alot of nude clubs are more focused on the girls and dances, as opposed to topless clubs that tend to focus on the "party" aspect too much. I do like that about nude clubs (juice bar ones at least, I can't say the same for nude clubs that serve alcohol)

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    Topless only on stage. No contact full nude lap dance. Ive never worked in a contact club, I dont think I could do it.

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    Default Re: Your ideal level of contact and exposure

    For me, I would like topless only on stage, that way nude dances would be easier to sell. No dollar dance stage either. I would also like the option to upsell contact in private rooms. So limited contact during dances, then if they get a private room, contact is up to the dancer, but no Kitty touching.

    I'd leave the grinding up to the dancer, but would draw the line at grinding to customer to completetion. That's a little excessive. The whole one foot on the floor bugs me, so I wouldn't enact that rule.
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    Fully nude on stage with no customer contact on main stages. (Obviously customer contact on NUDE LD stages/dollar stages is okay. [All LD/dollar stages have to be nude. I make like $100 on them nude... and like $20 on them topless. LOLOL])

    Nude dances ONLY with one way contact (exceptions for, like, foot fetish customers/customers paying you to sit with your clothes on and get a massage)... CR's with mild to moderate contact level decided by the girls.

    Everything in my club would be nude. LOL
    That way I could continue to run around with no panties on like I've done for the past 4 years.

    Also... I like mild contact/grinding because then... towards the end of a REALLY long shift... I can turn my back to them... put my arm against the wall of the booth, lean my head against it and half sleep while I zombie dance.
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    Topless onstage, full nude dances, contact only in v.i.p.
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    Bikini on stage. Topless lapdances (under 100 bucks). Nude lapdances for everything over 100 bucks. I feel like if the custies don't see the goods upon walking into the club, they would be willing to pay more in order to just see us naked.

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    It's interesting that many of you would prefer dances with contact. I'm guessing that's mainly because it'd be hard to sell a private dance with zero contact?

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    Default Re: Your ideal level of contact and exposure

    I have worked at clubs where the dances ranged from almost zero contact (you could touch the customer's shoulders to steady yourself, but other than that could not touch them at all) to medium contact (most girls would just grind for the entire song, but the customers were not supposed to touch). Personally I like somewhere in between this.

    The thing I didn't like about the no contact club was that yes, it was harder to sell more than one dance, and also I got sooo tired from being super careful to not let any part of my body touch the customers, I was much more worn out at the end of the shift. All that hovering over them in heels put a strain on my muscles.

    I don't want to grind but I do like to be able to drape myself over the customer a little bit to steady myself and make it more intimate.
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    Quote Originally Posted by charlie61 View Post
    It's interesting that many of you would prefer dances with contact. I'm guessing that's mainly because it'd be hard to sell a private dance with zero contact?
    its physically easier to give a dance when you can touch. being able to sit on their lap takes a lot of effort out. giving no contact dances in 8 inch stillettos is not easy... kind of like going on stage without a pole is also a task. if air dancing was the norm then they would be much easier to sell and the point would be moot, but i would still rather a club where you can give actual lapdances. plus since i am used to lapdances, during air dances i kind of just feel like i am upright wiggling my hips around and occasionally bending over. i get bored.

    when the customer is allowed to touch thats when it gets grey. i dont see why anyone would have issues with touching a customer though, assuming they were properly groomed and being polite etc. i mean i understand issues with grinding, but just giving a one way contact dance without grinding.... yea, i guess i fail to see what the issue is.
    The best thing i have heard in a strip club to date:
    customer: we should get married right now! we should get a shotgun marriage!
    me: uhh... i think you are misunderstanding what a shotgun marriage means. A shotgun marriage means you knock me up and my daddy shows up at your door with a gun and forces you to marry me and raise the baby. You mean elope.
    customer: hmm... nah actually i will take the shotgun marriage. At least then we would be having sex.


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    Quote Originally Posted by charlie61 View Post
    It's interesting that many of you would prefer dances with contact. I'm guessing that's mainly because it'd be hard to sell a private dance with zero contact?
    My answer is the same as:
    Quote Originally Posted by Athenathefabulous View Post
    its physically easier to give a dance when you can touch. being able to sit on their lap takes a lot of effort out.
    Being able to plop on their knees while straddling them is so much easier on my back and feet than standing up and leaning over them.
    And like I said in my post. At the end of the night... mostly I just zone out and zombie dance - it's much easier to distract the customer from the fact that you CLEARLY don't give a FUCK and are tired when you're giving a contact dance.
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    Quote Originally Posted by DesuvsDeath View Post
    And like I said in my post. At the end of the night... mostly I just zone out and zombie dance - it's much easier to distract the customer from the fact that you CLEARLY don't give a FUCK and are tired when you're giving a contact dance.
    this is so true... the bored stripper staring off into space look is so much more obvious when dancing in front of people instead of on them. if you are dancing in their lap and they are eye level with your boobs for a minute then you can look up and roll your eyes before maneuvering and putting the googly eyes and seductive smile back on.
    The best thing i have heard in a strip club to date:
    customer: we should get married right now! we should get a shotgun marriage!
    me: uhh... i think you are misunderstanding what a shotgun marriage means. A shotgun marriage means you knock me up and my daddy shows up at your door with a gun and forces you to marry me and raise the baby. You mean elope.
    customer: hmm... nah actually i will take the shotgun marriage. At least then we would be having sex.


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    I like topless on stage but only if people are tipping. I don't like being made to take my clothes off for free.
    I like topless dances where I can touch the customer, grind, and straddle but they can't touch me. I also prefer couch dancers. The rolly chairs are really annoying. I'm not crazy about having to keep my foot on the floor.
    I like the option of doing a nude dance for more money.
    Champagne rooms should be the only place where 2 way contact is allowed.

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    Quote Originally Posted by DesuvsDeath View Post
    My answer is the same as:


    Being able to plop on their knees while straddling them is so much easier on my back and feet than standing up and leaning over them.
    And like I said in my post. At the end of the night... mostly I just zone out and zombie dance - it's much easier to distract the customer from the fact that you CLEARLY don't give a FUCK and are tired when you're giving a contact dance.
    Hahaha, zombie dance? LOVE!

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    I've even seen girls lock their ankles around a guys neck and slam their pussy into their face, like literally hump their face roughly with their pussy.
    OMG, this makes me so thankful that my club doesn't allow contact and that the bouncers are hypervigilant about the rules -- one of my regulars got bitched at just for putting his arm around my lower back!

    I did see this pussy-humping-face move at a club in Baltimore, except the girl was doing it doggy style, though she did have a g-string on. Stlll icky. Sorry you have to put up with that shit!

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    Quote Originally Posted by charlie61 View Post
    It's interesting that many of you would prefer dances with contact. I'm guessing that's mainly because it'd be hard to sell a private dance with zero contact?
    I might be alone in this, but I think it is much easier to pull more money out of a customer without giving contact. This leaves them wanting more, and wondering how much they have to pay in order to get you in their lap, lol.

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    Quote Originally Posted by BringOnTheMen View Post
    Oh I forgot- no contact stage side!!! Almost all of the girls at my club will hop off stage to do nude lapdances during their set-WTF??! I've even seen girls lock their ankles around a guys neck and slam their pussy into their face, like literally hump their face roughly with their pussy. None of that at my ideal contact club!
    OMG i HATE that. fortunately my club has a rule that half you body needs to be on the stage... so no hopping into a customers lap with your hand on the stage and saying you are still on stage.

    and humping a guys face--- that should never be allowed. anywhere. the pussy should not be allowed to touch the face... ESPECIALLY when a girl is nude.
    The best thing i have heard in a strip club to date:
    customer: we should get married right now! we should get a shotgun marriage!
    me: uhh... i think you are misunderstanding what a shotgun marriage means. A shotgun marriage means you knock me up and my daddy shows up at your door with a gun and forces you to marry me and raise the baby. You mean elope.
    customer: hmm... nah actually i will take the shotgun marriage. At least then we would be having sex.


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    I actually really like the way my club is set up. Fully nude onstage, bikini lapdances. The stage has a moat-type area around it that separates the tip rail a few feet away from it, so you don't get too close to customers while nude. I have noticed that the contact level during lapdances is a little higher than places with topless dances (no contact), but as long as they are spending at least $100 in the VIP and aren't grabbing or touching kitty/boobs I don't really mind it because I am clothed. I wear a thick bra and a g-string under my thong so all my lady parts are protected!

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    I think it's important for me to be free to do self defense style dancing. This means aggressive full contact (dancer only) lap dances. Boobs in the face? Yes - at least for a couple of seconds. Licking of boobs NO!!!! Guys love to get boobs in the face. So what. Remember this is the year 2011 not 1911 or 1811. People who are offended by boobs and lap dances should not go to a booby bar.

    I don't think guys should be able to touch anywhere except my legs or feet and hands or arms. Table dances encourage sexual assualt and even rape. It also encourages prostitution.

    I think guys should be told at the door that they will be kicked out for solicitation of prostitution.
    I think guys should get a lap dance certicate as part of the entrance fee. They should also be told that conversation is 1/2 the price of a lap dance. I think clubs should hire go go dancers for stage so strippers can focus on lap dances and vip.

    I prefer topless.
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    Speaking of stage and contact, I was going to post this as a thread but I thought this was pretty funny . I loathe customers who come up to stage and just stand there, dollar-in-hand. It turns into this awkward situation where I refuse to do anything shy of a booty shake for...a dollar? Come on. To answer your question:

    Ideal situation would be - top ON stage, topless (and min/low contact) OFF stage, higher contact in private, high contact/nude (no contact) in VIP...

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    Quote Originally Posted by ZePeanut View Post
    Nude lapdances for everything over 100 bucks. I feel like if the custies don't see the goods upon walking into the club, they would be willing to pay more in order to just see us naked.
    I agree that clubs should not have strippers on stage unless the custies put enough money in a stage jar. The way most clubs are now just encourages sleezy people to take advantage.
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    So why do clubs allow us to go on stage with out getting any money in a stage jar? It defies all common sense and it's bad for business. No one can make money off of slime balls. That is just gullible, wishful thinking.

    I am not comfortable with nude lapdances because of STD issues. Nude table dance ok but only with bouncer supervision. I hate topless table dances because I have dealt with the awful consequences of this - attempted rape and actual rape.
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    Quote Originally Posted by loren View Post
    I agree that clubs should not have strippers on stage unless the custies put enough money in a stage jar. The way most clubs are now just encourages sleezy people to take advantage.......So why do clubs allow us to go on stage with out getting any money in a stage jar? It defies all common sense and it's bad for business.
    I will NEVER understand why dancers have this attitude.
    Do you really think that immediate pressure to spend spend spend the second a customer walks in the door is going to create a relaxed atmosphere where people have a good time and want to come back?

    Furthermore... what happens on day shift?
    plenty of customers don't like to be the first/only guy there. They walk in... see they're the only guy and leave. Of the guys who don't mind it... What do you really think is going to happen when they get their drink, sit down waiting for stage to start up only to find out that they have to pay $5 every time they want someone to go on stage?
    ...They're probably going to go "Wait, so I'm the only guy here... so I have to treat all these bitches like a charity case and GIVE them money even if I don't like them...? This is stupid." Then they're going to leave.

    No one is going to pay cover + drink charge + money to keep the stage going... certainly not with the LOW AS FUCK standards clubs have for hiring these days.
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