i'm in my early 20s, single and i meet alot of guys like most of us. i don't bring up dancing to quick. i've noticed guys either get really happy (sugar momma /hot chic) or they get really disgusted. recently i've been meeting guys who enjoy going out to strip clubs and i sorta have a problem with that. i don't care about him looking at naked women, but my mind starts to question things. i start wondering if he's really a good man? is he a trick? does he just buy girls stuff? is he a john... ? so many things come to mind. maybe i'm being to harsh? i understand men are men but i feel like if a man is truly ready to settle down that he wouldn't be up in the club. then to i start to wonder what type of man truly enjoys going to watch girls and get taken advantage of. most dancers aren't giving up anything unless the feel its going to benefit them in some way.. so that leaves him only to be a sucker or he pays for ass. now once in awhile with the boys is ok i guess.. but if its a regular thing that they do... i feel like we aren't on the same level mentally.



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