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    Would you marry someone if you knew it would get you ahead?

    Would you do it if you weren't attracted to the person or weren't in love at all but they were in love with you?

    I am curious what you guys think.

    Maybe I should make this a poll, but I don't know how and probably wouldn't check it anyway, lol.

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    I personally wouldn't. Just not my style, plus that money comes with a huge emotional price tag. It isn't free.

    Also sometimes it seems to me men like this think they own you because they are supporting you. I'd go ballistic the first time he tried to tell me what I can and can't do.

    I'll take my online admirers any day over giving up that much.

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    I wouldn't.

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    Totally depends on the motives and transparency. If he knew what my motives where and I were completely honest, and he were ok with that? hell yeah. If he didn't, no way jose. I'm a terribly actress and have major trust issues on my own (thanks, daddy!) so I wouldn't want to put myself in that position. I wish I were that kind of master manipulator sometimes, but in the end I think the bad karma wouldn't be worth it.

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    No, I wouldn't. I think it would be over once I start cheating anyway.lol

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    Depends. How far ahead in life would it really get me? Do they plan on taking care of me financially? Would they still let me be free to do as I pleased(camming not cheating)? I know that in other countries they used to have "arranged marriages",not sure if they still do. I think that after sometime you'd grow to love/care about that someone and it could turn out to be everything you've always hoped for. If you give it some time and it still doesn't...divorce his a**!!

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    It all depends on the specifics of the situation. Let's just say money is a factor that I might take into account... enough to tip the scales from someone that I get along with or could be a friend to someone I might marry. Also, if I'm still allowed to fuck the maid, that's an added bonus.
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    I guess it would work if the guy was a cuckold, or the woman was a heartless bitch, lol. Nine times out of ten the guy is still going to want something from you that you just can't give him (even if you were up-front about it before getting married).

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    I already did and I left him as soon as I spent all his $$$$$$$

    Would I do it again? Probably not.
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    If you're up front about the reason - what's the point in the marriage lol

    Just split the cash , and fuck him from time to time in return !

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    No I knew a woman who married for money and she was one of the most miserable people i've ever met! Sure she had a nice house/car/job because of him..but it really wasn't worth it. I'd rather just start escorting again! way simpler

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    Anecdotal experience tells me that the only person you can count on is you. Perhaps you marry for money and then you find that he's lost it all in the stock market or in a tax problem. Fuxored.

    Then you're hitched to a guy you don't really like. Thought you'd hooked that cart to a star but it's really a mule.

    OTOH, all us girls here know just how sexy money and power can be. Perhaps a significant part of your potential partner's allure is that he can keep you in the lap of luxury. Then if he loses it you're in the same boat as if you'd liked his long golden locks only to find him prematurely balding. So I suppose you've got to either like him enough anyway or get a good, "get out of jail free" card


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