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    Dizzy Done with PP's, not sure if I can transition to clubs.

    Things with my PP company have gone down the shitter. i'm not going to give many details because i don't want to get in trouble if its seen on here.

    but ANYWAYS... i'm pretty much done with that.

    i was a top girl at my company, and private parties are MUCH different clubs. you usually only go with 1 other girl, there is usually an event such as a bachelor party/birthday party, whatever, and the show is kind of run on a schedule. we are there for about an hour and a half as long as they are throwing money, and if they are not throwing, the show is shortened. lapdances were contact (guys could touch anything above the waist) and there was lots of grinding. NO extras. i was very comfortable and confident in my lap dances, abilities, looks, etc in private parties.

    now that i want to move on to a club, i'm worried that i'm not going to be able to make it. or be successful at least. i don't know how to dance on a stage (floorwork) and i know some pole moves, all of them except any climbing moves or upside down moves. i don't know how to sell a dance cuz in private parties the bouncer would just announce "if you want a dance, put the money on your lap and the girls will come around". i have NO sales skills.

    so i'm good looking and have good lapdances but i have no sales skills, and no floorwork skills. i'm afraid i'm gonna look like an idiot on stage and not know how to sell a dance.

    do you think i can't make it in the clubs or i'll learn and figure it out?


    thank you..

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    Default Re: Done with PP's, not sure if I can transition to clubs.

    To me it sounds like you'll basically be a newb, except with way more industry insight and access to information (SW!!). I don't see why you wouldn't be able to make it! Just expect a learning curve, and be patient with yourself.

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    Sorry to hear that you arent happy, dont worry about stripping - the sale skills will come to you. I can honestly say, a few times I have worked, I talk to NO customers, they all go to me. I just walk around smiling looking good and they came up to me. But this truely depends on the club. Dont stress yourself too much, everything will come by itself. Most girls here dont do anything but show their ass and tits on stage, and hustling a guy will come itself. Just be friendly, do the common as if your on a date and act interested, flirt and touch them followng up by "Lets go for a dance!". Dont stress yourself, look confident men will react to that.

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    Default Re: Done with PP's, not sure if I can transition to clubs.

    At least you have experience in the industry. You will be fine! Think about the girls with absolutely no experience starting in a club. Find a club that you feel comfortable with and go for it! good luck!
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    Default Re: Done with PP's, not sure if I can transition to clubs.

    Quote Originally Posted by Kisca View Post
    Sorry to hear that you arent happy, dont worry about stripping - the sale skills will come to you. I can honestly say, a few times I have worked, I talk to NO customers, they all go to me. I just walk around smiling looking good and they came up to me. But this truely depends on the club. Dont stress yourself too much, everything will come by itself. Most girls here dont do anything but show their ass and tits on stage, and hustling a guy will come itself. Just be friendly, do the common as if your on a date and act interested, flirt and touch them followng up by "Lets go for a dance!". Dont stress yourself, look confident men will react to that.

    haha true i forgot that most of the time the guys come to you. i went to a strip club on my 21st birthday and got approached for dances twice and i had to explain i wasn't working there, i was a customer. LOL.

    i'll figure it out. i just have to convince my bf to let me work in clubs. he says i'm not gonna make as much money there as i did in PP's and that i'm gonna be bitching about it.

    i'd rather make less money and have to deal with less drama and everything being so sporadic... i've had nights in PP's where i've made $30 and nights where i've made $1600. there is no schedule, its all when parties are scheduled. i can get called on a Tuesday at 8 pm and have them say "leave your house NOW we have a 3 hr ride to wherever" and not get home until 6 am on wednesday, earliest, regardless of if i made money or not.

    i'd rather make half the money and know when i'm working. have actual SHIFTS. and know where i'm GOING every night.

    plus i want to just dance and dance on stage and get naked... not do girl on girl shows, toy shows, whipped cream shots, etc. i'm sick of that shit. i've had too many guys bite my nipples and i dont want ANYONE touching my nipples with their mouth. ew.

    i'm just ready for a change.

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    Default Re: Done with PP's, not sure if I can transition to clubs.

    ^ I hear you that you're ready for a change, but don't be expecting sunshine and rainbows. Working in a club is rough. I'm not trying to get you down, but be mentally prepared for that.

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    Default Re: Done with PP's, not sure if I can transition to clubs.

    Quote Originally Posted by charlie61 View Post
    ^ I hear you that you're ready for a change, but don't be expecting sunshine and rainbows. Working in a club is rough. I'm not trying to get you down, but be mentally prepared for that.

    yeah. my bf's main point is that at pp's i am only competing against one girl. at the clubs i'm looking at, i'll be competing against 30 and it will be different and difficult. so that's why i'm worried i won't be able to make the transition... not worried about my looks but more worried about the hustle, club environment, and my lack of sales skills...

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    Default Re: Done with PP's, not sure if I can transition to clubs.

    any other advice for me to prepare for working in a club? i will probably audition at an amateur night in 3 weeks or so.

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    Default Re: Done with PP's, not sure if I can transition to clubs.

    ^ The biggest different will be learning to ABC--Always Be Closing. You'll always want to be looking for ways to steer the conversation towards getting the customer to buy a dance (without directly asking him for a dance, which allows him to say no).

    Read up in Hustle Hut! You'll quickly learn what works and what doesn't if you pay attention.

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    Quote Originally Posted by charlie61 View Post
    ^ The biggest different will be learning to ABC--Always Be Closing. You'll always want to be looking for ways to steer the conversation towards getting the customer to buy a dance (without directly asking him for a dance, which allows him to say no).

    Read up in Hustle Hut! You'll quickly learn what works and what doesn't if you pay attention.

    oooh ABC... that seems like a big thing to remember... i'll keep that in mind. and i'll definitely read up in hustle hut.

    thank you!

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    Default Re: Done with PP's, not sure if I can transition to clubs.

    Let us know how it goes!!

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    Default Re: Done with PP's, not sure if I can transition to clubs.

    Its why private party companies suck unless theyre really buy all the time and very few are witho9ut being escort services.

    I only do privates to supplement my income.

    You should do okay. Clubs dont have the guaranteed fees that companies say they do which is always their scams anyway but you will have opportunity to make money!
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