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    Sooooo I have this addiction- it's called working waaaay too much! I never go out, I don't go on crazy trips or party at all, but I'm always getting comments and advice from all my friends and family to stop working so much.. Here's the problem- I have the mentality of a true hustler. I always look at it like TIME IS MONEY. "Why am I sleeping? I should be getting ready for work!" "Why would I go out and party? I'm 24, I will have time for that later, I need to go to work!" "Why would I spend the evening with my family? I could be at work making bank!" etc...

    I don't know how to take a day off. If I take a day off, I have anxiety that I'm wasting my time and I should be at work. My boyfriend is on the verge of leaving me, my parents have given up on trying to call me, and my friends consist of the club dj, a couple other dancers, and my regular customers. I just don't know how to pull myself away. Any advice?
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    Quote Originally Posted by sunnyb View Post
    My boyfriend is on the verge of leaving me, my parents have given up on trying to call me, and my friends consist of the club dj, a couple other dancers, and my regular customers.
    one simple phrase is all you need to hear....

    "money can not buy happiness"

    would you really be happy being wealthy without your b/f or friends or family?

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    I think you need some balance in your life.

    A true hustler knows when to take a step back.

    Unless you're feeding an expensive habit or not making any money, take a break and learn to handle your finances.

    If you're not finished with school or want to start a business look into it.




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    I'm kinda like that too, plus I also have a lot of friends and fun at work so it is almost like socializing.. but here's my suggestion: why don't you decide for 2 days/nights (seems reasonable) off a week and stick to them consistently so it becomes a habit and you'll be able to dedicate those days to friends and family? I used to find that when I wasn't on a schedule i'd start to go crazy over it and every time I was out with friends etc. and it turned out to be a bad night I got really mad and was like "I could've made money" or I'd think "tonight better be worth my time cause I could me making x $ instead of sitting at home" and I would get antsy and think if I could still go in (crazy lol)

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    Quote Originally Posted by Stripper Hacks View Post
    I think you need some balance in your life.

    A true hustler knows when to take a step back.

    Unless you're feeding an expensive habit or not making any money, take a break and learn to handle your finances.

    If you're not finished with school or want to start a business look into it.
    So true. I was the same way...I worked part-time at a couple of clubs in the past but would work double shifts since I didn't work everyday. It got to the point where I was so tired from working that I couldn't stay focused on school and ended up dropping my classes. All I thought about was money, but in the end, I was miserable. If you don't have that balance you'll burn out very easily.

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    I don't think there is a damn thing wrong with it if you are saving. this is what girls SHOULD be doing. getting the money while you can. i mean it wouldnt hurt to take a day off for the boyfriend or something but otherwise get that money!
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    I agree^ I wish I had the energy to be a workaholic, especially in this business.

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    Quote Originally Posted by sunnyb View Post
    Sooooo I have this addiction- it's called working waaaay too much! I never go out, I don't go on crazy trips or party at all, but I'm always getting comments and advice from all my friends and family to stop working so much.. Here's the problem- I have the mentality of a true hustler. I always look at it like TIME IS MONEY. "Why am I sleeping? I should be getting ready for work!" "Why would I go out and party? I'm 24, I will have time for that later, I need to go to work!" "Why would I spend the evening with my family? I could be at work making bank!" etc...

    I don't know how to take a day off. If I take a day off, I have anxiety that I'm wasting my time and I should be at work. My boyfriend is on the verge of leaving me, my parents have given up on trying to call me, and my friends consist of the club dj, a couple other dancers, and my regular customers. I just don't know how to pull myself away. Any advice?
    Ill trade you lives. I hate going into work. I always want to hang out with friends but they're always busy and I would kill for a (attractive) bf who wants to spend every second with me
    Last edited by lagirl; 04-26-2011 at 09:14 PM.

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    Quote Originally Posted by velvet View Post
    I don't think there is a damn thing wrong with it if you are saving. this is what girls SHOULD be doing. getting the money while you can. i mean it wouldnt hurt to take a day off for the boyfriend or something but otherwise get that money!
    i'm the same way. i wish i could put school on hold and just go full blast in the stripping world but my situation won't allow for that right now... family is paying for my college and they won't let me take a break/go when i'm older and still pay for it. so if i want an education (and no student loans), i have to do it now.

    so this whole school year i've been going full time, working an average of 3-4 nights a week with an average of 8-12 hours a night, and trying to sleep and stay sane in between.

    HMMMMPHH!!!



    but at least i got boobs, laser hair removal, and tomorrow i am starting zerona.

    this summer i'll be off from school and i'm gonna make things happen.


    to the OP... i understand how much you love to work. if it makes you happy, work all the time, but take 1 day off each week--preferably the slowest day of the week for your club. use this as a "you" day to catch up with friends, family, and ur bf. some people have mentioned burnout, but if it happens, just take a break! its that simple. relax and recharge. since you are a workaholic, you will have enough saved up to be able to afford a break.

    do ur thing. do what makes you happy.

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    Im just like you girl, and I think its great. I work my pretty little buns to the bone while I am at work, if Im not there all I think about is how I would be doing if I WAS there. My boyfriend hates it, but he doesn't pay my bills so I don't care!

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    I agree with a lot these ladies have said, definitely do what makes you happy. Weigh out your pros and cons, is it worth it to lose your boyfriend, friends, and family over how much you make in ONE night? Take one day/night to catch up, make some phone calls, and make sure you don't end up rich and lonely (unless that's your thing). I really wish I had as much drive and energy as you. I'd love to work everyday!
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    but at least i got boobs, laser hair removal, and tomorrow i am starting zerona.
    I've been looking into Zerona, please let us know how it goes!

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    I don't mean to threadjack but what exactly is zerona? I briefly looked it up but am still a little confused about what it does. you can PM me about it or start a new thread if you don't want to ruin the topic in this thread.

    To the OP: maybe try taking a one time, two-day break and spend one day with your family & friends and the other with your boyfriend just to see how you feel. Maybe you will find that the rest and time with your loved ones is nice and refreshing, maybe you will find that it only causes more anxiety. Either way making that change in your normal routine could help you to identify what drives you to work so much.
    Follow your heart and do what feels right for you, because that’s living. Everything else is dying.

    “Things may come to those who wait…but only the things left by those who hustle.”

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    Quote Originally Posted by phoenixxxrising View Post
    I don't mean to threadjack but what exactly is zerona? I briefly looked it up but am still a little confused about what it does. you can PM me about it or start a new thread if you don't want to ruin the topic in this thread.

    To the OP: maybe try taking a one time, two-day break and spend one day with your family & friends and the other with your boyfriend just to see how you feel. Maybe you will find that the rest and time with your loved ones is nice and refreshing, maybe you will find that it only causes more anxiety. Either way making that change in your normal routine could help you to identify what drives you to work so much.

    i actually started a topic on it a while ago in body business and no one replied to it :/ but i am starting today so when i'm done i'll be sure to post before and after pics and talk about my experience

    **end threadjack** sorry!!

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    I wish I could think the same way you do! I only work two days a week cuz Im lazy and hate it. You are in your prime once in life so maximize it. But you do need to put some time aside for friends and family or they will resent you.

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