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    Default i need some motivation and encouragement folks!

    argh. i feel so furstrated lately. i have almost 2000 followers on twitter yet i feel like only other models respond to my posts. i have a blog that i feel like no one looks at.

    i make decent money but its all passive so i feel so bored and have nothing to occupy myself with. im getting really burnt out on WCC with the demanding "open boob bb" guys and freeloaders despite the nice income from the group shows. i just feel like im wasting so much time and effort for nothing. i cant gain a fanbase on there, because there isnt really anyone that speaks good english or has a lot of cash that would want to follow me.

    My other site is also dead as a doornail, and im just there for the hourly honestly. i guess im just feeling uninspired, bored to tears and irritated.

    it sounds like im just sick of my sites, but since im supporting myself soley on camming im afraid to try anything new.

    when i danced it seemed most girls didnt stay at a club for more then a year or two tops. cam sites it seems like the number is more like 3 to 6 months!

    i dont know. i need some ideas, ,motivation, or something, i dont know. maybe i should give streamate a go since everyone talks up all the money they make there.

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    Default Re: i need some motivation and encouragement folks!

    I'm having the same issue as you honey. I make good money when i can be arsed to get on cam, but i do find it boring and uninspiring. I'm going to sit down tomorrow and write a list of the reasons i got into this in the first place, and all the good things i have going for me in this line of work. I'm also going to kick start my day with a run to get my brain and body moving. Good luck, I'll be following your post with interest (i just posted one nearly the same lol)

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    Default Re: i need some motivation and encouragement folks!

    Not to discourage you girl but in streamate is the same 95% of them are americans

    Hi bb
    how are you BB
    ass bb
    show bb
    open boob bb

    the only place i found out that there was no open boob bb guys was in adultwork.

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    Default Re: i need some motivation and encouragement folks!

    well at least they are american and speak english. i dont have that luxury on wcc. lol.

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    Default Re: i need some motivation and encouragement folks!

    oh yeah? is it a foreing page?

    on streamate it is the same shit if they speak english or not, allways seems they are typing with one hand and can't think right lol

    i just don't pay attention to that anymore and take their money lol

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    Default Re: i need some motivation and encouragement folks!

    Quote Originally Posted by Geeky View Post
    i just don't pay attention to that anymore and take their money lol
    Oh yeah!!! Taking their money is both motivational and encouraging

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    Default Re: i need some motivation and encouragement folks!

    I'm definitely new, but I have to say the quality of guys on Streamate cannot be beat, and if you're good at what you do, you can charge a lot more per minute so that makes up for the low percentage! I rarely get asked to show ass or pussy or boob, and I'm almost always in group or private - in fact the only times I'm not is when I'm rehydrating or something.

    So get your paperwork in to get approved, and don't give up! I just started SM last Thursday, and if you put in the hours and use the HD Encoder and offer phone and audio, you will be too busy to be bored

    So if you want to be with me
    With these things there’s no telling
    We just have to wait and see
    But I’d rather be working for a paycheck
    Than waiting to win the lottery
    Besides maybe this time is different
    I mean I really think you like me

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    Default Re: i need some motivation and encouragement folks!

    @Geeky

    lol I did not refresh! The AW guys are great in that way, but I cannot get a steady stream! I've never made more than $50/day there, and I do the same thing I do in SM - I offer free chat (my prices are lower, is that impacting it?), I've tried paying for better placement, I used to keep a regular schedule with it, EVERYTHING! Now I feel stupid

    So if you want to be with me
    With these things there’s no telling
    We just have to wait and see
    But I’d rather be working for a paycheck
    Than waiting to win the lottery
    Besides maybe this time is different
    I mean I really think you like me

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    Default Re: i need some motivation and encouragement folks!

    is phone really important? audio is fine but ive never been comfortable with phone.

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    Default Re: i need some motivation and encouragement folks!

    phone is just the same as regular audio, except the dude doesn't have to type and you only have one hand to work with! I actually prefer it because I would much rather do what the client wants, knowing I'm making him happy, than guess and be wrong, or just do my own thing while he's satisfied but not TOTALLY OUT OF HIS MIND PLEASED because he can't be bothered to type with his other hand.

    so essentially, I'd call phone good customer service plus it's a nice upsell for exclusive

    So if you want to be with me
    With these things there’s no telling
    We just have to wait and see
    But I’d rather be working for a paycheck
    Than waiting to win the lottery
    Besides maybe this time is different
    I mean I really think you like me

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    Default Re: i need some motivation and encouragement folks!

    In my experience guys usually get off faster if you are using phone. Sometimes it is more awkward for me though like if they say something I don't know how to respond to or something that weirds me out... I guess you get used to it though.

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    Default Re: i need some motivation and encouragement folks!

    i reread my OP, and its obvious the problem. im not being challanged at all becuase im doing so little for the money that its boring me to tears. also i hate working days and i am working days right now for the sake of my relationship. also i dont have a dedicated cam room which i think would help me out a lot. so apparently i need to

    -get a cam room together
    -cut back on my time on wcc (from 3 hours of free chat to 1)
    -possibly work nights
    -start working SM
    -quit the hourly site, because it just irritates me.

    yep that should do the trick.

    funny how writing things out sorts things in your head better

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    Default Re: i need some motivation and encouragement folks!

    I work only days too, and trust me if you put in the effort on SM and have high enough prices, you'll be fine. I cam on my bed. I figure, my bedroom is already pretty, it lends to the GFE/naughty girl-next-door fantasy I try to provide, so why spend all that extra money?

    Although I totally get that you may uncomfortable camming on the same bed you and your SO get down and dirty on - but definitely don't NEED to have that - maybe try rearranging, or invest in some different linens or something - much cheaper than setting up a whole new space. You'll figure it out!!

    YOU CAN DO IT!!!!

    So if you want to be with me
    With these things there’s no telling
    We just have to wait and see
    But I’d rather be working for a paycheck
    Than waiting to win the lottery
    Besides maybe this time is different
    I mean I really think you like me

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    Quote Originally Posted by crispy View Post
    argh. i feel so furstrated lately. i have almost 2000 followers on twitter yet i feel like only other models respond to my posts. i have a blog that i feel like no one looks at.
    I think half of the blogging world feels this same anguish. I know I do.
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    Default Re: i need some motivation and encouragement folks!

    You can doo eet! I feel like lots of us go through this stuff. I felt the same way a few weeks ago and then I took a trip out to LA and did some modeling, some different stuff for a while and now I feel better. Doing different stuff for a bit could help.

    But it looks like you've got it figured out now. I knew you'd do it. You've got your shit together.


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    Quote Originally Posted by dixievista View Post
    I'm definitely new, but I have to say the quality of guys on Streamate cannot be beat, and if you're good at what you do, you can charge a lot more per minute so that makes up for the low percentage! I rarely get asked to show ass or pussy or boob, and I'm almost always in group or private - in fact the only times I'm not is when I'm rehydrating or something.

    So get your paperwork in to get approved, and don't give up! I just started SM last Thursday, and if you put in the hours and use the HD Encoder and offer phone and audio, you will be too busy to be bored
    you made me lol with this post. You are still new wait till you get asked to play with your pussy in free chat to get them hard so they can go private. I have been there for 8 months just give it time.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Ms.Lacey View Post
    you made me lol with this post. You are still new wait till you get asked to play with your pussy in free chat to get them hard so they can go private. I have been there for 8 months just give it time.
    I hope you're wrong - 8 hours yesterday and I was only in free for maybe 30 minutes, nobody had a chance to beg. Granted besides SM I've only worked AW and MFC - AW is a ghost-town, even though I offer free chat and am online during peak hours, MFC NOBODY GOES PRIVATE EVER so it's constant begging

    So if you want to be with me
    With these things there’s no telling
    We just have to wait and see
    But I’d rather be working for a paycheck
    Than waiting to win the lottery
    Besides maybe this time is different
    I mean I really think you like me

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    Quote Originally Posted by crispy View Post
    well at least they are american and speak english. i dont have that luxury on wcc. lol.
    That site made me hate camming and is the reason I've completely quit. Like. Completely. It's so sad because I used to love it. Good luck babe

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    Default Re: i need some motivation and encouragement folks!

    i dont hate it becuase of the group shows but yea. free chat can suck a dick.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Ms.Lacey View Post
    you made me lol with this post. You are still new wait till you get asked to play with your pussy in free chat to get them hard so they can go private. I have been there for 8 months just give it time.

    I got that my very first day, ugh! I instantly ban anyone who asks for free pussy play and am slowly weeding out the beggars. (those types won't pay anyway so why not ban em).

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