They really didn't give him a chance to defend himself here. Boo to CNN and those anchors that likely came from privileged backgrounds and cast judgment on him!
http://www.cnn.com/video/#/video/us/...stitution.cnn?




They really didn't give him a chance to defend himself here. Boo to CNN and those anchors that likely came from privileged backgrounds and cast judgment on him!
http://www.cnn.com/video/#/video/us/...stitution.cnn?
"Where there is love there is life"-Mahatma Gandhi
"Be The Best, F!ck The Rest"- P.P.

I just made one of these accounts and the men are so creepy :[




Lol, they really are!
Also, do you girls know if there's a message restriction to how many messages we can receive in one day? I looked at the site and it says I've received 74 (in one day, omg....) but I've only gotten 40 in my inbox. Kind of odd.
Ohh just watched this! Wow I don't actually feel to bad for Mr. Wade. He knows that most likely 80% of the males that sign up are looking for cheap hookers that are naive and gullible. I think If I didn't read though half these threads I probably would have met the very first guy to contact me. Let's be honest here I mean most of the immediate contacts will be from some guy that's just about the goods nothing more and he'll offer as little as possible if he think he can get it for cheap.
Realistically a girl struggling with some school bills can easily sleep with about 10 guys and make about $3,000-$40,000 tax free money. Now of course I wouldn't do it , but for those that are open to the idea , they're in the right place. Actually if I was a prostitute or an escort I would sign up on this site and get to work.
I've noticed some news stories about SA and I'm writing an article about it, so I made my profile "public" on there again.
I wouldn't show my face, you can blur it and have additional pictures that are private and let guys see them when you're ready. Expect a shitload of emails from guys saying NO MORE than "can I see your private photos." Ummmm no! They are private because I wanna vet you first.
I know many dancers are adamant about not prostituting and others are perfectly cool with it; it all depends on what your comfort level is and whether you're willing to go above and beyond in the interest of higher earnings. SD/SB relationships are soft prostitution and I think, from a girl's standpoint, it's easier for us to swallow because it's relatively monogamous compared to escorting. Many girls on SD sites have multiples sugars at the same time, not just one, and I can see why, plus I had 2 at once at one point.
There are tons of pros on SD sites, one guy I met talked about his weeding through all the "russian hookers." I had an advantage over, let's say russians, because I had no foreign accent and was more 'girl next door' from his native Boston.
I guess it's all about target marketing; if you're ok with behaving more like an escort, find the SA guys who are looking for one they're willing to compensate in a proportionate escort manner by the hour (300-500) Most SD guys wanna pay "per meeting" which means a fixed predictable amount, but no running a clock. It's like pulling teeth to get a monthly allowance, I only got 2 guys to do that and others paid per meeting; that's where they're most like johns, they wanna sample the goods and give you 400-500 or whatever, but don't count on them month after month.
Some SD's don't want escorts cause they are actually the genuine type of sugar daddy who wants to build a rapport and mentor etc. Others don't want escorts cause they know escorts are less gullible and spoiled by hourly expectations of 300+
Once a guy offered me 150 to fuck on SA, not gonna happen buddy! So insulting.
So if you want a real sugar daddy, try to differentiate yourself from escorts, but realize sex will be involved sooner than a traditional dating relationship and you won't be holding yourself back like trying not to fuck before the 3rd-5th date with a hot young guy!
If you're comfortable with escorting, SD sites can help, but half the guys profiles are like "you shouldn't be a pro supplementing her income" I discussed this with a professional companion in her mid-40s and she does well on those sites, being older and wiser with more experience. She's in Texas around Austin/Dallas, which is a great place for independent escorts etc...so she may have more luck than girls in other markets, but she clearly has learned to make her luck.
That woman says many men respond positively if you simply state hourly rates. You have to filter through the spam and I find that process tedious.
Be careful about guys wanting, not only cheap hookers, but trying to coerce you into unprotected sex. That's the danger of SD/SB pay for play. If you're not a true blue escort, the man assumes you are clean of STD's and more open to unprotected sex. Also, disproportionate demand for anal sex :/ all set with that.
PS if a girl is comfortable with "soft" prostitution, I'll warn you that you have to waste lots of time on SA and it gets frustrating.
If you are ok with escorting, I'm happy to offer some advice via private message. I know a thing or two about reputable agencies in the Northeast and how to discretely go about it independently. Crossing that line with your dancing customers is not the way to go, though I know you all get propositioned all night! As do I.

I read a fascinating article about seekingarrangement.com in The New York Times a couple of years ago. When I saw it mentioned here I thought I would post a link. It's kind of a long article, but well researched and interesting. Here's the link: http://www.nytimes.com/2009/04/12/ma...nts.com&st=cse

Oh wow, really? They think the men are being manipulated? I've never heard that side. I always hear from people who think the women are being degraded for having to "resort" to that. But honestly, when I read the article, I thought one girl who was interviewed sounded like a sad case simply because she had no idea what she was doing. She took a car and a train to meet some guy in another city, spent all day with him at the pool, and then had sex with him. On the ride back to the train, she had apparently never even discussed a payment, and he gave her like $300, which she thought "was decent for half a day's work," but then felt like crap on the train. I'm like- there is no girl on SW who would travel that far out of her way, and do all that for only $300, and would especially not "not discuss" money before doing all that... No kidding the girl felt duped and degraded - she had no idea what she was doing. If that's the kind of clueless girl they get for the story, of course people are going to feel sorry for her and think this is a "bad" system.
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I finally signed up on it, and for now only 2 guys seem sugar daddy material and serious.
Let's see, no negative or too positive attitude towards all this, just neutral but actually interested in trying a SB relationship from a site!





I've had several sugardaddies off there. I never had sex with one of them and would never, but to each their own. IMHO, they aren't worth it. It's too much time & effort, and they always end up expecting more than they say they wanted in the first place. Annoying.
First meeting is usually coffee or dinner. Always always ALWAYS ask for at least $100 for the first meeting to show they are serious.
Having a sugardaddy is most comparable to babysitting the most spoiled, rich, bratty child you've ever come across. Seriously.
I've had my fair share of irritating dirty old men on SA, you have to really weed out the good ones. I get the slick ugly old guys that try and say ill be "generous" and offer you 300$ for a visit. I'm sorry but $300 is NOT generous. I most def got very irritated with how cheap some of these sugardaddies were trying to be, um hello the name is SUGAR daddy for a reason not budget daddy. It get's tiring waiting around for a half decent non-grungy man.




I had a few of those myself actually losers were coming at me for $300 a pop. I was like wtf? I said we could do dinner for $300 since you're offering me 7% of what I'm asking for. This one asshole said well that's like me saying I'll stick my cock in 7% of the way. lol My response was well if you're having such great luck at that rate then please continue on to the next profile.
What bothers me most is that if you don't have what i want then why the f*** contact me? Annoying.
Also now Mr. Wade is getting alot of press because of that sugar baby mtv show. He is now encouraging girls that go to college to sign up with their college email so their profile states something like "college student certified".
Now anyone can go and sign up for a college , get an email address and use it on the site. I will say the blogs are pretty helpful there but it's as if the guys that keep contacting women with $100-$500 sex a la carte are not aware it exists. I also hope that the site actually encourages women to read the blogs first because many would make the mistake of believing in the bullshit emails that come from some of these dusty ass men.
I know there are some great catches there but I've read that even some of the financially stable and successful men have stiffed ladies on the site. Why? Out of spite? Or perhaps just because they can.



I used to post on CL legitimately looking for NSA fun and fuck buddies, not at all trying to solicit or advertise myself, these would truly be personal ads.
I would post a picture of my body or just tits or ass and I'd always get at least a dozen replies offering SD type situations.
This wasn't at all what I was looking for, so I'd usually ignore them, meaning I have no idea how many of these offers were BS, BUT I did end up meeting a guy once for a drink, no sex or contact at all and he gave me $500. I kept saying no, even calling him names and getting angry, and he kept upping the price.
I think it might be worth a shot. Whenever I told any of these guys I was not a sex worker ( I wasn't at the time) it only seemed to make them want me more. Weirdly, I think they get off on thinking you're a "good girl" and you only make an exception for them/ that you are naive and inexperienced and they think they can take advantage of that. Let them think what they want, use it to your advantage!



***Yeah wow...wait til you get a response (cock pic included) from someone you know! Or, if you post frequently enough, you'll start to notice a pattern of "regulars," guys that respond (cock pic included) to EVERY AD!****
Hey, I'm glad you decided to give it a try! Good luck! Yes, I would leave my ad up as long as possible. Any time I post on CL it seems to get flagged, I always get accused of being "fake." SO annoying, so be prepared for that. If and when you do get flagged, just reword your ad a bit and for sure, change the title. It may also help to change the details like age and location. I do not use a Craigslist account, and I change up the email address I use as well.
What I always tell people is that basically, only freaks post on Craigslist, but everyone reads it! I don't recommend answering ads but I've always had lots of luck placing them. I'm actually quite experienced with Craigslist, I've used it a million different ways, so if you need any help with strategy, I'd be happy to do my best! Happy Hunting!![]()
Probably being Captian Obvious, but I saw many that are both on SA and on whatsyourprice...
DR ,but sugar daddy sites are hit or miss. Mainly miss. They are a bunch of broke wanna-be posers trying to get cooch for a couple hundred a month OR annoying couples looking for a third wheel. Pssssh! Do not get me started.
Freestyling is the best way. There's a thread here full of great basic information. I also recommend the book The Art of Seduction. Very helpful for potential SB's and just sex workers in general! Good luck with whatever route you take. I hope you find the perfect SD.
Bitch? Actually I'm an evil cunt. Slut? Try dirty little whore. Either way, you have to pay for it.
Oh god, I'm reading some of the replies and getting angry. I HATED when the guys would say my allowance was too much.
Yeah, maybe for your broke ass! For some reason they'd never write me back after that.
Bitch? Actually I'm an evil cunt. Slut? Try dirty little whore. Either way, you have to pay for it.





this interview is really irritating. i'm tired of women with vanilla jobs calling everyone that isn't them pimps and prostitutes. no one "has to" have sex with anyone. that's coercion and meets the statute for rape and you would think a fancy prosecutor would know that.
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Well princess ..let me tell you what a " Blue " ..is doing making comment .
Its called freedom of speach , and Despite the fact that you may not like the truth ..Both genders making comment , may just give you BALANCE .
Now , if you think for a moment that entering much an " Arangement " will not involve SEX ..THE only person you are kidding is Yourself ! You may well strike ( the less than ) 1% ...Who want a SMILE and a Shoulder to cry on , But to be sincere to others and Realistic ..It vitally important to point out ..That you Arrangement WILL ( 99%) involve Sex ..These Guys are NOT stupid .
Sometimes a SPADE is actually a SPADE ... AND a RAT is a RAT ...
Dont try and kid yourself that you will other than this ....At the end of the Day ..There is NO free lunch .. and you are playing with an Entremely TIGHT market . It is what it Is ..Dont Try and FOOL yourself otherwise .
Good luck to all looking for the Dopey .... lonely .... 0.5% .. commiting to the interlude would probably be better . Once again ..It is what it is ..Face It .![]()
Enjoy ... and Progress , Its all in the name of personal enjoyment




I have had sugar daddies, I have never had a found online one yet.. Three were gay and the other four liked my time. I have never had sex with any of them and all of these lasted years. There is always a chance and people who say there isn't, need to update their maturity. Sugar daddies to sugar babies is not a pay to sex relationship. It is for time, fun, and love without sex. It use to be we would shun the gold diggers cause they only wanted the money and not give back the emotions. I really don't care what you think it should be but I'm never going to have sex with a guy that is paying for a sugar relationship. I might never find another again but its not my whole world and as all can say here its easy to be replaced.



I was looking for something else on line and ran across this that some ladies may or may not find to be interesting. Dr Phil show on this coming Friday (Sept 16th) is about sugar baby students and recent graduates turning to arrangements to help with debt and expenses . Article states that 4 ladies (and the father of one lady) are interviewed along with Brandon the creator of seekingarrangement. Maybe a load of crap but thought it also might be interest to some.
edit...just went back to read some comments on this thread and saw it wasnt appreciated a 'blue' posted on it. I will leave my post as it is all informative rather than opinion and hope I haven't over stepped here.
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