I'll be the test rat.
Just opened my account tonight.
FYI: When you register with your university email address you get free premium membership.






Ugh. I went on a SA lunch date today and then the guy said he didn't think we had a connection.
Made me feel ugly even though I know I was really pretty. Maybe he just doesn't like redheads.
Plus, I ordered fried pickles which he kept saying his daughter orders all the time so maybe
he just compared me too much to his daughter. ugh.
Still, I got a nice lunch and a small gift out of it.






They were sliced! I wasn't doing no phallic pickle play! Swear!
![]()
I try not to venture into the blue. Too many entitlement complexes going on.
Bitch? Actually I'm an evil cunt. Slut? Try dirty little whore. Either way, you have to pay for it.
I've had an account on SA for a couple years and this thread reminded me that I had one, probably disabled by now and i don't even know what email address is affiliated with it because I create email addresses just for that purpose. I should try it out..I'm single now and the only thing that's on my mind is MONEY.
Happy Birthday......Mr. President.
hahaha! lol you killed me with this! Has anyone checked out the site lately? Mr. Wade seems to be making some real changes. He even publicly deleted a well known predator on the site. Also the Dr. Phil episode airs tomorrow the 16th talking about the SB/SD lifestyle. I believe Mr. Wade either will be on it or he will have people from his site on it.
When I saw the latest blog , I felt automatically this show painted a bad picture of the sugar bowl.
With the cheap ass P4P types of emails that 100% of women get when first signing up, this is largely why he's getting so much flack. Glad to see he's cleaning it up there
I wish some of you ladies posted in their blog . I have to say that reading the blogs is a world of help and it's pretty positive . The horrible downside is reading about some poor girl that's getting taken for a ride. I saw a girl say she was only asking for $1,000 a month and one guy wanted to meet like 8 times that month. I was like nooooooooooooooooooooo someone save her!!!!!!
Another girl posted about meeting some pot SD and he said I'll agree but NO CONDOMS.
I was like wtf is this shit? Fuck your health? You know damn well this asshole if paying to fuck everything under the sun and wants to spread his shit to you. That same guy declined being tested . Huh? I hate women so much that I'll give them AIDS??
Some of these men sound like sick hateful bastards. Not trying to be someone's personal petri dish.
Another girl posted that the guy gives her $200 per meet (no sex) and when they have sex $300 . lol I was like umm yeah you're an escort that doesn't get to complain about the clock.
I even saw one guy complain that he found out his pot sb was a dancer. Hmm but you're married, old and trying to find someone half your age to cheat on your wife but ohh no she's a dancer??? Let's call the villagers and chase her with rusty pitch forks!!
Ohh I almost forgot. There was this one girl that chatted with a pot SD and he told her that he wanted to do a 3 some with her friend. Why did this girl go purchase tickets for her and her girlfriend (out of her own money) and meet this guy. They had sex with him and afterwards he said , my wallet is in my car. lol This guy just ups and takes off with no warning. Forget the fact that they got $0000000 but they actually paid for RT tickets to meet this man out of country. I almost screamed when I read this. Whhhhatt????? And you both slept with him too? Uggg talk about horrible nightmare situations.What was bad was that this guy was supposedly a Diamond Member. Which is supposed to indicate that he's a real deal 100% verified SD. Guess he felt his status gave him some extra perks.
^This was probably the worst story I've heard thus far.
All I see mostly is that these men want to give below escort rates yet take time with a young lady like a regular relationship.
Also after reading the blogs for a while, I would never do dinner with a pot SD until after there was an agreement in place since most are trying to get the free arm candy deal.
Last edited by cherryblossomsinspring; 09-15-2011 at 06:10 AM.
Your reactions made me laugh out loud.
This is why guys say in their profiles "no pros" or "no dancers", cause dancers know how to hustle! And guys don't want girls who ask a fair price for their time and efforts. If a girl is making X to "just meet" and X to have sex, she may as well be advertising on escort sites with those begging-to-be-arrested "I charge X for a BJ, X for regular sex, X for anal, X for condomless" etc
WAKE UP WOMEN!!!! although I'm sure most SW users are savvy enough to self-preserve
I've used SD sites plenty and it's despicable how many men use it, not only as a CHEAP alternative to escorts/dancers etc, but as a way to put young, vulnerable, financially desperate girls at risk of STDs.
One guy said "I like the younger girls; they are more open-minded." He went on to pretty much tout younger girls for being too naive to demand safe sex. ARGH these guys suck, I'm glad the site's owner is cleaning up his act.



Hey ladies, now that I'm single and have my own place, (the pay stubs worked in case anyone remembered or cares) I decided to try out the sugar bowl. Well, kinda fell into it actually.
I responded to an ad on CL from a guy looking for what he described as "arm candy" and a "wing woman." I've been paid to attend events before, literally to stand around and look pretty, so I thought why not?
Well, when I met him, he was really sexy and handsome, and he confessed to me that he had signed up on SA, but not had much success with it.
Basically, I made a move on him, and now we are in a SD/SB relationship. We are having sex, but I insisted on it. He's so hot and great in bed. I like him a lot!
So, thinking about this thread, I signed up for SA finally and I've had some mixed luck so far... Yesterday I met one guy for a drink around lunchtime, he was disgusting-looking but polite, and gave me $300. (Actually, he handed me a wad of $20's in the restaurant and when I counted it later, he had shorted me a $20! WTF?) Rookie mistake I guess. I'm supposed to see him again tomorrow nite for drinks for $520. He didn't even get a kiss on the cheek.
Later on yesterday I had another drink date with a doctor who looks like Rick Perry! Haha. He had GOD AWFUL breath. I mean, it was distracting. I had said beforehand that I would need a "small donation" minimum $50. We spent about 3 hours laughing and talking, we agreed he'd give me $150 (cheap bastard) and wouldn't you know it? Rick Perry shorted me too! He gave me $140 in $20's and I didn't count it until we'd parted ways. In my defense, I was drunk.So I'm gonna learn from that mistake.
A third guy talked a big game, like about how he could get bottle service for my girlfriends and I and one night when he was drunk was offering me 4K to come over at 1am ( I was with my current SD that night! lol) When the big talker and I made plans to go shopping, he stood me up. Seems like the married ones are more flaky.
The majority of the dudes on there do seem like doucharoos, but once again the best luck I've had is with Craiglist!




^^ I somehow find that hilarious...they're willing to part with $280...but they cling on to that 1 twenty like their life depends on it.
"Yeah, I'll give her $280...and save this $20 for coffee, yes, that's a good plan."



UPDATE-
I went out with the guy who had shorted me (the $280 instead of $300) He promptly gave me an envelope with my $500, plus an extra $50 to make up for the $20 from before, so he is legit. We had a very nice dinner, again nothing physical, though I did give him a kiss on the cheek. He did hint that "next time" he would want things to get more "intimate" so I think I will pull the plug on him, but I'm happy with over $800 for a few hours work.
The Rick Perry lookalike hasn't called me yet, and I hope he doesn't.
The big talker gave me some BS about having to shut off his phone because of his wife, (whatever, not my problem) OFFERED me "200 apologies" to my paypal, but never came thru. I called him a poser, laughed at him. He said he likes me sass, and that was the end of the conversation.
I started talking to a guy who lives far away, and he may come to my city to meet me. Seems kinda fishy.
The most reliable one so far was the old ugly fat one of course, but he's been super straightforward from the beginning. His first email asked me to meet for $300. No Bs, no pictures, no "what are you looking for?"
I haven't cammed in over a week, lol. I'm starting to think about freestyling, anyone in Central Texas want to buddy up?




How are you supossed to approach a guy through their site using the PM system? I find kinda difficult to contact them because, I don't really know what to tell them
How do you girls do this?
Camming PC specs database and suggested builds ||Post your internet speedtest results .||Wanna stay safe while camming? Find out how ||||||
Like a traditional dating site, try to find something in common in their profile; something you can relate to and connect on. It can be hard on SA cause half these guys don't say shit on their profiles, like one sentence. Look for ones who have a little something to say; it's probably an indicator they are better prospective SD's with more respect.
This sounds like every broke loser in the strip club who says "no matter how successful I was I'd never pay $1000/hr for a private room" and assumes everyone who does is having sex. Uneducated, unsuccessful men always seem to think all men are the same and share in the same troglodyte pursuits they do. If something constructive was said in either one of your posts I doubt they'd be mocked, but all you're doing is spouting ignorance and calling it fact. I'd hardly call that a balanced viewpoint.

Sorry to raise an almost dead thread.
I just signed up for this site a couple days ago. This morning, I took the advice here and put down $ minimums for meetings. The number of emails I've been getting dropped to about 10% of what it has been.
Is that good or bad...?
I put $100 for the first meeting (public only) and then $300 per hour thereafter. Is $100 too much to ask for the first public meeting?
Nope, $100 is not too much to ask. Bare minimum if you ask me.
As for the message volume dropping, on one hand, you could be weeding out the cheapos. There are tons on that site. On the other, the way you phrased it here, it makes you sound like an escort and that could turn off a lot of the serious suitors.

What spinnerette said. Does anyone have suggestions on how to ask for $100+ for the face to face introduction? Fuck free meals, and half the guys are trying to get you drunk and make you instantly consummate the damn arrangement.




I should update mine.. but sadly it feels like a waste of time cause I have only found guys looking for cheap hookers in my area..


I just made a new profile and I see the site has this "private photos" section, but how do I grant someone access to it? Is there a password I set for it and then give that out? *confused*



Ah ok good to know. Thanks!
I met my current SD on seeking arrangement. I went through a few dates and one other relationship on that site before I met him, but it was worth it in the end.
I tried freelancing, but it always seemed like too much hassle. On SA I just sort through the losers by not answering their email rather than politely trying to get away from a creeper when in approaches me IRL.
Bumping, I want to hear if anyone has found better luck on here. I closed my account out months ago because I kept getting messages from the same guy that used different profiles.
Bookmarks