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    i've been trying FOREVER to find someone with comparable stats to me so that i can tell if i'm "fat" or not. i've been trying to find ppl online with height and measurements posted so that i can figure my body is similar to them. since most of us have warped views of ourselves, ya know? i wanted to see someone else with the same measurements. i'll ask my bf, "am i the same size as her? what about her?" and he can never really tell me. i see pics of myself, and think i'm fat. but ppl tell me i look good. so i thought the best thing to do would be to take an outside view of SOMEONE else with the same measurements.

    SO I FINALLY FOUND SOMEONE WITH THE EXACT SAME MEASUREMENTS AS ME!!

    34c-28-34.


    http://www.babemansion.com/blog/wp-c...2011/79/06.jpg

    http://www.babemansion.com/blog/2011...d-of-the-week/


    my body looks almost EXACTLY the same, but faker looking boobs (just got mine done in november) and i need to tone my stomach a little more.

    what do u think?

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    Obviously not fat.

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    Def not fat... Normal size.

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    Default Re: she's not fat, right???

    not fat

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    Nope she is not
    Thank Goodness I smartened up! The old me is dead and gone.

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    Default Re: she's not fat, right???

    that girl has the same body type that i do, and it sounds like you do as well. basically we have a really short midsection, so anything we do goes to our stomach and to get a really narrow waste we need to be super super slim.

    that girl is not fat. if you have her measurements chance are you arent either. sounds like you are being wayyyy too critical of yourself... relax a little. stress increases cortisol which increases fat to your midsection. so chill and enjoy life for a bit .
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    me: uhh... i think you are misunderstanding what a shotgun marriage means. A shotgun marriage means you knock me up and my daddy shows up at your door with a gun and forces you to marry me and raise the baby. You mean elope.
    customer: hmm... nah actually i will take the shotgun marriage. At least then we would be having sex.


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    Def not fat. Girl, you are hot! I saw your pics in another thread. I can completely understand the body dysmorphia, as it totally fucked with my head for years, but you can't let this get the best of you. It can be miserable and psychologically draining. I remember I'd wake up one morning, look in the mirror, and think I looked so hot...then the next day, I'd look in the mirror and cry EVEN though there were really no visible changes! It's like I had totally lost the ability to judge my own body. I'd put on my "skinny jeans" and they'd be hanging off of me, yet I'd be convinced I had gained weight.

    For me, I learned to focus on appreciating my body for being strong, healthy, and fit. It wasn't easy, and I still DEFINITELY have my moments where I hear that little voice creeping up that says "oooh you're looking fat today!" but I quiet it with a good, hard workout.

    Life is too short to constantly be scrutinizing over and hating your body. I saw a man at the grocery store the other day in a wheelchair. He had no legs, and one stump for an arm. There was this contraption set up where he pushed this pole forward to move the wheelchair, and he steered it with his head. Talk about a reality check. I am so thankful for my healthy, able-body... even if I don't always think it's "perfect."

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    girl are you crazy??? I know this industry makes us hyper critical of our bodies but that girl looks great so you must look great! customers must compliment you on your body all the time!

    next time you feel self conscious, try this one: go to the gym with yoga pants and a sports bra and count how many girls give you the jealous stare when you walk by or how many cute personal trainers approach you to see if you need any help ;]

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    Quote Originally Posted by SteveSmith View Post



    haha yes, this is exactly what i was talking about in starting this thread, i can't look at myself objectively so i need to look at someone else with the same measurements..


    thank you everybody for responding, i really needed to hear what other ppl had to say.

    sometimes in this industry it's hard... especially when comparing your body to the other girls you work with.

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    I think you've posted pictures before... From what I recall, you are very hot... PHAT, not fat.
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    Totally not fat.

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    Not fat!!! Just stop it

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    You could have just posted pictures of yourself you know

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    You are definitely NOT fat. Of course, I would be willing to offer a closer look. I remember some hot pics of you in front of a car.

    Do YOU think that the babe mansion girl looks fat, the one that you said has almost the same body as yours?

    We always have something that we wish was better with our bodies. Improve or fix one thing leads us to look critically at another.

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    She's not fat and neither are you -_-
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    Quote Originally Posted by Trem View Post
    You could have just posted pictures of yourself you know
    i would have but idk where my camera is and i didn't want to post repeat pics and annoy ppl

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    Not fat!Not fat!Not fat!Not fat!Not fat!Not fat!Not fat!Not fat!Not fat!Not fat!Not fat!Not fat!

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    if your body does in fact look anything like the one in the pictures you posted then you are fuckin hot!!

    are you fat?......no

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    Not fat at all.

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    How about the height and weight issue, also remember that even though someone can be the same height and weight, each persons frame is built differently.

    I deff think you are NOT fat! Take a step back and realize you are in good shape and you need to be happy. Stop comparing yourself to others - do what makes you happy. Stressing over the idea will do worse to your body than good. I think you are deff not fat, you dont need to worry!

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    Not fat. As a matter of fact, if I was a guy or a lesbian or Bi, you'd be completely my type and I would spend all my hard-earned cash on you. I probably still would anyways.
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    She's a little pudgy... but she's not fat.

    Maybe I just think that because my eyes are drawn to the upper thigh chub... which I also have... so it seems more noticeable to me.
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    not fat but hot!
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