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    Duh Do We Have A Hierarchy?

    *Someone* made a comment about "trusted/established" SW members in another thread. I'm assuming she's referring to how long the other model has been on SW.

    I rarely look at when someone signed up to the site or how long they've been here. If I like what the person has to say, and they seem knowledgeable, (and doesn't act like a troll in every thread that counters her opinion), it's all good.

    Am I alone in thinking this way??

    Hell if I knew my sign up date would be so important I would have signed up when I found this site at 18, instead of waiting until last summer.


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    No we don't. However, I do have the right to feel that way.

    If I don't like someone's style of doing things, I am not going to join their site.
    It is like the other site that I am not apart of. I didn't join because I don't like the chick's ways .
    It's like Kylea of sw. If she ever started a forum I'd join in a heartbeat. She is a friend of mine and I trust her.

    Did my siggy line really deserve it's own thread? wowza!

    Hmmmm...

    You know what is amazing to me? Even after all the thing we hear on cam each day some of yall are super sensitive.

    Don't agree with me? That is fine but don't bash me because I don't think the same way you do. Thanks!

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    I agree. I don't give a rats ass about longevity. This is the internet and some people here are full of it, nose deep. If you have something relevant to say, and contribute then I will hear you out. Man or woman. The date you joined the forum is absolutely meaningless to me, and honestly I don't even check dates. Hell, I don't even know when I joined.
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    Quote Originally Posted by TouringGirlfriend View Post
    No we don't. However, I do have the right to feel that way.

    If I don't like someone's style of doing things, I am not going to join their site.
    It is like the other site that I am not apart of. I didn't join because I don't like the chick's ways .

    Did my siggy line really deserve it's own thread? wowza!

    Hmmmm...

    You know what is amazing to me? Even after all the thing we hear on cam each day some of yall are super sensitive.
    I just don't understand why sign up date matters, that's all. It has nothing to do with whether or not you like the person. Unless you ONLY like people who have been here for a year or something.
    To me, sign up date does not equal how much I agree with the person.
    Just thought it was interesting that you felt that way, and wanted to know if anyone else did as well.


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    No problem! If you read my comments again you will see that it has nothing to do with sign up dates. I was talking about members I KNOW and trust. I will never leave sw for another sw.. that is pretty much what I am saying.

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    i dont think we have a hierarchy...

    however i do look at the dates and post count. this forum functions because people take time to write information for free. free information is not standard in the adult industry.... we all know this. if someone has spent a lot of time helping other members on the site for a couple of yrs im going to naturally show them more respect than someone who only joined a month or so ago. when i get PMs from people with low post counts i dont even bother answering anymore... i feel like there has to be give and take. i dont particularly like it when people lurk on this forum because they are just taking.

    also since there is a sense of community on here i just kind of know people who have been on here longer. there are so many new girls that they havent had time to make an impression on me yet. if someone has been on here longer there is more time for me to decide what i think of their online personality.
    The best thing i have heard in a strip club to date:
    customer: we should get married right now! we should get a shotgun marriage!
    me: uhh... i think you are misunderstanding what a shotgun marriage means. A shotgun marriage means you knock me up and my daddy shows up at your door with a gun and forces you to marry me and raise the baby. You mean elope.
    customer: hmm... nah actually i will take the shotgun marriage. At least then we would be having sex.


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    Quote Originally Posted by Athenathefabulous View Post
    i dont think we have a hierarchy...

    however i do look at the dates and post count. this forum functions because people take time to write information for free. free information is not standard in the adult industry.... we all know this. if someone has spent a lot of time helping other members on the site for a couple of yrs im going to naturally show them more respect than someone who only joined a month or so ago. when i get PMs from people with low post counts i dont even bother answering anymore... i feel like there has to be give and take. i dont particularly like it when people lurk on this forum because they are just taking.

    also since there is a sense of community on here i just kind of know people who have been on here longer. there are so many new girls that they havent had time to make an impression on me yet. if someone has been on here longer there is more time for me to decide what i think of their online personality.
    Exactly!!!

    I have met some sw members and I'd follow them to the moon any day. Those ladies are truly amazing.
    I don't trust easy.. that is just me. I rather KNOW who I am dealing with. Even those that I have never met,
    I feel a sense of security with Athena, JD, Kaiarose, Lilmisssunshine, MarvelGirl, Yoda, Kylea (too bad she doesn't post much anymore), AudrinaN and Avery being around. It's not about who I like and don't like it's about who I feel it's trustworthy. If you notice the names I just posted, half of those chicks hate me but it's ok . It's not about like or dislike.. it's about what and who I am comfortable with.

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    TG I get what you're saying as well. I honestly like this forum and will not be leaving. I also know not to post critical information here, in order to remain anonymous. Of course a few people know me, but I am not concerned about that. At the same time I can't really say I trust anyone just because they have been here a while. That is why I did not go to other forums. I could care less how many posts someone makes, or how much they act like they care about us, or have meaningful posts. I just simply do not plan to leave this forum. However, I do hope they are fixing the bandwidth
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    Yes there is an unspoken heirarchy.

    Anyone can join, but some of us have been here a while and actually know eachother so when someone joins like a month ago and just starts posting a bunch of nonsense, we are probably not going to listen.

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    Quote Originally Posted by BustyAmeera View Post
    TG I get what you're saying as well. I honestly like this forum and will not be leaving. I also know not to post critical information here, in order to remain anonymous. Of course a few people know me, but I am not concerned about that. At the same time I can't really say I trust anyone just because they have been here a while. That is why I did not go to other forums. I could care less how many posts someone makes, or how much they act like they care about us, or have meaningful posts. I just simply do not plan to leave this forum. However, I do hope they are fixing the bandwidth
    It was never about when the members became members. It's about the person's character, their posting style.... etc

    As I've said before, I will join a forum created by those here that I've met/KNOW from sw before I join one created by some unknown.
    I guess that just goes to show how much of an sw addict I am . Lol! Sorry If I offended anyone but that's just how I feel.

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    Quote Originally Posted by TouringGirlfriend View Post
    Exactly!!!

    I have met some sw members and I'd follow them to the moon any day. Those ladies are truly amazing.
    I don't trust easy.. that is just me. I rather KNOW who I am dealing with. Even those that I have never met,
    I feel a sense of security with Athena, JD, Kaiarose, Lilmisssunshine, MarvelGirl, Yoda, Kylea (too bad she doesn't post much anymore), AudrinaN and Avery being around. It's not about who I like and don't like it's about who I feel it's trustworthy. If you notice the names I just posted, half of those chicks hate me but it's ok :rofl:. It's not about like or dislike.. it's about what and who I am comfortable with.
    lol i certainly dont hate you. i didnt realize until like a week ago who you were though.

    Quote Originally Posted by lilmisssunshine View Post
    Yes there is an unspoken heirarchy.

    Anyone can join, but some of us have been here a while and actually know eachother so when someone joins like a month ago and just starts posting a bunch of nonsense, we are probably not going to listen.
    indeed. the fact that many of us who have been on here for a while know eachother in person or have mutual friends who we have met in person also says something. i know for a fact that you are not a dude posing as a dancer on the internet so of course i am gonna trust you more than someone who joined the site a month ago. plus you are fun to party with .
    The best thing i have heard in a strip club to date:
    customer: we should get married right now! we should get a shotgun marriage!
    me: uhh... i think you are misunderstanding what a shotgun marriage means. A shotgun marriage means you knock me up and my daddy shows up at your door with a gun and forces you to marry me and raise the baby. You mean elope.
    customer: hmm... nah actually i will take the shotgun marriage. At least then we would be having sex.


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    I believe its like life, when a new person comes into the social group their opinions and ideas are not going to be as accepted as someone who has been around forever. No matter how valued or amazing these things are. People are not going to trust a new person easily, especially in our type of community where so many personal issues and information can go terribly wrong. That's just my two cents as a newbie, though.

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    I have trust issues. Like, big monster ones.
    I joined Bamb's site and had no issue with verifying with her because welll.. Bamb is an idealist and I had been reading her posts for a long while. I have a hard time imagining an idealist is out to give me a mindfuck.

    I wouldn't join the site of anyone who just knew their shit, 'cause most of this shit can be researched without actually doing any of it. That weirdo nasty escort with the blog who turned out being a bald dude? GROSS.

    I don't want to join his nasty bald forum. Not that he wouldn't probably have been, trusted established whathave... but it's up to any one of us to decide who we're going to trust...

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    Very well said, Bun!

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    I wasn't bashing anyone's opinions on trusting each other at all, there are some girls here that I honestly wouldn't give the time of day, for one reason or another, and there are others who I'd call up and invite over to hang out!

    I just wanted to know if the date joined or the post count mattered to people.


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    Quote Originally Posted by MissEgo View Post

    I just wanted to know if the date joined or the post count mattered to people.
    Which was referring to my siggy line...

    However, my siggy line had nothing to do with dates or post counts.

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    Quote Originally Posted by TouringGirlfriend View Post
    Exactly!!!

    I have met some sw members and I'd follow them to the moon any day. Those ladies are truly amazing.
    I don't trust easy.. that is just me. I rather KNOW who I am dealing with. Even those that I have never met,
    I feel a sense of security with Athena, JD, Kaiarose, Lilmisssunshine, MarvelGirl, Yoda, Kylea (too bad she doesn't post much anymore), AudrinaN and Avery being around. It's not about who I like and don't like it's about who I feel it's trustworthy. If you notice the names I just posted, half of those chicks hate me but it's ok . It's not about like or dislike.. it's about what and who I am comfortable with.
    Thanks!

    I don't think you and I have had any disagreements have we?? If we have they weren't anything that has stuck out so all is well!
    I am all about seniority and join dates and post counts. Maybe I'm old school? I'm the same way in my club. Yes MY club.. j/k But I have been there since 2002 and I am the dancer who has been there the longest so I do pull the seniority card alot.. I always go onstage last, I have my own personal "spot" in the dressing room, I'm usually the one to show the new girls the ropes and I am one of the first to tip out at the end of the night and leave before any of the other girls.. I feel that you have to earn your place. But that's just how I feel and not everyone has to agree with me.
    I want to add that by no means am I a bitch about these things either... That's how things were when I first started and luckily they have stayed that way for me.

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    Quote Originally Posted by MissEgo View Post

    I just wanted to know if the date joined or the post count mattered to people.
    Sure as hell doesn't to me!! Its kind of wierd though. I remember asking in another thread about females having multiple profiles. You guys made suggestions as to why. Been reading past threads and yes, some of the chicks have def been here before. Despite the date being this year

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    Quote Originally Posted by Athenathefabulous View Post
    indeed. the fact that many of us who have been on here for a while know eachother in person or have mutual friends who we have met in person also says something. i know for a fact that you are not a dude posing as a dancer on the internet so of course i am gonna trust you more than someone who joined the site a month ago. plus you are fun to party with .
    Hell YEA! We need more partying!

    Off topic, but was thinking of arranging a boat party!

    I know you are staying far away now, but maybe you'll be back in the area soon. I was thinking of putting a summer stripper boat party together!

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    Quote Originally Posted by That"MODEL"Chick View Post
    Sure as hell doesn't to me!! Its kind of wierd though. I remember asking in another thread about females having multiple profiles. You guys made suggestions as to why. Been reading past threads and yes, some of the chicks have def been here before. Despite the date being this year

    The "sadlady" wrote that yesterday before writing about her problem, not sure if anyone remembers...

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    i'm relatively new to this forum, but in my experience with forums more generally, i think it's totally normal to have a bit of a hierarchy. i've been a part of another forum for about 12 years and met several people there offline and exchanged mail with others, of course i'd be more comfortable with folks i've known there for a decade versus someone who joined three weeks ago, you know? so i can see how folks here would be more comfortable with someone who's been part of the forum for years who they've met in real life than they would with, well, me.

    one of the things i do love about stripperweb is that new folks' posts are still valued if they are well thought out and actually make a contribution. the "hierarchy," if it is that, doesn't mean that people are automatically excluded. it's just something that naturally develops, i think.

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    Quote Originally Posted by lilmisssunshine View Post
    Hell YEA! We need more partying!

    Off topic, but was thinking of arranging a boat party!

    I know you are staying far away now, but maybe you'll be back in the area soon. I was thinking of putting a summer stripper boat party together!
    that sounds fun but im actually going to be out of the country this summer. i was thinking about trying to put together some sort of stripper fest in nola around halloween though.

    stripper boat party though... that would be quite the occasion .

    Quote Originally Posted by tinydancer23 View Post
    i'm relatively new to this forum, but in my experience with forums more generally, i think it's totally normal to have a bit of a hierarchy. i've been a part of another forum for about 12 years and met several people there offline and exchanged mail with others, of course i'd be more comfortable with folks i've known there for a decade versus someone who joined three weeks ago, you know? so i can see how folks here would be more comfortable with someone who's been part of the forum for years who they've met in real life than they would with, well, me.

    one of the things i do love about stripperweb is that new folks' posts are still valued if they are well thought out and actually make a contribution. the "hierarchy," if it is that, doesn't mean that people are automatically excluded. it's just something that naturally develops, i think.

    ya i definitely want to encourage newbies to post. i actually started a thread a while back trying to encourage the lurkers to say something: http://forum.stripperweb.com/showthread.php?t=144837. i think we do a good job of welcoming new people to the board and not being overly clique-y or anything like that. but like any community, online or in real life, veterans are always going to be more trusted as a whole.
    The best thing i have heard in a strip club to date:
    customer: we should get married right now! we should get a shotgun marriage!
    me: uhh... i think you are misunderstanding what a shotgun marriage means. A shotgun marriage means you knock me up and my daddy shows up at your door with a gun and forces you to marry me and raise the baby. You mean elope.
    customer: hmm... nah actually i will take the shotgun marriage. At least then we would be having sex.


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    Tinydancer, i don't automatically exclude new people or think they don't count.

    Just new people that start writing stupid shit. For instance, a while back when "Blondyy" came on and starting trying to tell all the cam girls how to make money, we pretty much tore "her" apart and figured out "she" was a "he" pretty quickly and that he was full of bullshit.

    There is a trust that is earned.

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    Bummer Athena...U still going out east?

    Yea I am down for Halloween NOLA Stripperfest...Woohoo!

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    Quote Originally Posted by lilmisssunshine View Post
    Tinydancer, i don't automatically exclude new people or think they don't count.

    Just new people that start writing stupid shit. For instance, a while back when "Blondyy" came on and starting trying to tell all the cam girls how to make money, we pretty much tore "her" apart and figured out "she" was a "he" pretty quickly and that he was full of bullshit.

    There is a trust that is earned.
    i know, that's exactly what i was saying - it's one of the things i love about this place

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