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    Question *Can a camgirl be celibate?*

    So we all know what we do but this is a question thats been heavy on my mind. I know I sell sex,but I'm not having sex. If you look at some of my posts,you've probably gathered the fact that I am somewhat of a little freak....well a big freak and you're right. In the past I have been,but not recently. I don't use toys during my show(well that was a pretty stupid statement,why would that matter?). This is something that I've been wanting to be for a while and I think now is the right time. I already have one child and while he is my everything,I can't help but think of how much I would already have accomplished if I hadn't become pregnant(no judging please). I actually would LOVE another one,but I am not married(not saying you have to be). I just want everything to be just right next time. I had been on my job about 3 months when I bought my car. Then I was just about to enroll in school and was looking for my own place I'm not blaming anyone,obviously I know what it takes to make a baby I just wasn't thinking. Anyway I just don't want anything to slow me down and yes I've heard of a such thing called birth control,but I don't want to be bothered with that either...at least not right now. I would have turned this into a poll,but I'd prefer responses. So what do you guys think??

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    Default Re: *Can a camgirl be celibate?*

    I went through the samething after my son was born 12 years ago. I went on birthcontrol and still wanted to stay focus because I went back to school and was afraid I would get pg again. With that said I didn't stop altogether but having sex 6-10 times a year for a few years hardly counts as a sex life. If you feel it will keep you focused do it. That's the best advice I can give. Oh and I am going 12 years strong with no pg since.

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    Totally. Why not? sex complicates. Especially sex outside of a healthy relationship, in my opinion. While I have enjoyed being promiscuous, I never got ANYTHING done while sleeping around with everyone. My best work has been when my pussy is not leading my life. That's me, though. I know plenty of productive sluts.

    I also think you'll be thankful later on when your baby is grown.. people who wait too long, sure they're better prepared and their lives are a lot more organized- but in my opinion waiting too long makes you very accustomed to living life as an adult, unhindered. Also, your body doesn't happily snap back when you're older. THEN, you have those damned kids around ruining your 40s, when if you had them when you were 20, they'd be gone! Hehe.

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    aw honey! hugs!!!! I hope you don't feel alone, because you're not!!! it is TOTALLY normal I think - it's funny really, I feel so grateful we actually have a CHOICE in the matter, most women in the world don't have a choice in their sex or reproductive lives.

    you're doing YOU think is right for YOU right now - nobody can judge you for that, and you shouldn't feel insecure about it. YOU are the one that bears the responsibility if YOU get pregnant or YOU develop feelings YOU aren't ready for (emphasis much? lol).

    the point is, whatever you're doing is for your benefit and you are free to make that choice based on your own opinions and feels and plans for the future. in my opinion, you've got a good strong head on your shoulders - you know what you want, you know what works for you, and you're doing just that. so congrats! you're not a robot!

    I personally don't like birth control - I hate having my hormones controlled by a pill, it feels so unnatural, I gain weight, I get mood swings, etc. I don't feel comfortable getting an IUD either, since I haven't had any babies yet and don't want to fuckup that option later (this could be an option for you, if you decide you do want to pursue a relationship or just a long string of suitors ) I also hate condoms but of course that's usually the best option. I know I get attached quickly, fall in love desperately, and am generally so monogamous that unless I'm rebounding, it's not wise for me to even have a one-night-stand without putting up some pretty severe boundaries (no sleeping over, no kissing, etc.). I'm rebounding a little right now, but after I'll probably lay low for a while like you soon!

    So if you want to be with me
    With these things there’s no telling
    We just have to wait and see
    But I’d rather be working for a paycheck
    Than waiting to win the lottery
    Besides maybe this time is different
    I mean I really think you like me

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    A cam girl can be whatever she wants because a cam girl is an actress. The fact that you're not having sex has no affect on your profession.

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    Quote Originally Posted by dixievista View Post
    I don't feel comfortable getting an IUD either, since I haven't had any babies yet and don't want to fuckup that option later (this could be an option for you, if you decide you do want to pursue a relationship or just a long string of suitors )
    I actually got one couple months after he was born. Best two months of my life...until it came out Apparently my body "rejected it". I was that one in so many million

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    Quote Originally Posted by That"MODEL"Chick View Post
    I actually got one couple months after he was born. Best two months of my life...until it came out Apparently my body "rejected it". I was that one in so many million
    OMG! that blows. hmpf. well at least you're responsible with your reproduction, and I hear they're FINALLY working on male birth control

    So if you want to be with me
    With these things there’s no telling
    We just have to wait and see
    But I’d rather be working for a paycheck
    Than waiting to win the lottery
    Besides maybe this time is different
    I mean I really think you like me

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    Yeah my midwife said I could get another one after six months,but I just left it alone. Male birth control? You'd probably have to go through hell to get them to use it

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    Quote Originally Posted by That"MODEL"Chick View Post
    Male birth control? You'd probably have to go through hell to get them to use it
    precisely! until men become more feminist all around, I don't see it happening.......

    So if you want to be with me
    With these things there’s no telling
    We just have to wait and see
    But I’d rather be working for a paycheck
    Than waiting to win the lottery
    Besides maybe this time is different
    I mean I really think you like me

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    I have a bf now and we bang just fine but i went like a year before while camming and not having sex. it wasnt even a decision to be celibate i was just so tired and bust that i was very asexual at the time. you know yourself, but masturbating day in and day out kills my sex drive anyway. the guys in chat always ask whens the last time i had sex and they always like it when its been a while anyway...

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    Quote Originally Posted by That"MODEL"Chick View Post
    Male birth control? You'd probably have to go through hell to get them to use it
    I told my fiance that after our next kid he's gonna have to get a vasectomy. He was HORRIFIED that I could ever possibly consider such a thing! Well bitch, I have to carry around a parasite for 9 months, experience the excruciating pain of childbirth, have my body go through *extreme* physical changes, meanwhile all he has to do is shoot his load. I THINK he can bite the bullet and suffer through one minor surgical procedure.

    I wish guys could experience pregnancy/childbirth, it would be hilarious!

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    [quote=dixievista;2106285]

    I personally don't like birth control - I hate having my hormones controlled by a pill, it feels so unnatural, I gain weight, I get mood swings, etc. I don't feel comfortable getting an IUD either, since I haven't had any babies yet and don't want to fuckup that option later (this could be an option for you, if you decide you do want to pursue a relationship or just a long string of suitors )

    getting an IUD no longer affects your fertility, I have one! and I love it

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    [QUOTE=ginger_belle;2106437]
    Quote Originally Posted by dixievista View Post

    I personally don't like birth control - I hate having my hormones controlled by a pill, it feels so unnatural, I gain weight, I get mood swings, etc. I don't feel comfortable getting an IUD either, since I haven't had any babies yet and don't want to fuckup that option later (this could be an option for you, if you decide you do want to pursue a relationship or just a long string of suitors )

    getting an IUD no longer affects your fertility, I have one! and I love it
    seriously? can they guarantee it??? I mean I'm 90% sure I'm infertile (why else would the pull-out method have worked for TWO YEARS when I was too ashamed to buy condoms?) but still......hate to ruin it with an optional medical device....

    So if you want to be with me
    With these things there’s no telling
    We just have to wait and see
    But I’d rather be working for a paycheck
    Than waiting to win the lottery
    Besides maybe this time is different
    I mean I really think you like me

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    I don't think it ruins anything. When I got it my midwife told me once she took hers out,she got preggo a week later. Trust me,I was worried as well. I want to get married and have at least two more!! Once they insert it,it automatically works. Once removed,its automatically reversed...at least thats what I was told. They told me over and over,then some more to be careful once it came out,apparently its just that easy!!

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