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    Hi! k i have been dancing for about 3 months now, and have taken pole classes and i already know/learned how to do simple stuff like the basic fireman and the inversions ? (where you swing like sitting where u only use your hands and your knees are together bent; and then swinging backward). and i also know how to climb and stay up there and go upside down. i really want to try and do pole tricks that i paid for at classes and do them at the club but i am worried that what if i do them wrong or i slip due to slippery poles or i just look plain stupid??! also, idk why i tend to go blank and do same stupid stuff onstage which isnt much!
    also, i'm still freakin "shy" or not comfy going up to guys etc...even though a vip regular custy told me why am i shy, i am the hottest thing and he couldn't imagine why pretty girl would be shy!!!
    btw, my first nyt last nyt at a new club, i made $400!!! and only worked 4 hours..but that was because of that vip regular custy; the bartender took me to him n he got 2 vips w/ me ! but i should really have walkd around and talk to at least half the guys in the club i probly would have made little more but i was too....nervous/shy to!! why am i shy? i definitely am hot...

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    I know the trick you are talking about. It's not an inversion though. I believe to invert is to flip upside down. Practice tricks when it's slow so you won't be nervous in front of many customers. If you mess up, you mess up. That's how you learn.
    $400 is very good. Good job! Now, what you need to do is practice going up to every guy. Make a bit of a script. There are many "scripts" in Hustle Hut. Just some basic questions to ask to gain rapport. Once you get used to asking questions and breaking the ice leading up to dances, you will start making more money cause you will be selling more dances. You can't sell dances if you don't approach, though. It's very rare a guy will approach you nowadays.

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    Quote Originally Posted by arielbriel View Post
    I know the trick you are talking about. It's not an inversion though. I believe to invert is to flip upside down. Practice tricks when it's slow so you won't be nervous in front of many customers. If you mess up, you mess up. That's how you learn.
    $400 is very good. Good job! Now, what you need to do is practice going up to every guy. Make a bit of a script. There are many "scripts" in Hustle Hut. Just some basic questions to ask to gain rapport. Once you get used to asking questions and breaking the ice leading up to dances, you will start making more money cause you will be selling more dances. You can't sell dances if you don't approach, though. It's very rare a guy will approach you nowadays.
    true about guys approaching (inside a stripclub!); but sometimes i do/did have dudes grab me for a dance or talk to me/hit me up first! like this one night, after my stage i went to dressing room and as always took forever to change and cool off etc. when i finally came out, i was heading to the bar to cash out and this australian dude just took me by the hand and askd to dance! afterwards, a custie i gave dance to earlier told me that that dude was just standing near the bar waiting for me to come back out cuz he had turned down every girl who asked him dance! i was like awww how cute~
    p.s. i hate it that i sweat so easily/much!! do you think it's genetic or something?? i'm not a fatty i don't know why i sweat so easily! even after dancing/being onstage or sometimes after lapdances i sweat! and that can't be attractive etc........
    when i gogo danced, omg before the first set (of dancin 20 min straight and i mean real actual dancing!!) i was drenched in sweat yucko~

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    Yeah, but that's the exception not the rule so don't get used to it.
    It's nice when they approach you but maybe 1 out of 50 guys will approach me for a dance. Everyone else, I go up to, chat with them for a song and then ask for a dance.

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    omg what is wrong w me??!!! k tonight apparently was a good night (i saw girls did/do like 30 or more dances!!! and i left little early leaving with 6......i just cannot seem to be comfortable 100% and confident (dont get me wrong i am one of the hot girls in the club) and i am friendly, flirty etc......but something hit me. when i was checking out and went to the bouncer who counts dances, he asked why the hell am i leaving now, and he said girls are doing a lot of dances and then he said he thinks he knows what the problem is: i spend/waste tooo much time on one guy who doesn't even end up buying dances or at least tip something for all that stupid time!!!! can anybody help/advise me why the hell can't i get into the mode and work it like the others . and i STILL WILL never get why/how girls who are just plain unattractive are making $$$. And that BS about guys having diff taste/preferences types etc PLEASE

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    Quote Originally Posted by JuicYJocelyN View Post
    omg what is wrong w me??!!! k tonight apparently was a good night (i saw girls did/do like 30 or more dances!!! and i left little early leaving with 6......i just cannot seem to be comfortable 100% and confident (dont get me wrong i am one of the hot girls in the club) and i am friendly, flirty etc......but something hit me. when i was checking out and went to the bouncer who counts dances, he asked why the hell am i leaving now, and he said girls are doing a lot of dances and then he said he thinks he knows what the problem is: i spend/waste tooo much time on one guy who doesn't even end up buying dances or at least tip something for all that stupid time!!!! can anybody help/advise me why the hell can't i get into the mode and work it like the others . and i STILL WILL never get why/how girls who are just plain unattractive are making $$$. And that BS about guys having diff taste/preferences types etc PLEASE
    Because the fuglies are probably giving head in the back so customers don't have to look at their faces. Do a shot, smoke a joint, fuck your SO, do yoga, pilates, drugs whatever it takes for you to relax before work.

    ASK for dances -_-
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    Quote Originally Posted by tempest666 View Post
    Because the fuglies are probably giving head in the back so customers don't have to look at their faces. Do a shot, smoke a joint, fuck your SO, do yoga, pilates, drugs whatever it takes for you to relax before work.

    ASK for dances -_-

    ur soooo funny and right!!!

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    Give yourself a limit on how much time to chat before asking for a dance. For me it's 1-2 songs on a busy night and about 3 for a slow night.

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