What are your opinions on this topic?
Personally I have known sexually liberal people who have had very few to many, many partners and never looked down on any of them (I am one who has had limited partners due to several bad experiences). I have also known slutty/trashy people who have had only a few partners and those of course that have had many.
It's all about your POV, responsibility, and why you are having sex to me. Sexually open/liberal people are responsible and pick their partners carefully, because they want that particular person. It's not a "yeah, you'll do'' sort of deal generally. Slutty/trashy is more people who do things they don't really want to in order to be seen a certain way or due to low self esteem (I feel really bad for these people though). Drugs and alcohol and unsafe sex are often involved. These people I'll admit, I have difficulty respecting. Accidental prenancies and disease seem to be rampant among this group while they are nearly non-existent in the group I consider "sexually liberal.''
Do you see a difference in the two? Does it make me the same as a drunk club kid picking up a random stranger and banging them without a condom if I have sex with two people I care deeply for? Not in my opinion, but I want to hear how others view this. I'm especially interested in the difference between bisexual women vs straight, men vs women, and how age and dating experience influence view points.
Pls don't be rude. I'd really like to hear how people feel about this topic without the thread being closed because of fighting.



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): Sexually Liberated- Other people think you're cool for sleeping around/ Investment- You make money/ Educated Guess- You guessed right
): Slutty & Trashy- Other people look askance at you for sleeping around/ Speculation- You lose money/ Wild Guess- You guessed wrong.
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