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  • Only having serious relationships with the same sex

    13 14.94%
  • Sex with the same sex, doesn't have to mean a relationship

    38 43.68%
  • Even one time makes someone bisexual

    4 4.60%
  • Depends on the issue

    6 6.90%
  • Even thinking about it but not acting makes one bi

    15 17.24%
  • Sex is sex, I'll take it away I can

    6 6.90%
  • I don't consider myself bi though I have had same sex partners

    13 14.94%
  • I consider myself bi though I would never date the same sex

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    Default Re: What do you consider bisexual?

    How about one weird twist. I will not date anyone who ask about my sexuality. I'm not afraid to say I'm bi but why do you have to ask that question if I'm clearly showing affection. I would think a better question would be asked.. like are you married.. or are you looking for a quickie..

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    A lot of psychologist believe most of us are bisexual (or latently bisexual) to some extent and I believe there is some truth to this. What keeps us from practicing bisexuality is cultural programing, shame, social stigma, fear, etc.

    One way to test this theory - wear a blindfold and receive oral sex twice, alternating between a male and a female person providing oral (obviously, without knowing who goes first or second). If you orgasm both times - you're bi.

    I've said this about "straight" men that like strap-on sex (and my comments always stir up controversy). If you're a "straight" guy who enjoys strap-on sex - try this experiment: wear a blindfold and alternate between a guy and a girl with a strap-on (obviously, without knowing who goes first or second). If you orgasm both times - you're bi. (No offense intended by this to anyone.)

    The objective of sex (sex only, without romance) is to climax/orgasm. If both genders can facilitate this for you - you're bi.
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    Quote Originally Posted by jack0177057 View Post
    A lot of psychologist believe most of us are bisexual to some extent and I believe there is some truth to this. What keeps us from practicing bisexuality is cultural programing, shame, social stigma, fear, etc.

    One way to test this theory - wear a blindfold and receive oral sex twice, alternating between a male and a female person providing oral (obviously, without knowing who goes first or second). If you orgasm both times - you're bi.

    I've said this about "straight" men that like strap-on sex (and my comments always stir up controversy). If you're a "straight" guy who enjoys strap-on sex - try this experiment: wear a blindfold and alternate between a dude and a girl with a strap-on. If you orgasm both times - you're bi. (No offense intended by this.)

    The objective of sex (sex only, without romance) is to climax. If both genders can facilitate this for you - you're bi.
    This makes no sense! Sexuality is about who you are attracted to, not what feels good physically! Are we all attracted to objects if we enjoy a dildo occasionally? NO!!
    Another spin on this.....Rape victims occassionaly orgasm against their will....Does this make it an enjoyable experience? NO!!
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    ^ The basic primordial objective of sex is climax/orgasm. "Attraction" is just an enhancement, it makes the experience a whole lot better, but it is not essential.

    I can fuck a girl I am not attracted to and have a great orgasm - in fact, if she is super-kinky, I may even have a better orgasm with her, than with someone I am actually attracted to.

    Also, "attraction" is large a condition of social/cultural programming. In ancient Greece, the "beauty" of young boys was worshipped and celebrated and it was not frowned upon for "straight" older men to have sex with young boys (in fact, it was quite common). In our society, the "beauty" of young women is worshipped and celebrated, so it is more acceptable for women to appreciate the beauty of other women, than for men to appreciate the "beauty" of other men.

    Good point about inanimate objects - we are beyond bi-sexual - anything-sexual?
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    Orgasm during rape (assuming this happens) is an aberration - it is a very unique unfortunate condition wherein the body and the mind split-up due to trauma and move forward on separate tracks. The body orgasms, not the mind.
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    Quote Originally Posted by jack0177057 View Post
    ^ The basic primordial objective of sex is climax/orgasm.

    "Attraction" is just an enhancement, it makes the experience a whole lot better, but it is not essential. I can fuck a girl I am not attracted to and have a great orgasm (if she is super-kinky, I may even have a better orgasm with her, than with someone I am actually attracted to.) Also, "attraction" is large a condition of social/cultural programming. In ancient Greece, the "beauty" of young boys was worshipped and celebrated and it was not frowned upon for "straight" older men to have sex with young boys. In our society, the "beauty" of young women is worshipped and celebrated, so it is more acceptable for women to appreciate the beauty of other women, than for men to appreciate the "beauty" of other men.
    sooo, if you have a wet dream you are attracted to sleep? This is just hilarious it makes so little sense. You're smarter than this jack.

    Plus, this post is like a sidenote that doesn't even come close to hitting your original point. Its weird.
    "I hear you calling and it's needles and pins. I wanna hurt you just to hear you screaming my name...You're poision. but I don't wanna break these chains.... I wanna love you but I'd better not touch."

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    ^ You lost me on the "attraction" to sleep.

    It gets weirder - see the animation. Read the linked article.

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    Only bisexual when I'm drunk.
    I don't think that's a "true" bisexual though.

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    ^ Oh, don't say that... You are tearing apart my fantasy... I need you to be bisexual.
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    Quote Originally Posted by jack0177057 View Post
    ^ Oh, don't say that... You are tearing apart my fantasy... I need you to be bisexual.
    lol, just get me drunk.

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    Quote Originally Posted by DesuvsDeath View Post
    I think there are plenty of people who are bi-curious who may experience homosexual thoughts or fantasies... but unless you're willing to participate in sex or a relationship with the same gender, you aren't really bisexual, imo.

    Saying "I've thought about kissing a girl, so I'm bisexual is like saying "I've fantasized about stabbing the fuck out of someone... so I'm a murderer."
    epic quote!
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    I'm a bisexual perv. I put "It depends on the situation" because I believe it is a decision that people have to make for themselves. I can't decide about someone's bisexuality (even if I really, really want them to be bisexual...).
    For me personally, I put "I consider myself bi though I would never date the same sex". This has hend true throughout my career as a bisexual. I love to screw the women, I love to have ongoing flirtatious relations, but I could never ever ever ever be in a monogamous relationship with a woman. I need me some penis, too.

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    Quote Originally Posted by jack0177057 View Post
    A lot of psychologist believe most of us are bisexual (or latently bisexual) to some extent and I believe there is some truth to this. What keeps us from practicing bisexuality is cultural programing, shame, social stigma, fear, etc.

    One way to test this theory - wear a blindfold and receive oral sex twice, alternating between a male and a female person providing oral (obviously, without knowing who goes first or second). If you orgasm both times - you're bi.

    I've said this about "straight" men that like strap-on sex (and my comments always stir up controversy). If you're a "straight" guy who enjoys strap-on sex - try this experiment: wear a blindfold and alternate between a guy and a girl with a strap-on (obviously, without knowing who goes first or second). If you orgasm both times - you're bi. (No offense intended by this to anyone.)

    The objective of sex (sex only, without romance) is to climax/orgasm. If both genders can facilitate this for you - you're bi.
    I believe this too. I think everyone has bisexual tendencies, some just act on them more.

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    Quote Originally Posted by jack0177057 View Post
    ^ You lost me on the "attraction" to sleep.

    It gets weirder - see the animation. Read the linked article.

    Why do you take this topic so seriously?
    Because I am bisexual and have been judged for it since my earliest girl crushes when I was 6 or 7ish. I also haaaaate girls who pretend to be bi to get a guys attention. It's retarded and makes the truely bi girl feel like an idiot perv.
    "I hear you calling and it's needles and pins. I wanna hurt you just to hear you screaming my name...You're poision. but I don't wanna break these chains.... I wanna love you but I'd better not touch."

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    Quote Originally Posted by princessjas View Post
    Because I am bisexual and have been judged for it since my earliest girl crushes when I was 6 or 7ish. .
    You had girl crushes this young, too?
    Girl scout camping trips were always so hard for me.... so many cute girls, and I couldn't understand why I wanted to kiss them.

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    Quote Originally Posted by The Contessa View Post
    You had girl crushes this young, too?
    Girl scout camping trips were always so hard for me.... so many cute girls, and I couldn't understand why I wanted to kiss them.
    Yep, girl crush, then boy crush, then another two girl crushes, then a boy crush. I had the hugest crush on about 5 of the girls in my scout troop too! Sleepovers and camping trips were pure torture!

    ETA - I'll also admit I had submissive and bondage fantasies and dreams at that age. They were graphic and soooo confusing.
    "I hear you calling and it's needles and pins. I wanna hurt you just to hear you screaming my name...You're poision. but I don't wanna break these chains.... I wanna love you but I'd better not touch."

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    well some people just like sex and want to be pleased and don't care who they get sex from. I wouldn't necessarily call that bi. In my mind that's just someone who loves sex. Now if that person felt the same way about both sexes in a romantic sense then I would probably be more inclined to say they were "bisexual."
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    Quote Originally Posted by jack0177057 View Post
    A lot of psychologist believe most of us are bisexual (or latently bisexual) to some extent and I believe there is some truth to this. What keeps us from practicing bisexuality is cultural programing, shame, social stigma, fear, etc.

    One way to test this theory - wear a blindfold and receive oral sex twice, alternating between a male and a female person providing oral (obviously, without knowing who goes first or second). If you orgasm both times - you're bi.

    I've said this about "straight" men that like strap-on sex (and my comments always stir up controversy). If you're a "straight" guy who enjoys strap-on sex - try this experiment: wear a blindfold and alternate between a guy and a girl with a strap-on (obviously, without knowing who goes first or second). If you orgasm both times - you're bi. (No offense intended by this to anyone.)

    The objective of sex (sex only, without romance) is to climax/orgasm. If both genders can facilitate this for you - you're bi.
    That's the craziest thing I've ever heard. Stimulation is stimulation, Jack. I don't care if a girl goes down on me but I'm not reciprocating. You also have to think about the situation, so I guess I should clarify. If another woman was with my husband in bed and she wanted to go down on me, I wouldn't care if he said he wanted to see that, but I wouldn't reciprocate (I actually hate the taste and texture of vagina). I've had sex with a few girls, but it was always for a reason other than attraction (because I wanted to fuck their boyfriend, because I wanted them to fuck my boyfriend, because I was trying to get some collateral, etc etc). Now that I'm married, I don't do these things. I do not identify as bisexual.

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    Quote Originally Posted by princessjas View Post
    Because I am bisexual and have been judged for it since my earliest girl crushes when I was 6 or 7ish. I also haaaaate girls who pretend to be bi to get a guys attention. It's retarded and makes the truely bi girl feel like an idiot perv.
    How do you know they're pretending? They could be experimenting with their sexuality or trying "something different". I don't see any harm at all in two "straight" girls kissing passionately - its effing hot (if they're both beautiful), whether they're straight, lesbians or bisexual.

    BTW - I just found out 2 weeks ago that one of my sisters "came out of the closet" and told my parents she is a lesbian and has always been attracted to girls. My mom took it real bad, mostly, because she thinks my sister will have a hard life - my sister said she's faced cruel rejections from (straight) girl friends she became attracted to, and has been hurt many times. My dad was, surprisingly, not too upset - I think he is relieved that she's not going to end up pregnant (and single), like my other sister.

    I cool with it, I'm looking forward to taking her out to a SC next time she visits.
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    Quote Originally Posted by mediocrity View Post
    That's the craziest thing I've ever heard. Stimulation is stimulation, Jack.
    I know I say a lot of crazy things - But, it's a theory shared by many psychologist.

    Quote Originally Posted by mediocrity View Post
    I don't care if a girl goes down on me but I'm not reciprocating.
    There are guys that love to receive BJs, but hate going down on a woman (and vice versa) - so, I don't think lack of reciprocity means much.
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    i believe very strongly in allowing & encouraging people to self-identify...and i usually ask people what they identify as instead of trying to label them.

    personally i am pansexual. (i prefer that term to bisexual because i don't believe gender is binary and because i'm attracted to folks who are othergendered/genderqueer.) i've had relationships with people of different genders and am attracted to people of different genders both sexually and romantically. that's why i identify this way.

    technically speaking, there are very few people who are entirely homosexual or heterosexual...most people are somewhere in between on the kinsey scale.

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    Quote Originally Posted by princessjas View Post
    Because I am bisexual and have been judged for it since my earliest girl crushes when I was 6 or 7ish.
    I also haaaaate girls who pretend to be bi to get a guys attention.
    It's retarded and makes the truely bi girl feel like an idiot perv.

    Me too. It's known as prick teasing here and I get really irritated by it. Quite often they are gorgeous and have no idea what they're doing to true bi-girl's libidos....never mind the guys they are trying to impress.

    You just KNOW that if you came on to these girls, and they realised that you were serious about them - they'd run a mile in most cases...!
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    Quote Originally Posted by jack0177057 View Post
    How do you know they're pretending? They could be experimenting with their sexuality or trying "something different". I don't see any harm at all in two "straight" girls kissing passionately - its effing hot (if they're both beautiful), whether they're straight, lesbians or bisexual.

    BTW - I just found out 2 weeks ago that one of my sisters "came out of the closet" and told my parents she is a lesbian and has always been attracted to girls. My mom took it real bad, mostly, because she thinks my sister will have a hard life - my sister said she's faced cruel rejections from (straight) girl friends she became attracted to, and has been hurt many times. My dad was, surprisingly, not too upset - I think he is relieved that she's not going to end up pregnant (and single), like my other sister.

    I cool with it, I'm looking forward to taking her out to a SC next time she visits.
    Trust me... you know. I have kissed and done more with girls who are not bi and are just trying to impress a guy. Its really obvious. You can just feel their energy. They are not interested in you and are more interested in what positions "look good" and what their boyfriend or watching boys are doing/how they are reacting. It might be harmless to the girl but for me it is hurtful. You shouldnt fool around with someone if you dont even like them. Even though Im not interested in a relationship I still find it hurtful when a girl pretends to be bi and once I start something I can tell she obviously knows she isnt and is just putting on a show. I wouldnt care if she was curious and decided later it wasnt for her, but I can tell the difference.

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    Quote Originally Posted by pussyinboots View Post
    Me too. It's known as prick teasing here and I get really irritated by it. Quite often they are gorgeous and have no idea what they're doing to true bi-girl's libidos....never mind the guys they are trying to impress.

    You just KNOW that if you came on to these girls, and they realised that you were serious about them - they'd run a mile in most cases...!
    Quote Originally Posted by Jessie_tinydancer View Post
    Trust me... you know. I have kissed and done more with girls who are not bi and are just trying to impress a guy. Its really obvious. You can just feel their energy. They are not interested in you and are more interested in what positions "look good" and what their boyfriend or watching boys are doing/how they are reacting. It might be harmless to the girl but for me it is hurtful. You shouldnt fool around with someone if you dont even like them. Even though Im not interested in a relationship I still find it hurtful when a girl pretends to be bi and once I start something I can tell she obviously knows she isnt and is just putting on a show. I wouldnt care if she was curious and decided later it wasnt for her, but I can tell the difference.
    I agree with both of these! Trust me jack.....we KNOW! It's not hard to spot and it IS hurtful and annoying. It's like a giant slap in the face.
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    What do I consider bisexual?



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