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  • Only having serious relationships with the same sex

    13 14.94%
  • Sex with the same sex, doesn't have to mean a relationship

    38 43.68%
  • Even one time makes someone bisexual

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  • Depends on the issue

    6 6.90%
  • Even thinking about it but not acting makes one bi

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  • Sex is sex, I'll take it away I can

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    A lot of the men on SW are definitely "buy-sexual".

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    Quote Originally Posted by jack0177057 View Post
    ^ The basic primordial objective of sex is climax/orgasm. "Attraction" is just an enhancement, it makes the experience a whole lot better, but it is not essential.

    I can fuck a girl I am not attracted to and have a great orgasm - in fact, if she is super-kinky, I may even have a better orgasm with her, than with someone I am actually attracted to.

    Also, "attraction" is large a condition of social/cultural programming. In ancient Greece, the "beauty" of young boys was worshipped and celebrated and it was not frowned upon for "straight" older men to have sex with young boys (in fact, it was quite common). In our society, the "beauty" of young women is worshipped and celebrated, so it is more acceptable for women to appreciate the beauty of other women, than for men to appreciate the "beauty" of other men.

    Good point about inanimate objects - we are beyond bi-sexual - anything-sexual?
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    Orgasm during rape (assuming this happens) is an aberration - it is a very unique unfortunate condition wherein the body and the mind split-up due to trauma and move forward on separate tracks. The body orgasms, not the mind.
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    Quote Originally Posted by sierra. View Post
    I also just want to throw out there that there's more to sexual orientation than gay, straight, or bi.

    I consider myself to be pansexual, though I often just tell people that I'm bi because it requires less explaining.
    You have sex with pans????!!! I couldn't resist!

    I'm bi BUT I think theoretically I could even go so far a mate swap--especially if it was Brad Pitt and Angelina Jolie!! Hell yeah!
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    Quote Originally Posted by Jessie_tinydancer View Post
    Trust me... you know. I have kissed and done more with girls who are not bi and are just trying to impress a guy. Its really obvious. You can just feel their energy. They are not interested in you and are more interested in what positions "look good" and what their boyfriend or watching boys are doing/how they are reacting. It might be harmless to the girl but for me it is hurtful. You shouldnt fool around with someone if you dont even like them. Even though Im not interested in a relationship I still find it hurtful when a girl pretends to be bi and once I start something I can tell she obviously knows she isnt and is just putting on a show. I wouldnt care if she was curious and decided later it wasnt for her, but I can tell the difference.
    Quote Originally Posted by princessjas View Post
    I agree with both of these! Trust me jack.....we KNOW! It's not hard to spot and it IS hurtful and annoying. It's like a giant slap in the face.
    THIS. I'm not bisexual, because unlike these lovely ladies, I have only had sex with women when I had something to gain. I have also never felt attracted to a woman. Jessie and Jas both genuinely ENJOY, are attracted to, and SEEK sex with women. See the difference? I even said that now, I won't ever do it again, because now I have nothing to stand to gain by doing something I DO NOT enjoy.

    Do you see my point?

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    Quote Originally Posted by Jessie_tinydancer View Post
    Trust me... you know. I have kissed and done more with girls who are not bi and are just trying to impress a guy. Its really obvious. You can just feel their energy. They are not interested in you and are more interested in what positions "look good" and what their boyfriend or watching boys are doing/how they are reacting. It might be harmless to the girl but for me it is hurtful. You shouldnt fool around with someone if you dont even like them. Even though Im not interested in a relationship I still find it hurtful when a girl pretends to be bi and once I start something I can tell she obviously knows she isnt and is just putting on a show. I wouldnt care if she was curious and decided later it wasnt for her, but I can tell the difference.

    Quote Originally Posted by princessjas View Post
    I agree with both of these! Trust me jack.....we KNOW! It's not hard to spot and it IS hurtful and annoying. It's like a giant slap in the face.
    Oh this is really SO frustrating...like...I can feel the energy from you guys just by reading these posts......!


    Quote Originally Posted by mediocrity View Post
    THIS. I'm not bisexual, because unlike these lovely ladies, I have only had sex with women when I had something to gain. I have also never felt attracted to a woman.
    Jessie and Jas both genuinely ENJOY, are attracted to, and SEEK sex with women.
    See the difference? I even said that now, I won't ever do it again, because now I have nothing to stand to gain by doing something I DO NOT enjoy.

    Do you see my point?
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    Quote Originally Posted by Jessie_tinydancer View Post
    Trust me... you know. I have kissed and done more with girls who are not bi and are just trying to impress a guy. Its really obvious. You can just feel their energy. They are not interested in you and are more interested in what positions "look good" and what their boyfriend or watching boys are doing/how they are reacting. It might be harmless to the girl but for me it is hurtful. You shouldnt fool around with someone if you dont even like them. Even though Im not interested in a relationship I still find it hurtful when a girl pretends to be bi and once I start something I can tell she obviously knows she isnt and is just putting on a show. I wouldnt care if she was curious and decided later it wasnt for her, but I can tell the difference.
    Wow - that's unbeleavable that a girl would engage in sex with women (without being curious or into it at all) just to impress some guy. I suppose, if he has a "cuckold" fetish and wants her to fuck random guys, she'd do that, too - sad and disgusting!

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    The way other people label themselves doesn't bother me at all. I don't think anyone is required to "prove" anything about their sexuality to me or anyone. I also would call myself pansexual or queer. I have dated all kinds of people of various genders.

    Jack, I don't see what is "disgusting" about wanting to please your mate. However, I do think it's important to remember the other person you are interacting with is a PERSON, not just a plaything so you can arouse your significant ther.
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    Quote Originally Posted by jack0177057 View Post
    One way to test this theory - wear a blindfold and receive oral sex twice, alternating between a male and a female person providing oral (obviously, without knowing who goes first or second). If you orgasm both times - you're bi.

    I've said this about "straight" men that like strap-on sex (and my comments always stir up controversy). If you're a "straight" guy who enjoys strap-on sex - try this experiment: wear a blindfold and alternate between a guy and a girl with a strap-on (obviously, without knowing who goes first or second). If you orgasm both times - you're bi. (No offense intended by this to anyone.)
    Wow, this is one of the most clueless and inane things I have ever read. If you orgasm both times, you're a human being with nerve endings.
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    Originally Posted by Jessie_tinydancer
    Trust me... you know. I have kissed and done more with girls who are not bi and are just trying to impress a guy. Its really obvious. You can just feel their energy. They are not interested in you and are more interested in what positions "look good" and what their boyfriend or watching boys are doing/how they are reacting. It might be harmless to the girl but for me it is hurtful. You shouldnt fool around with someone if you dont even like them. Even though Im not interested in a relationship I still find it hurtful when a girl pretends to be bi and once I start something I can tell she obviously knows she isnt and is just putting on a show. I wouldnt care if she was curious and decided later it wasnt for her, but I can tell the difference.




    I had something similar a few nights ago. I was out at a gay bar with a friend who I occasionally hook up with (he's bisexual), and unfortunately for him, he was being somewhat attacked that night. One fellow who was particularly insistent coerced his female friend into hooking up with me to provide sufficient distraction. Not only was she one of the worst kissers I've ever experienced, but you could practically feel the disgust radiating off her. It was probably one of the most awkward experiences I've ever had.
    In answer to the original question, I like both men and women, and I've had long term committed relationships with both. I tend to have a preference for men, but should I see a lady that I particularly like the look of I will not hesitate to make a move. Meh, doesn't really answer the question so much, but oh well!

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    Quote Originally Posted by noelle View Post
    Jack, I don't see what is "disgusting" about wanting to please your mate. However, I do think it's important to remember the other person you are interacting with is a PERSON, not just a plaything so you can arouse your significant ther.
    I have lived my whole life wanting to please women sexually (and succeeding, for the most part). I've read books, watched videos, bought toys, lotions, bondage accessories, etc.,... learned to give messages (back, legs, shoulders, neck, butt and clit) and to "go down", etc. But, I would never engage in sexual activities with another person, just to please my GF (unless it was an experience that I also found pleasurable).

    But, I sincerely meant no offense to anybody. Sorry if my language offended anyone.
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    One way to test this theory - wear a blindfold and receive oral sex twice, alternating between a male and a female person providing oral (obviously, without knowing who goes first or second). If you orgasm both times - you're bi.

    Quote Originally Posted by noelle View Post
    Wow, this is one of the most clueless and inane things I have ever read. If you orgasm both times, you're a human being with nerve endings.
    Exactly, that's my point - nearly everyone has the capacity to orgasm from sexual interaction with either gender. I'm not saying there is attraction for both genders, just the potential for orgasm from same-sex sexual activities.

    The idea of a man giving me a blowjob is supremely repulsive to me. But, if I had to spend the rest of my life in jail with men only, my brain would rewire itself, eventually, to get past this repulsion and enjoy the stimulation of receiving a blowjob from a guy - even though I would never feel any physical attraction whatsoever for the guy giving me a BJ and I would never reciprocate.

    For me, it would take 5 years in jail or more to make me "bisexual" (in the sense of willingly accepting blowjobs from other men). For another straight guy - he might turn bisexual after just 5 months; another guy - 5 days. Its not all the same same across the board.
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    Quote Originally Posted by jack0177057 View Post
    Wow - that's unbeleavable that a girl would engage in sex with women (without being curious or into it at all) just to impress some guy. I suppose, if he has a "cuckold" fetish and wants her to fuck random guys, she'd do that, too - sad and disgusting!
    It's not always that clear. The one time I engaged in sex with a woman had to do with my then FWB asking me. He had been with many men and he knew I wanted to see it but he wanted to see me with her. So I did it. It had been a couple he had sex with many times so he knew them. Otherwise I doubt I would have. I would likely not repeat it with any other girl.

    However, an exboyfriend (one I lived with) wanted to watch me with his friend. His friend was hot and we both had an attraction to each other so this I readily wanted to do. I was splitting from the boyfriend at this point and we knew it, so it was hot having sex with the friend. We did it other times too.

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    I consider anyone that is sexually attracted in both male and females to be bisexual. I consider myself bisexual. I am married to a man but I still get aroused by women. I check women out as much as I check men out...actually more so, LOL.. I have had sexual relations with women but I have never dated a woman. I wanted to once though...*sigh*

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    Quote Originally Posted by Kellydancer View Post
    It's not always that clear. The one time I engaged in sex with a woman had to do with my then FWB asking me. He had been with many men and he knew I wanted to see it but he wanted to see me with her. So I did it. It had been a couple he had sex with many times so he knew them. Otherwise I doubt I would have. I would likely not repeat it with any other girl.

    However, an exboyfriend (one I lived with) wanted to watch me with his friend. His friend was hot and we both had an attraction to each other so this I readily wanted to do. I was splitting from the boyfriend at this point and we knew it, so it was hot having sex with the friend. We did it other times too.
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    It does make more sense, under these circumstances.
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    Quote Originally Posted by kaiarose View Post
    I consider anyone that is sexually attracted in both male and females to be bisexual. I consider myself bisexual. I am married to a man but I still get aroused by women. I check women out as much as I check men out...actually more so, LOL.. I have had sexual relations with women but I have never dated a woman. I wanted to once though...*sigh*
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    Quote Originally Posted by jack0177057 View Post
    Kellydancer - You're so naughty.
    It does make more sense, under these circumstances.
    When are you posting a pic?
    My ex was the alcoholic I've mentioned a few times and unknown to him I had already been with his friend (his friend was far better looking). The FWB was a one shot deal and though he's asked me again I wasn't interested. In fact recently after 8 years he just called asking to get back together because he was "horny". I have a pattern with both FWBs and actual boyfriends coming back into my life months or years later. I probably won't get back with the FWB because to me that's a closed chapter of my life. It was fun in my 20's and early 30's but now I want more than sex.

    I did post a photo a few days ago in chat and one day will do it on the board too.

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    ^ I missed it?
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    i think if you dabble... ur bicurious, and if you like eating pussy but still love the cock...ur str8 up bi. if you like work boots and changing tires by yourself ur a lesbian.

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    Quote Originally Posted by jennsweet View Post
    i think if you dabble... ur bicurious, and if you like eating pussy but still love the cock...ur str8 up bi. if you like work boots and changing tires by yourself ur a lesbian.
    mmm...sweet tangy pussy..... I also love tribbing aka scissoring.. And there's something so much more sensual about kissing a woman. Soft lips, sensual, soft, caressing... I haven't found a girl I'm attracted to in 2 years, sigh..

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    Wait I'm butch & a lesbian, but I don't change tires or wear work boots. Army boots maybe, but I git triple A & pretty hands so no that doesn't have anything to do with being a lesbian. Lesbian is simply a sexual preference for women.
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    I just always thought lesbian meant I don't do cock. Bi meant I do both because I want to and am attracted to both sexes.
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    Quote Originally Posted by kaiarose View Post
    I also love tribbing aka scissoring..
    Yep, this is my favorite thing ever. I used to look at a lot of girl on girl porn but not enough of it has tribbing...
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    Quote Originally Posted by kaiarose View Post
    mmm...sweet tangy pussy..... I also love tribbing aka scissoring.. And there's something so much more sensual about kissing a woman. Soft lips, sensual, soft, caressing... I haven't found a girl I'm attracted to in 2 years, sigh..
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    Quote Originally Posted by kaiarose View Post
    mmm...sweet tangy pussy..... I also love tribbing aka scissoring.. And there's something so much more sensual about kissing a woman. Soft lips, sensual, soft, caressing... I haven't found a girl I'm attracted to in 2 years, sigh..
    Call me naive but I've never understood how this works!

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    I had to look that up to see what it was. Now I see what it is but I don't get the interest in it. Are the orgasms better doing that than oral?

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