A lot of the men on SW are definitely "buy-sexual".
Only having serious relationships with the same sex
Sex with the same sex, doesn't have to mean a relationship
Even one time makes someone bisexual
Depends on the issue
Even thinking about it but not acting makes one bi
Sex is sex, I'll take it away I can
I don't consider myself bi though I have had same sex partners
I consider myself bi though I would never date the same sex




A lot of the men on SW are definitely "buy-sexual".





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THIS. I'm not bisexual, because unlike these lovely ladies, I have only had sex with women when I had something to gain. I have also never felt attracted to a woman. Jessie and Jas both genuinely ENJOY, are attracted to, and SEEK sex with women. See the difference? I even said that now, I won't ever do it again, because now I have nothing to stand to gain by doing something I DO NOT enjoy.
Do you see my point?




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Wow - that's unbeleavable that a girl would engage in sex with women (without being curious or into it at all) just to impress some guy. I suppose, if he has a "cuckold" fetish and wants her to fuck random guys, she'd do that, too - sad and disgusting!
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The way other people label themselves doesn't bother me at all. I don't think anyone is required to "prove" anything about their sexuality to me or anyone. I also would call myself pansexual or queer. I have dated all kinds of people of various genders.
Jack, I don't see what is "disgusting" about wanting to please your mate. However, I do think it's important to remember the other person you are interacting with is a PERSON, not just a plaything so you can arouse your significant ther.

Originally Posted by Jessie_tinydancer
Trust me... you know. I have kissed and done more with girls who are not bi and are just trying to impress a guy. Its really obvious. You can just feel their energy. They are not interested in you and are more interested in what positions "look good" and what their boyfriend or watching boys are doing/how they are reacting. It might be harmless to the girl but for me it is hurtful. You shouldnt fool around with someone if you dont even like them. Even though Im not interested in a relationship I still find it hurtful when a girl pretends to be bi and once I start something I can tell she obviously knows she isnt and is just putting on a show. I wouldnt care if she was curious and decided later it wasnt for her, but I can tell the difference.
I had something similar a few nights ago. I was out at a gay bar with a friend who I occasionally hook up with (he's bisexual), and unfortunately for him, he was being somewhat attacked that night. One fellow who was particularly insistent coerced his female friend into hooking up with me to provide sufficient distraction. Not only was she one of the worst kissers I've ever experienced, but you could practically feel the disgust radiating off her. It was probably one of the most awkward experiences I've ever had.
In answer to the original question, I like both men and women, and I've had long term committed relationships with both. I tend to have a preference for men, but should I see a lady that I particularly like the look of I will not hesitate to make a move. Meh, doesn't really answer the question so much, but oh well!





I have lived my whole life wanting to please women sexually (and succeeding, for the most part). I've read books, watched videos, bought toys, lotions, bondage accessories, etc.,... learned to give messages (back, legs, shoulders, neck, butt and clit) and to "go down", etc. But, I would never engage in sexual activities with another person, just to please my GF (unless it was an experience that I also found pleasurable).
But, I sincerely meant no offense to anybody. Sorry if my language offended anyone.
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One way to test this theory - wear a blindfold and receive oral sex twice, alternating between a male and a female person providing oral (obviously, without knowing who goes first or second). If you orgasm both times - you're bi.
Exactly, that's my point - nearly everyone has the capacity to orgasm from sexual interaction with either gender. I'm not saying there is attraction for both genders, just the potential for orgasm from same-sex sexual activities.
The idea of a man giving me a blowjob is supremely repulsive to me. But, if I had to spend the rest of my life in jail with men only, my brain would rewire itself, eventually, to get past this repulsion and enjoy the stimulation of receiving a blowjob from a guy - even though I would never feel any physical attraction whatsoever for the guy giving me a BJ and I would never reciprocate.
For me, it would take 5 years in jail or more to make me "bisexual" (in the sense of willingly accepting blowjobs from other men). For another straight guy - he might turn bisexual after just 5 months; another guy - 5 days. Its not all the same same across the board.
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It's not always that clear. The one time I engaged in sex with a woman had to do with my then FWB asking me. He had been with many men and he knew I wanted to see it but he wanted to see me with her. So I did it. It had been a couple he had sex with many times so he knew them. Otherwise I doubt I would have. I would likely not repeat it with any other girl.
However, an exboyfriend (one I lived with) wanted to watch me with his friend. His friend was hot and we both had an attraction to each other so this I readily wanted to do. I was splitting from the boyfriend at this point and we knew it, so it was hot having sex with the friend. We did it other times too.





I consider anyone that is sexually attracted in both male and females to be bisexual. I consider myself bisexual. I am married to a man but I still get aroused by women. I check women out as much as I check men out...actually more so, LOL.. I have had sexual relations with women but I have never dated a woman. I wanted to once though...*sigh*















My ex was the alcoholic I've mentioned a few times and unknown to him I had already been with his friend (his friend was far better looking). The FWB was a one shot deal and though he's asked me again I wasn't interested. In fact recently after 8 years he just called asking to get back together because he was "horny". I have a pattern with both FWBs and actual boyfriends coming back into my life months or years later. I probably won't get back with the FWB because to me that's a closed chapter of my life. It was fun in my 20's and early 30's but now I want more than sex.
I did post a photo a few days ago in chat and one day will do it on the board too.





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i think if you dabble... ur bicurious, and if you like eating pussy but still love the cock...ur str8 up bi. if you like work boots and changing tires by yourself ur a lesbian.





Wait I'm butch & a lesbian, but I don't change tires or wear work boots. Army boots maybe, but I git triple A & pretty hands so no that doesn't have anything to do with being a lesbian. Lesbian is simply a sexual preference for women.
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I just always thought lesbian meant I don't do cock. Bi meant I do both because I want to and am attracted to both sexes.
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I had to look that up to see what it was. Now I see what it is but I don't get the interest in it. Are the orgasms better doing that than oral?
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