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  • Only having serious relationships with the same sex

    13 14.94%
  • Sex with the same sex, doesn't have to mean a relationship

    38 43.68%
  • Even one time makes someone bisexual

    4 4.60%
  • Depends on the issue

    6 6.90%
  • Even thinking about it but not acting makes one bi

    15 17.24%
  • Sex is sex, I'll take it away I can

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  • I don't consider myself bi though I have had same sex partners

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  • I consider myself bi though I would never date the same sex

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    Quote Originally Posted by mediocrity View Post
    Call me naive but I've never understood how this works!

    At the risk of getting dreadfully horny.....I'll try and explain.

    'Tribbing' is the act of mutual clitoral stimulation which involves both girls rubbing their vulvas against the other.

    'Scissoring' is the way in which two girls can give each other this mutual clitoral stimulation, by interlocking their legs in a way that allows each partner to rub their kitty (and clitty) against the other's - whilst squeezing their thighs against the other girl's thighs (optional). 'Scissoring' isn't the only position that 'tribbing' can be done in - the missionary position allows girls to rub their vulvas against the other too, as can other positions. These links explain it clearer than I can..

    http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Tribadism

    http://tribbing.org/


    Quote Originally Posted by Kellydancer View Post
    I had to look that up to see what it was. Now I see what it is but I don't get the interest in it. Are the orgasms better doing that than oral?
    As with any kind of sexual stimulation, the intensity of the orgasm is a completely individual experience. It's just that 'tribbing' and 'scissoring' happen to be practical ways of how two girls can pleasure each other.

    Personally, I love it, but then I'm into curvy girls with thick legs - and legs play a large part in any 'scissoring' activity.

    Wikipedia and Lesbian websites don't give you a proper idea of the intimacy involved...you really have to try it out yourself (if you're so inclined). Of course, you don't just strip off and lock legs straightaway.....the whole foreplay, and kissing and cuddling and stroking thing still takes place.......

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    Thanks for explaining, PIB! I've always wondered how it worked. One of life's little mysteries: SOLVED!

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    i personally think bisexual is having no preference in a relationship whether the person is male or female... "equal opportunist" as tamra said on real housewives of oc lol. if you could be in a serious relationship with a man, but could NOT see yourself ever in serious relationship with a woman, then you are not bi. that is my take on it.

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    Quote Originally Posted by jack0177057 View Post
    Orgasm during rape (assuming this happens) is an aberration -
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    Exactly, that's my point - nearly everyone has the capacity to orgasm from sexual interaction with either gender.
    Umm.... think you may have contradicted yourself here.
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    ^ The first statement involves a criminal act of violence. The second statement assumes a voluntary and consensual act.
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    Quote Originally Posted by pussyinboots View Post
    'Scissoring' isn't the only position that 'tribbing' can be done in - the missionary position allows girls to rub their vulvas against the other too, as can other positions.
    Yes! My gf doesnt do scissoring at all. Says it feels too impersonal, but we do missonary on the regular.

    Also, oyy do some of the posts in this thread make my head hurt.
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    Quote Originally Posted by jack0177057 View Post
    ^ The first statement involves a criminal act of violence. The second statement assumes a voluntary and consensual act.
    OMFG are you seriously this freakin' clueless dude? I mean for real?? I seriously wonder how you tie your shoes in the morning. Let me guess... you wear those slip on loafers....

    SEXUAL INTERACTION CAN CAUSE AN ORGASM. Regardless of whether the act is voluntary or consensual.... that was the damn point of my post... Smfh...
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    Quote Originally Posted by pussyinboots View Post
    At the risk of getting dreadfully horny.....I'll try and explain.
    My thoughts exactly! Hahaha. I love it.

    Quote Originally Posted by pussyinboots View Post
    'Scissoring' isn't the only position that 'tribbing' can be done in - the missionary position allows girls to rub their vulvas against the other too, as can other positions.
    Yes, I feel like scissoring is a misleading name because you just imagine the girls lying way far away from each other and rubbing vulvas. I've always done it missionary in a hot, grinding fashion, leaving our hands free to wander everywhere...

    Oh dear, now I'm getting dreadfully horny
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    Quote Originally Posted by JayATee View Post
    OMFG are you seriously this freakin' clueless dude? I mean for real?? I seriously wonder how you tie your shoes in the morning. Let me guess... you wear those slip on loafers....
    LOL,... I'm wearing loafers right now.

    Quote Originally Posted by JayATee View Post
    SEXUAL INTERACTION CAN CAUSE AN ORGASM. Regardless of whether the act is voluntary or consensual.... that was the damn point of my post... Smfh...
    When I think of orgasms - I don't think of rape,... ever,... the two seem like polar opposites - orgasm being a wonderful thing - a "mind-blowing" climax of pleasure - and rape being a climax of violence, brutality, pain, humiliation and degradation.

    Yes, I have heard that a woman can orgasm during rape, but: (1) I suspect that its a rare phenomenon, and (2) its obviously not the type of "orgasm" I was referring to (i.e., a climax of pleasure).

    I suspect (and obviously I don't have first-hand experience) that the "orgasm" experienced by rape victims is purely a bodily reaction with orgasmic-type of convulsions, but no pleasure at all. Really, it shouldn't even be called an "orgasm".
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    I always thought that bisexual meant you are completely equally interested in both men and women and can not decide which one you like more. I think that if you prefer men and like to sleep with women on occasion you simply are trysexual(try different sexual things) and like to have fun. Or if you are a guy and like girls but have sex with guys on occasion same thing. My friends and I coined the phrase "hightry girls" for chicks who under the influence of substances like to try things they are sexually curious about, but otherwise wouldn't do sober.
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    ^^^^ I think that constitutes bi-curious....
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    Why do I feel like we are slowly having a another fight in here..

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    ^ Isn't that how every thread ends?
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    True.. But I was hoping for once a sex or religious thread would not have a fight..

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    Unfortunately that seems to be a problem in every thread on every forum.

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    An o is something that can happen if a girl gets a piercing that hits her clit the right way & it does physically happen to many girls that are raped so I don't think any1 can argue that it can very well be an involuntary re-action to things a person might not even feel the slight bit of sexual attraction in.

    I am a lesbian, but orally any1 that really knows what they are doing can physically make me cum if i had my eyes closed I probably couldn't tell the difference between some men or women doing that to me--though facial hair can be a give away. Still doesn't change the fact I'm not sexually attracted to 99.9% of men & I definitely prefer women hands down, but becuz I would do a young Brad Pit & Angelina I don't think that would make me bi any more then I would think of that 3some as an exception where his dick still wouldn't go anywhere near me as I really do find it kinda sexually unattractive to me even if I do think he was sexy back in the days.


    Still sexuality really isn't ez to label & it's much more fluid which a much larger scale of diversity then just gay bi or str8. People experiment, might go thur phases, have needs, make exceptions, have sex for many reasons beyond personal desire, & just are too complicated to str8 means never having gay sex or bi means equally desiring of both, or being gay means never of having str8 sex. It might be the case for some, but there is alot more greys in human sexuality 100% gay or str8 or bi being 50/50 as if some1 would actually take turns on what sex they want to be with based on last was a girl so now it has to be a male type of mentality.

    Bi or lesbian can be a girl that never slept with another woman at all, but who has repressed that desired that has always been part of her. The same way some bigirls want to only have sex with men but prefer relationships with men. Or a str8 guy in prison long enough might have gay sex & not consider himself bi at all.
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    Quote Originally Posted by jack0177057 View Post
    LOL,... I'm wearing loafers right now.



    When I think of orgasms - I don't think of rape,... ever,... the two seem like polar opposites - orgasm being a wonderful thing - a "mind-blowing" climax of pleasure - and rape being a climax of violence, brutality, pain, humiliation and degradation.

    Yes, I have heard that a woman can orgasm during rape, but: (1) I suspect that its a rare phenomenon, and (2) its obviously not the type of "orgasm" I was referring to (i.e., a climax of pleasure).

    I suspect (and obviously I don't have first-hand experience) that the "orgasm" experienced by rape victims is purely a bodily reaction with orgasmic-type of convulsions, but no pleasure at all. Really, it shouldn't even be called an "orgasm".
    You know Jack, normally I can get behind what you're trying to say, but after this post- I'm going to assume you've never been raped, so I don't really think you have any ground to stand upon in regards to that subject.

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    ^ I said - "I suspect (and obviously I don't have first-hand experience) that the "orgasm" experienced by rape victims is purely a bodily reaction with orgasmic-type of convulsions, but no pleasure at all."

    Are you saying that victims of rape may experience some pleasure during the rape? - I'm not asking this in an argumentative or judgmental tone, I'm just surprised to learn this.
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    Quote Originally Posted by jack0177057 View Post
    ^ I said - "I suspect (and obviously I don't have first-hand experience) that the "orgasm" experienced by rape victims is purely a bodily reaction with orgasmic-type of convulsions, but no pleasure at all."

    Are you saying that victims of rape may experience some pleasure during the rape? - I'm not asking this in an argumentative or judgmental tone, I'm just surprised to learn this.
    Ever been raped by someone you are dating and half in love with? Who knows your body and how to make it respond? You're hurting and terrified, but things started out ok and you were already turned on....now you dont know what the hell is going on. Does this make it less of a rape somehow? This is the scenario in a lot of unreported rapes, btw.
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    ^ I didn't say it "makes it less of a rape" - I just never knew that a rape victim could have such contradicting feelings of horror/shock/hurt/humiliation, and also, some part of her feels pleasure. Obviously, it is still a rape and not "less of a rape".
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    Quote Originally Posted by So Fine Divyne View Post
    I always thought that bisexual meant you are completely equally interested in both men and women and can not decide which one you like more. I think that if you prefer men and like to sleep with women on occasion you simply are trysexual(try different sexual things) and like to have fun. Or if you are a guy and like girls but have sex with guys on occasion same thing. My friends and I coined the phrase "hightry girls" for chicks who under the influence of substances like to try things they are sexually curious about, but otherwise wouldn't do sober.
    I will admit as a man its hard to understand a man that sleeps with other men on occasion...as Bi. I just put them in the gay category..idk

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    ^ I said - "I suspect (and obviously I don't have first-hand experience) that the "orgasm" experienced by rape victims is purely a bodily reaction with orgasmic-type of convulsions, but no pleasure at all."

    Are you saying that victims of rape may experience some pleasure during the rape? - I'm not asking this in an argumentative or judgmental tone, I'm just surprised to learn this.
    Jake just to be informative many women (& men who had been raped) do have physical orgasms while being raped --many of my ex gfs felt betrayed by their bodies for feeling pleasure during such a traumatic experience.

    No1 wants to be raped (or it wouldn't be rape) nor do they feel they got pleasure out of being raped by any means--orgasms that physically happen during rape are not thought of in that way that went against a person's desire (rape is about taking not giving). However much like pain can turn into pleasure at a certain point where your body releases adrenaline to help a person deal with a stressful situation well getting raped can also trigger the same under the trauma of surviving during the sexual attack. However some1 could very ezly get pleasure from the adrenaline rush itself & other physical aspects of the sex itself rape or not.

    However this thread is about bisexuality which can't be defined by orgasms (psyhically forced or not) as if that was the case what would be the sexuality of some1 who has sex with both sex but only reaches orgasm with a vibrator?
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    Quote Originally Posted by princessjas View Post
    Ever been raped by someone you are dating and half in love with? Who knows your body and how to make it respond? You're hurting and terrified, but things started out ok and you were already turned on....now you dont know what the hell is going on. Does this make it less of a rape somehow? This is the scenario in a lot of unreported rapes, btw.
    This, and other unconventional rape situations, are what I was trying to get at. Thanks Jas.

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    Quote Originally Posted by UV69 View Post
    Jake just to be informative many women (& men who had been raped) do have physical orgasms while being raped --many of my ex gfs felt betrayed by their bodies for feeling pleasure during such a traumatic experience.

    No1 wants to be raped (or it wouldn't be rape) nor do they feel they got pleasure out of being raped by any means--orgasms that physically happen during rape are not thought of in that way that went against a person's desire (rape is about taking not giving). However much like pain can turn into pleasure at a certain point where your body releases adrenaline to help a person deal with a stressful situation well getting raped can also trigger the same under the trauma of surviving during the sexual attack. However some1 could very ezly get pleasure from the adrenaline rush itself & other physical aspects of the sex itself rape or not.
    I think I understand. I never thought of that before. That must really mess with someone's head - to be through such a brutal, violent and traumatic event, yet to have had moments of pleasure and even an orgasm during it. I can't even begin to imagine how confusing that must be to the victim.

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    However this thread is about bisexuality which can't be defined by orgasms (psyhically forced or not) as if that was the case what would be the sexuality of some1 who has sex with both sex but only reaches orgasm with a vibrator?
    Idk. -- That does throw a monkey wrench into my theory. I have to either ignore your question or rething my theory...

    I think enjoying sex with both genders (even without orgasm) is the fundamental issue. If you have sex with both genders, but do not enjoy it (for example, a gay-for-pay porn star or a person that pretends to be bi for her partner's viewing pleasure) - I don't think that person is really bi.

    On the other hand, if you enjoy sex with both genders and consensually participate in sexual activities with both genders, I think that makes you bi - even if you only have romantic relationships with the opposite sex and only feel attraction for the opposite sex.

    The blind taste test - Coke and Pepsi use the blind taste test to prove preference for their product when bias and prejudice is removed. If the same test was used for sexual orientation, I think it would prove that most people are or can become bi to some extent.
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    The blind taste test - Coke and Pepsi use the blind taste test to prove preference for their product when bias and prejudice is removed. If the same test was used for sexual orientation, I think it would prove that most people are or can become bi to some extent.
    But that is just sex... This is about what your attracted to, not to what feels good. Think of it this way.. would you sit down blindfolded and let random people do something sexual things to you? What you are talking about doesn't even matter here cause your talking about what feels good, we are talking about what we are attracted to. Now if your saying your attracted to not knowing what is jumping you we can add that to your preference of sexuality.

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