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  • Only having serious relationships with the same sex

    13 14.94%
  • Sex with the same sex, doesn't have to mean a relationship

    38 43.68%
  • Even one time makes someone bisexual

    4 4.60%
  • Depends on the issue

    6 6.90%
  • Even thinking about it but not acting makes one bi

    15 17.24%
  • Sex is sex, I'll take it away I can

    6 6.90%
  • I don't consider myself bi though I have had same sex partners

    13 14.94%
  • I consider myself bi though I would never date the same sex

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    I think most people are not looking to have to have sex with blindfolds in order to enjoy the physical feeling of a wet mouth. I like to think most people are sexually attracted to more of the package of another person then that. That to me only proves some people are better then others at giving oral, but that might not even be a factor some1 cares that much about in who they are attracted to. I've been with women who were great at oral, but that didn't change how attracted to them I was more then I just considered it a bonus to my attraction to them. It wouldn't make or break my attraction to some1 though.
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    ^^^ Guys, how does this relate to the original topic?
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    Quote Originally Posted by sananeko View Post
    But that is just sex... This is about what your attracted to, not to what feels good.
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    I like to think most people are sexually attracted to more of the package of another person then that. That to me only proves some people are better then others at giving oral, but that might not even be a factor some1 cares that much about in who they are attracted to.
    My best friend P is a lesbian and she hangs out with the GLBT crowd. I had a similar debate with her. She said there are "straight" guys that will sometimes join them (the GLBT crowd) and will have sex/get serviced by the gay guys. But, she swears these guys are straight, not gay or bi, and it is purely a sexual thing. She said these guys have GFs or wives and the interaction with the gay men is purely sexual - these "straight guys" are just using the gay men to get off (I suppose the GF or wife is not willing or not available). She calls them "kinky", because they are "straight" guys who will do "kinky" sex things with anyone.

    My opinion is that they are bisexual (if not gay) because they are engaging in sexual acts with people of the same gender.

    Would both of you agree with P that they are straight, even though they are getting serviced by men?
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    Quote Originally Posted by JayATee View Post
    So? How is this relevant? What you "think" doesn't change actual facts. I'm sure they taught you this in law school... ignorance is irrelevant.
    It is only irrelevant if you actually know what you are ignorant about. But that's a moot point.
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    Being attracted to both sexes makes you bi, it has nothing to do with actually having sex.
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    I would consider those who are str8 but have gay sex for pleasure hetero-flexible or undercover bi to a degree or maybe they just don't care where they get sex from so long as they are getting some & they should just be called sluts lol

    However as I been with many str8 girls (either experimenting, undercover, making an exception, or just horny )-- I just see str8 as just another sexual preference that doesn't have to be 100% anything
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    Quote Originally Posted by Trem View Post
    Being attracted to both sexes makes you bi, it has nothing to do with actually having sex.
    To bring us back onto the original topic, this is my understanding as well.

    In the main, there are only two sexes on this planet - male and female - and this fact of biology applies to animals as well as human beings. There are notable exceptions, such as the 'Venus Flytrap' in the plant world, and the 'Sea-Horse' in the animal world - which have both sexes in one (hermaphrodite) - and reproduce as one. This is not found in human beings.

    Therefore, as far as humans are concerned in the accepted biological sense - I have always understood that bi-sexual means, that whatever gender you may be, you are physically attracted to both your own and the opposite sex.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Trem View Post
    Being attracted to both sexes makes you bi, it has nothing to do with actually having sex.
    I accept that most women on this thread agree with this opinion and I am not trying to change their view.

    But, I think most "normal" straight guys would disagree and would regard a man who periodically engages in sex with other men as gay or bi (or bi-curious - whatever that means), even if that guy has a GF or wife and has no attraction/romantic involvement with the same sex.
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    ^ If the man is physically attracted to both men and women, he is bisexual. It's pretty simple.

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    I srsly cant beleive this thread has went on for 5 pages! If you are attracted to both sexes, you are bi! Pretty darn simple!!
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    ^ This is a poll, people have different opinions on this issue. There is no consensus - never will be.

    So far, the highest percentage (45%) think: "Sex with the same sex, doesn't have to mean a relationship"

    I'm not sure what this means, though. A purely sexual/non-romantic relationship is still a type of "relationship" (like fuck-buddy relationship).

    Does this category mean: (a) no relationship because one-night stands/casual hookup with same sex without any attraction; or (b) no relationship because, although attracted to same sex, person only want "relationships" (whatever that means) with the opposite sex.
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    The poll choices confused me. I answered "even one time makes someone bisexual" - but really it's not even that. Just being attracted to both genders is enough.
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    Jack, a one night stand isn't any type of relationship. Neither are random hook ups. If I see a girl I think will be a good time I may try and take her home, that doesn't mean I want to date her or ever even call her again after, it means for that evening I want to have sex with her. Nothing more nothing less.
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    ^ I agree that a one night stand is not a "relationship".
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    Its why I didn't pick anything on the poll cause alot of it doesn't even match with the topic.

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    I am bisexual. I live with my bf and gf and have for three years now. I like girls more than guys but would not want to be with just a female.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Mindy Bares All View Post
    ^^^^ I think that constitutes bi-curious....
    I think that if you do things when you are under the influence you know exactly what you are doing, but are afraid/ashamed of what others might say if it were known that you are sober so the substance is used as an excuse to do what you really want to do anyway. I knew a lot of girls who talked about hooking up with people, but waited until they were drunk to do it so if questioned or it went bad could say,"well I was drunk." I know plenty of girls who get drunk and don't say,"Hey, I think I'll sleep with a girl." They know that they are not interested drunk, sober or otherwise. I think "hightry" is a copout and different from simply being curious.
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    Quote Originally Posted by lexxxi View Post
    I am bisexual. I live with my bf and gf and have for three years now. I like girls more than guys but would not want to be with just a female.
    I'm super jealous! My gf and bf hate eachother.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Kellydancer View Post
    I disagree and don't think having sex once makes someone bisexual.
    I disagree. But let me explain. Basically, I think everyone IS bisexual anyways. In the right situation, or whatnot, I think people are basically capable of having sex with each other, no matter what they are thinking. And that's what makes someone bi, the physical aspect of it, not the mental.

    N.B. - Of course, this does NOT include rape.

    Have I ever had sex with a guy? No. And I don't plan on it, but what if all women were wiped out and my only sexual outlet was a guy. Guys would be doing guys.

    I think people who willingly do sexual things with a same sex, but then say they feel nothing, are lying to themselves, as going through the act proves that they are capable of acting sexually with their own sex, so why would they NOT be bi? I just don't get it.
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    Quote Originally Posted by lfr View Post
    I disagree. But let me explain. Basically, I think everyone IS bisexual anyways. In the right situation, or whatnot, I think people are basically capable of having sex with each other, no matter what they are thinking. And that's what makes someone bi, the physical aspect of it, not the mental.

    N.B. - Of course, this does NOT include rape.

    Have I ever had sex with a guy? No. And I don't plan on it, but what if all women were wiped out and my only sexual outlet was a guy. Guys would be doing guys.

    I think people who willingly do sexual things with a same sex, but then say they feel nothing, are lying to themselves, as going through the act proves that they are capable of acting sexually with their own sex, so why would they NOT be bi? I just don't get it.
    Because experimenting doesn't mean one is bi. If I snorted cocaine one time that would not make me a drug addict. Since you are referring to me having sex with a woman once and not feeling, no I am not bi and wouldn't consider myself bi. However, if I planned to have sex with a woman again that could possibly make me bi.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Kellydancer View Post
    Because experimenting doesn't mean one is bi. If I snorted cocaine one time that would not make me a drug addict. Since you are referring to me having sex with a woman once and not feeling, no I am not bi and wouldn't consider myself bi. However, if I planned to have sex with a woman again that could possibly make me bi.
    see, but I don't relate the drug addict thing to sexuality through experimentation. not everyone who has a beer is an alcoholic, but the potential is there. I don't know if there's a word for that.

    For everything, there's a potential to take it to the extreme, but the fact that one IS willing to experiment does mean that they have at least opened the gates for further sexuality in that manner (which I think is the way we are anyways, as I've said above). And I think someone who, for even slight, flirtacious reasons, acts sexually in some way can be deemed to be whatever word would describe their actions, here, 'bi'. Even if you never have the desire to do anything again in your lifetime, at one point in your life, you proved your sexuality, and it was with both genders, hence the 'bi-sexuality'.

    I don't know why the stigma of bi is so prevalent in people who experiment (lots of girls). I mean I can understand in society, or whatever being labeled by others, but to themselves, why is the self stigma so important? Sry, really nothing to do with your post. Just thinking...
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    Because I am not bi. I have nothing against it, it wasn't for me. One time doesn't make one anything and yes it is the same thing as saying a person who drank a beer is an alcoholic. Doing drugs one time is experimenting as is one same sex experience. If I was bi I would have no problem saying it, but no I am not bi.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Kellydancer View Post
    Because I am not bi. I have nothing against it, it wasn't for me. One time doesn't make one anything and yes it is the same thing as saying a person who drank a beer is an alcoholic. Doing drugs one time is experimenting as is one same sex experience. If I was bi I would have no problem saying it, but no I am not bi.
    okay, I meant no offense. I have nothing against bis or gays or straights either. those were just my feelings on the subject. labels are stupid. I don't care. just be a good person is good for me.

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