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  • Only having serious relationships with the same sex

    13 14.94%
  • Sex with the same sex, doesn't have to mean a relationship

    38 43.68%
  • Even one time makes someone bisexual

    4 4.60%
  • Depends on the issue

    6 6.90%
  • Even thinking about it but not acting makes one bi

    15 17.24%
  • Sex is sex, I'll take it away I can

    6 6.90%
  • I don't consider myself bi though I have had same sex partners

    13 14.94%
  • I consider myself bi though I would never date the same sex

    13 14.94%
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    Default Re: What do you consider bisexual?

    Quote Originally Posted by Trem View Post
    Being attracted to both sexes makes you bi, it has nothing to do with actually having sex.

    yeah.....its the definition. If you take it to mean something else, thats fine, you are free to do whatever you want. But this is how it is defined:

    Websters:

    of, relating to, or characterized by a tendency to direct sexual desire toward both sexes.


    Kelly is correct.

    doing it once when you are drunk, or experimenting just to see what it is like is not a tendancy

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    Why dont we let the actual bisexuals decide what defines it? Notice we pretty much all seem to think its being sexually attracted to both sexes? More a mentality than some drunk stupid experimenting. I am bisexual, Ive always known I was, because I crush on both men and women....pretty darn simple.
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    Default Re: What do you consider bisexual?

    Quote Originally Posted by princessjas View Post
    Why dont we let the actual bisexuals decide what defines it? Notice we pretty much all seem to think its being sexually attracted to both sexes? More a mentality than some drunk stupid experimenting. I am bisexual, Ive always known I was, because I crush on both men and women....pretty darn simple.
    I think this is correct. I've known many bisexual people and they knew from an early age they were attracted to both. The ones I've known (this doesn't everyone just them) generally preferred one sex for relationships but did know a woman who went from boyfriend to girlfriend often.

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    ^^I also generally prefer men for relationships, but recently had a wonderful gf. Idealy Id like one of each. lol If I had to choose tho, men are something I need, women are something, I just want really badly!
    "I hear you calling and it's needles and pins. I wanna hurt you just to hear you screaming my name...You're poision. but I don't wanna break these chains.... I wanna love you but I'd better not touch."

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    Default Re: What do you consider bisexual?

    Quote Originally Posted by princessjas View Post
    Why dont we let the actual bisexuals decide what defines it? Notice we pretty much all seem to think its being sexually attracted to both sexes? More a mentality than some drunk stupid experimenting. I am bisexual, Ive always known I was, because I crush on both men and women....pretty darn simple.
    Quote Originally Posted by princessjas View Post
    ^^I also generally prefer men for relationships, but recently had a wonderful gf. Idealy Id like one of each. lol If I had to choose tho, men are something I need, women are something, I just want really badly!
    This...and this...!

    I've been aware of my bisexuality since I was about 20 - and this is absolutely right. Bisexual is fundamentally being physically attracted to, and turned on by both sexes. I have been exceedingly lucky as I have enjoyed some intensely stimulating relationships with some gorgeous, gorgeous girls....both physically and spiritually. They were all much more than 'playthings' too.

    However when it comes to a partner - my choice has been a man. Not that I wouldn't LOVE to have a live-in 'girlfriend with benefits' as well.....but then I'm greedy like that.

    *sigh* I really adore girls...they're sooo dang hot
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    I tend to think most people are bisexual and I tend to think if you had a same sex kiss you're either bi or gay/lesbian. Any type of same sex relations IMO makes a person at least bisexual.
    People say I'm straight when I say straight that means I'm totally turned off by females and could never find girls appealing as they have no sex appeal like guys do. Since I was little I didn't like seeing lesbians even kiss because it was a turn off but I have always liked threesomes and group sex with a lot guys. And got turned on by gay porn(men). Basically when you're straight you only dream/think/look at guys. You only have desires to kiss perform sex acts or have sex with the opposite sex. A little attraction to the same sex negates only being attracted to the opposite sex for sexual purposes.

    But I don't really see myself as the exact definition as straight because I do like boobs and ass. And wouldn't mind touching a girl's boobs or slapping ass but even if I did the emotion that comes with it is pretty playful and not much desire. I do find transgirls preops attractive though and I'd sleep with one given the chance... But I don't like them more than guys it's just like another option I'm open to. I just find girls a little too weak and soft it has no natural chemistry. But I do with maabs.

    Most would say I'm not bisexual because I do t want sex with girls and find it gross. But I think there are straighter girls than myself and some actually care about gender expression. And are attracted to masculinity while I prefer feminine gender expression leanings and a male body. So that's my opinion.

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    Default Re: What do you consider bisexual?

    Quote Originally Posted by sierra. View Post
    I also just want to throw out there that there's more to sexual orientation than gay, straight, or bi.

    I consider myself to be pansexual, though I often just tell people that I'm bi because it requires less explaining.
    I usually say I'm pansexual to those who I assume would understand
    otherwise I just say I'm straight. Because they either get it or they don't.

    To me bisexuals are attracted to and are willing to have a relationship with male and female (both cisgendered/trans)
    I mean we're all gay in some way experimenting and fooling around doesn't make you bi.



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    Default Re: What do you consider bisexual?

    i know this is an old-ass thread, hope i don't get in trouble for bumping it even though its been bumped twice. but i'd like to point out, who you are sexually attracted to, and who you are romantically attracted to are two different categories. for instsance, i could be bi-sexual ( meaning i am attracted SEXUALLY to both genders) AND i could be heteoromantic ( meaning i prefer romantic, serious relationships with the opposite sex). so who you want to fuck, and who you want romance are different categories.

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    Default Re: What do you consider bisexual?

    You don't need to have sex with someone of the same sex in order to see if you prefer it or not. Does anybody ever say, "How do you know you're straight? Maybe you should have sex so that you're sure." No, they don't. I knew I was bisexual since I was seventeen, and probably would have come out to myself sooner if it weren't for the negative attitudes around me concerning anything other than heterosexual relationships.

    Also, there are plenty of gay people who have heterosexual relationships for years before making that self-discovery or coming out as gay.

    Picture a mother telling her four-year-old to eat their liver or no dessert. Even though the child hates liver, they want dessert, but of course they're going to eat it. But does it mean they like liver? (I don't necessarily agree with that tactic, but it's one that's very commonly used. But I digress.)

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    Default Re: What do you consider bisexual?

    Quote Originally Posted by simone87 View Post
    i know this is an old-ass thread, hope i don't get in trouble for bumping it even though its been bumped twice. but i'd like to point out, who you are sexually attracted to, and who you are romantically attracted to are two different categories. for instsance, i could be bi-sexual ( meaning i am attracted SEXUALLY to both genders) AND i could be heteoromantic ( meaning i prefer romantic, serious relationships with the opposite sex). so who you want to fuck, and who you want romance are different categories.
    I see your point.

    Generally speaking tho sexually usually greatly influences the romantic side of things.
    I know some bisexuals prefer one gender over the other for some things but for the most part aren't 100% shut off the the idea of both sexes romantically

    Either way if we have to start going around calling ourselves heterosexual demiromantic's or what have you I might implode. lol xD
    Labels really shouldn't be all that necessary but a lot of the time we need them not for anyone else's benefit but our own and I don't know why that is...



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    Not sure I'd ever date a girl. Maybe if I experienced a span of loneliness in my life but I just enjoy the physical attraction.

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    Default Re: What do you consider bisexual?

    I tHink it's more than just having had sex with Someone of the same gender. I've been with girls but don't really consider myself bi. I think to be bi you have to be oPen to wanting a relationship with the same sex.

    I'll kiss girls or girlfriends for fun. I've been in 3some s where I've kissed the other girl and let her eat me out since that's what she wanted too do. But I'm not really into that other than just superficially.

    I can admire another girls tits and ass, but other than that I really don't want anything else. Usually it's a comparison between what v I've got and what she has. And while I may think she's hot, I'm not sexually into her.

    I'm just not into girls. I'll do sexual stuff with them but I've done sexual stuff with a lot of pEople. I don't go looking for it, it just happens on occasion.

    Hard to explain. Lol. All I can truly say, is that sex is complicated.

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