So...
I danced for about 2 1/2 years, ten years ago, and I'm seriously considering doing it again. I have tons of questions and nerves, but one thing I'm wondering is this. I identified as bisexual for a long time, and was when I danced ten years ago. Since then I've come out gay and have been openly gay for about 2 years. I remember from back then if I wanted to avoid questions of "go out with me" I'd say I was lesbian and I would get negative reactions.
Looks-wise, I'm very feminine with long hair and by just looking at me no straight man would guess I'm super gay.
So is it best to say something like "I love to flirt with men but I only date women"? Should I say I'm lesbian or pretend I'm bi? What have been people's experiences with this line of conversation?
BTW there's this amateur contest tonight that I think I'm doing and I'm super nervous. But I won one a while ago (not at a real club though, it was at a pole teaching studio). Wish me luck![]()


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