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    Hey guys, so I got an email from a customer saying he loved my pics and would love to cam2cam bla bla bla... but he also asked if I'd date/fuck a guy like him, and attached some pics of his penis, asking me to get back to him.
    I was extremely tactful in my reply, because the penis is tiny (I mean, I think there was a penis in the picture...). I told him that while I was flattered by his compliments, my serious relationships are completely separate from my career as a performer, and I acknowledged that I got the pictures (I think I even put an Oo La La in there somewhere, to be nice but mostly to avoid the question).
    Well, he is being pretty persistent, admitting that he has a small penis and asking for my "honest" opinion as to whether I'd date a smaller penis ( ). I want to be honest, but don't want to ruin a potential customer. However, he did ask for honesty, so I'm sorta torn.
    Blargh. Any thoughts as to a response?
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    Default Re: Customer asking questions about dating...

    Maybe he's into small penis humiliation . . .

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    Default Re: Customer asking questions about dating...

    I could come from a completely different angle...

    ...

    "Insert long, filling, honest explanation of past experiences with large and small penises here... it's all about biological compatibility blamlabla... But I hope my preference for huge shlong doesn't change your opinion of me! I'd still love to cam2cam!"

    Or maybe just tell him I have a boyfriend who's hung like a donkey? Which is true... but none of his business..
    The whole 'would you date my tiny penis' thing has me sorta weirded out.

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    This is easy!! Beat around the bush and figure out if he's into humiliation. If he is degrade him until he cums. If he thinks he's big(),convince him you think the same. He's a man,so you only need to do one thing...Lie!!

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    Default Re: Customer asking questions about dating...

    I don't get the vibe that he's into humiliation, but I'll give that a go.
    I feel like he's been out-sized in the past and wants to know that there's a girl somewhere who wants a small guy. He doesn't think he's big, he knows he's small.
    And I quote;
    "And i was just asking hypothetically if u would date a man with a smaller penis(like me)"

    ...followed by another picture, like I couldn't see it the first time (AHAHAHAHA).

    So, how do I get him to tell me if he's interested in small penis humiliation? I've asked him what turns him on in general, but can I be more direct without being... direct?

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    Questions???... Has he ever gone private with you? And is he only sending you messages? Do you get payed for these messages?
    Chances are he's just trying to get you to talk dirrrty to him for free. And that's never a good thing. Personally, if a man sends me a dick pic before he has spent a single dime on me I IGNORE his ass, and delete the msg or ban! Trust me, rarely have I had a guy send me a rando peen pic and messages does he intend to drop the $$$ on your fine ass. This = Time Wasters! At the end of the day it is totally up to you on how to handle your customers/fans. But I smell cheap shmuck from a mile away.

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    ^^Good point!!

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    Default Re: Customer asking questions about dating...

    Thanks AlphaGal. You make a good point. He has not gone private with me yet. If he had asked me these questions in free before going private then I'd have some reason to dig deeper, but you're absolutely right. I'm not sure it's worth it.

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    Anytime hun!

    I'm pretty sure it's not worth it. Don't get me wrong there has to be some great customers gained this way out there somewhere. But as long as I have been in the game I have only seen D-Bags looking for freebies when they do those things. Hell, I block guys on my twitter for having dick pics. Oh, and BTW.... If someone wants to know if your in or not in a relationship and your answer isn't good enough, eff him! You owe no one an explanation. Don't even fill your pretty head with excuses for these chaps. You sign on, you get your privates, and you reply or you don't reply. But to be totally honest there are sites guys have to pay for each message. That's where you worry over a reply.
    You got this! HUGS!!!!

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    You're gonna get a ton of these guys. He just wants free wanking material.

    Don't pay them any attention unless they are spending.

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    Default Re: Customer asking questions about dating...

    I'm sure there is a good side to giving a custy some one on one time outside of live video, but I do have to consider if it's worth my time. I had a different one email me just to let me know that he'd given me GOLD after he's taken me exclusive, which was really nice, but he'd actually given me face time. As far as I'm concerned my account is my business, and I'm fine without the attachments.

    Thanks for the advice!

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    Quote Originally Posted by BossKitten View Post
    I'm sure there is a good side to giving a custy some one on one time outside of live video, but I do have to consider if it's worth my time.
    Well, I can't think of any! lol. I have found the more you give them attention when they aren't paying, they will ask for more and more eventually you get no money at all from them. It's a good way to turn a customer into someone who thinks he is your friend and should not have to pay. You don't owe them anything.

    If they want my attention they better be paying at the time.

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    Default Re: Customer asking questions about dating...

    That's so true Laurielegs, and I sure don't want that sort of attention. Talk about making me feel weird.

    Off topic sorta, but how do I add a video to my account? Do I have to submit it to Streamate?

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    ^^Don't think you can add vids. That section is for the vids THEY record of us and post

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    Default Re: Customer asking questions about dating...

    ... OH.

    wtf? Without my approval? Musta missed that in the fine print somewhere...

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    Default Re: Customer asking questions about dating...

    Hun you must have missed this entire section. We bi*ch about it allll the time!!

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    LOL oops =)

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    I think I got the same message from the same dude! unless it's really common for seriously tiny dicked men to message webcam girls like that. I just never answered him :/

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    Quote Originally Posted by ginger_belle View Post
    I think I got the same message from the same dude! unless it's really common for seriously tiny dicked men to message webcam girls like that. I just never answered him :/
    me too!! I just answered honestly - that small dick made me squirt the first time, so I just love cock!!!!! prob not the answer he wanted, but I didn't bother putting much thought into his thoughtless questions unaccompanied by MONEY lol

    So if you want to be with me
    With these things there’s no telling
    We just have to wait and see
    But I’d rather be working for a paycheck
    Than waiting to win the lottery
    Besides maybe this time is different
    I mean I really think you like me

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    Default Re: Customer asking questions about dating...

    Is this on SM? Because the other day, I had a guy email me the same exact thing!!! He was like, would you be upset if you were dating a guy whose penis was basically just a head?? WTF??? LOL
    I honestly think he is looking for SPH.

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    Quote Originally Posted by runswithscissors View Post
    Is this on SM? Because the other day, I had a guy email me the same exact thing!!! He was like, would you be upset if you were dating a guy whose penis was basically just a head?? WTF??? LOL
    I honestly think he is looking for SPH.
    OMG! This guy sounds exactly like the one who messaged me. Can you tell me his username? Or is that against the rules? I'm so curious!

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    Quote Originally Posted by AlphaGal View Post
    Questions???... Has he ever gone private with you? And is he only sending you messages? Do you get payed for these messages?
    Chances are he's just trying to get you to talk dirrrty to him for free. And that's never a good thing. Personally, if a man sends me a dick pic before he has spent a single dime on me I IGNORE his ass, and delete the msg or ban! Trust me, rarely have I had a guy send me a rando peen pic and messages does he intend to drop the $$$ on your fine ass. This = Time Wasters! At the end of the day it is totally up to you on how to handle your customers/fans. But I smell cheap shmuck from a mile away.
    Exactly what I was going to say but decided to read the whole thread in case someone already said it. Don't worry about losing a "potentially good customer" If he's doing all this through email he's just looking for free attention. I would tell him to take you pvt so you can talk about it then stop the emails.

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    Default Re: Customer asking questions about dating...

    Quote Originally Posted by BossKitten View Post
    OMG! This guy sounds exactly like the one who messaged me. Can you tell me his username? Or is that against the rules? I'm so curious!
    i think his name was matt.

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    ^^^ Amen Princess! Very well said.

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    Default Re: Customer asking questions about dating...

    Quote Originally Posted by laurielegs View Post
    You're gonna get a ton of these guys. He just wants free wanking material.

    Don't pay them any attention unless they are spending.
    I bet that's EXACTLY what he wants... I get those types all the time. If he is persistent with bugging you, you have every right to be just as persitent to get him to come discuss this issue in private.

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