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    Thumbs up Guys Who Like Fat Chicks

    A male friend of mine recently posted a link to this on facebook (he's in to larger women). It's a really well written article and despite being 5"5' and 120 pounds I still liked this article and found it kinda empowering to women.

    http://www.villagevoice.com/2011-05-...ke-fat-chicks/

    Thought I'd repost it here as I've seen a few negative fat girl threads recently and thought it was time for something more positive.

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    i'm not fat either and i have mixed feelings. on one hand, i'm totally all for empowerment and acceptance of different shapes and sizes, definitely! and i don't judge people who are by any means, especially because i know that some individuals genuinely cannot help it. however, there are a lot that can and are only overweight because of their lifestyle choices. if someone is overweight and healthy, then great! more power to them! but if someone is obese because of lack of self control and discipline, then i just refuse to pretend that is cute or attractive because it isn't. self-inflicted health risks are NOT cute. but yes, i know plenty of guys who love a confident, large-framed woman. one guy i know in particular that i used to "date" back in elementary school is now a personal fitness instructor and he is ripped! but his gf who it's obvious he is absolutely crazy about is huge, definitely over 250 lbs and around 5'3. But she has a beautiful face, pretty hair and she beams with confidence. I was shocked at first but after observing her confident air and the way she carries herself, it's no big surprise why he would find her so attractive or anyone else for that matter

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    hahaha
    Right on! we def need that positivity mi-lady!
    thanks-a-million for this.. .^_^.
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    I'm not fat but found somewhat of a reassurance with this article. Too often I feel guys will reject me for having a little bit of a belly then I feel bad. After speaking to many guys I know there are men who actually like a women with a little meat. By that I am not talking 300 pounds or anything, more like a size 10 or so.

    My only concern about this is some of those women will die young. I have a friend who's 5'1 and over 300 pounds and she can barely walk. Everyday I expect to get a call saying she died.

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    "Over half the U.S. is considered—DUN DUN DUN—“overweight.” Someone’s fucking all the fatties."

    lol

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    Look any guy that wants a girl to get obsess & be a walking heart attack waiting to happen (& only that way--but for other reasons other then her fat) just is not right in the head. It's not healthy & should not be encouraged by any means.

    Even then just becuz some sick in the head guy wants seriously unhealthy sized women does not change the fact that strippers are not supposed to look like they can crush you during a lap dance.

    Sorry pro fat/obesity always sounds just as sick to me as woman vomiting to be thin becuz it is encouraging unhealthy behaviors to be some ideal unhealthy image.

    I'm pro healthy body weight & I still think strippers should be held to a different standard of physical tone body then the average healthy sized girl that being the image of a sexy dancer not that of some1 who looses her breathe after a 6 min set.

    I'm not trying to be mean but any1 that told me I had to gain an unhealthy amount of weight to turn them on well I would consider them selfish & completely unconcerned with my well being not to mention insane if they think I'm going to do that to myself to take years off my life & make everyday motion that much more of a challenge on my knees, back, & feet. Really there is no benefit of becoming that soft pillow person that can barely move on out of your own bed. No1 bones are meant to carry that much weight it's simply bad for any1 human to be obsess & any1 that encourages that is basically promoting heart attacks & dying young needlessly.

    I don't think pro obesity is empowering to any1. I think men fetishizing obesity is another form of abuse that tells women they should reach this unhealthy ideal to please some man's image of what women should look like.
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    I personally think it makes sense for men to like larger women. Thinness wasn't considered very attractive until quite recently.

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    Quote Originally Posted by ZePeanut View Post
    I personally think it makes sense for men to like larger women. Thinness wasn't considered very attractive until quite recently.
    Interesting point - because biologically, men tend to settle down with larger women as they seem (at least) to be more likely to have healthy children. Go back 40 or 50 years and nearly all fashion icons and film stars were curvy or voluptuous ladies....and in tribal societies fat is still regarded as 'good for breeding' (!!).

    It is only the media and the fashion industry that has brought 'thinness' to the fore as being a desirable look - and it has done so as a purely cynical tool to make larger profits. However, many too many young girls make themselves physically and mentally ill in order to achieve this look - proving the marketing people quite wrong......but do they listen..??

    There is absolutely nothing wrong with natural thinness, and some of the most beautiful women in the world have been truly thin - Audrey Hepburn springs immediately to mind. Thin can be fabulously elegant and graceful.

    However, forcing yourself to be thin purely for fashion's sake, can be very unhealthy IMHO.
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    yup, different men like all shapes, colors and sizes.

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    In almost every human society that has existed, being thin was a sign of being either poor or sickly. Being fat was a sign of wealth and being healthy. Only our modern society worships thinness.

    I like a little meat on my women lol.
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    Quote Originally Posted by fast tan77 View Post
    In almost every human society that has existed, being thin was a sign of being either poor or sickly. Being fat was a sign of wealth and being healthy. Only our modern society worships thinness.

    I like a little meat on my women lol.
    I don't think being thin meant that you were poor or sickly, just not rich. In most Asian societies, being overweight is rare. Being fat was not that common in the U.S. or Europe prior to about 1960.

    "Being fat was a sign of wealth and being healthy"

    It may have been a sign of wealth if a woman was fat because she had enough money to overindulge herself, but men didn't worship an obese women as being sexy in those societies. They just thought that she must be rich to get that fat. They didn't get a hard-on looking at her, though. And I doubt that people thought she was healthy.

    Some women are sexy being plump, maybe 10 to 30 pounds overweight, it depends on how it looks and where it's at, but women in that link are not sexy at all, they're gross to me. I think that most men throughout the ages would agree with me. The guy in the link may have a fetish for obese women or she may have a great personality, but she's not attractive to the vast majority of men.

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    Back when food was actually a concern for most people being plump was a sign that you were at least well off. Now its the other way around, being in shape gives the impression that you have lots of free time to work out and take care of your body and the resources to eat and live a healthy lifestyle.
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    ^ yep, people are attracted to wealth. It used to be fashionable to be pale because that meant you had a cushy inside job, have a parasol, have a carriage to ride in whereas being tanned meant having to be outside doing physical labour and had to walk around in the sun.

    Now being tanned is more fashionable and insinuates you can afford beach holidays and tanning salons.

    Similar thing with weight, whatever conveys wealth is going to be deemed more desirable.

    Back to the issue of people shouldn't support others to be unhealthy, well can't really argue with it but just to play devil's advocate I'll give it a go. People know it's unhealthy to be overweight, just as it is to smoke, drink, do drugs, etc. At the end of the day we all know this and it is a choice whether we indulge in these vices and deal with the consequences or not. There's gonna be fat people, they know it's not the healthiest way to be but (genetics aside) they choose to eat what they want and forego exercise no doubt full aware of the consequence. If they're happy with themselves like that then I guess good for them, and if someone loves them for that then even better.

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    Quote Originally Posted by fast tan77 View Post
    I like a little meat on my women lol.

    There's putting a little extra meat on your plate and then there's walking out with the whole damn buffet! Those chicks in the pictures are in the latter category.
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    lol, the fat phobia & fat hatred on these forums just kills me sometimes. i really don't think my body (or the body of any other fat woman) is anyone's goddamned business but my own. i don't think your body is my business either. but it's so amusing to know that some folks think they should be able to dictate how other people look and should be able to decide people's worth based on their body shape. talk about an overblown fucking ego.

    thank you amareth for sharing the original article. <3

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    I like fit athletic women not because of the media but because the qualities involved, dedication, sacrifice, strength, health, maintenance.

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    The woman in those pics is morbidly obese. At that point, it has nothing to do with the media/society/fashion industry...the problem is that this woman is a heart attack waiting to happen.

    There is a difference between being fat and carrying a few extra pounds. I discourage the former because it is UNHEALTHY. I'm not a fat phobe, but I do have a problem with encouraging fatness because it's unhealthy...in the exact same way I have a problem with encouraging extreme thinness.

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    it's not about "encouraging" anything, it's about the fact that her body is none of your business.

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    But if we are paying for her to be fat it IS our business. Even if she has insurance it is the other people who have insurance through the same company who are paying. If she is on welfare then it is our business. However, otherwise no it isn't anyone's business but her own.

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    oh jesus fuck.

    i knew it was a bad idea to venture out of "other work."

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    Quote Originally Posted by tinydancer23 View Post
    it's not about "encouraging" anything, it's about the fact that her body is none of your business.
    If you read the article, it is encouraging obesity.

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    Quote Originally Posted by tinydancer23 View Post
    it's not about "encouraging" anything, it's about the fact that her body is none of your business.
    Ok, whatever.

    Frankly, I'm glad there are fatass women like that. It makes me look even hotter.

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    my idea was always guys like fat girls bc they're easy targets for sex. they can be easily manipulated bc they're insecure. guys are evil i swear.

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    Quote Originally Posted by jennsweet View Post
    my idea was always guys like fat girls bc they're easy targets for sex. they can be easily manipulated bc they're insecure. guys are evil i swear.
    Yep and ugly women too. I had a friend who was butt ugly and got lots of sex. The guys knew she was easy and her wanting male approval gave in. Of course none of them wanted to take her out, just to bed. They wanted to take me out (I rejected these guys for this reason)and yep they would buy me gifts but use her for sex.

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    Quote Originally Posted by tampadancer View Post
    Ok, whatever.

    Frankly, I'm glad there are fatass women like that. It makes me look even hotter.
    LOL

    Quote Originally Posted by Kellydancer View Post
    Yep and ugly women too. I had a friend who was butt ugly and got lots of sex. The guys knew she was easy and her wanting male approval gave in. Of course none of them wanted to take her out, just to bed. They wanted to take me out (I rejected these guys for this reason)and yep they would buy me gifts but use her for sex.
    That is pretty depressing.

    Anyhow, I don't hate any kind of ppl & frankly don't care how others want to live. What we mention here all the time is the reality that over weight women shouldn't be working in SC's. It doesn't attract quality customers, which is bad for business.

    As for the article.... I think it's great that this woman is being loved for who she is, BUT her health may be on the line here. That should be a concern to her and her SO(if he truely does care).

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