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    Ladies, my apologies for the long post but right now I'm in a sad state and have to vent! I've been working at a club that frankly I just have come to realize I'm not comfortable in. The customer crowd is very attracted to skinny fake boob types who are ditzy/dumb... I know this because these are the girls who constantly excel and make hundreds more than girls with real boobs and real personalities. I know it can't be this way everywhere. I am an all natural girl who many consider to be thick or voluptuous and certain people say overweight, but, that's an opinion. I am a sensitive person with a very genuine personality and I cannot hide it, although I have tried to by pretending to be the dumb girl... I just feel as though there is SOMEPLACE where some guys will appreciate a girl who isn't rail thin and is actually a college student with more to provide than silicone and giggles. Not to degrade those things, because they are successful, but they are not in line with the things that I can provide/associate with.

    I understand that men come to clubs to find fantasy and fun, and that often you shouldn't be the type of girl who guys want to fall in love with, because then they want to take you on a date instead of get dances! Almost every guy I dance with tries to invite me out, tells me I would make a perfect wife, etc and I think goodness gracious I just want your money man!! But it's nice to hear that I'm so great!! LOL Anyway, the point I'm making and maybe you girls can put your two cents in, is that I think there's gotta be a crowd that would appreciate me for me. Of course I'd have to put a little ritz on my act to make me more stripperish, but not to the point that I'm worn down from pretending and putting on a very taxing act all night. I have so much to offer and I realize this, but I think in some circumstances it works against me because I just don't know how to present myself in the right way. I'm frustrated because I really need this money and I don't have any other options at this point... 200 dollars a night is not going to cut it...

    Sorry again for the long post, but if just one of you read the whole thing and gave me some input I'd appreciate it SO much. I've been crying all night because I'm tuckered out with it all and I just need some type of inspiration or boost.
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    What kind of club are you working in? You might try some of the more blue collar type of clubs, as those customers like more real and down to earth girls. Keep in mind just because a club has a reputation as a high end, big money club doesn't mean it will work for everyone.

    I always preferred working at the dive bars because, frankly, I made a lot more money in those clubs. Yeah, I did the whole Vegas Spearmint Rhino thing, and yes, I made a lot of money,but I hated it. When I went back to my favorite little truck stop joint, I made way more money and had a lot of fun while there.

    It sounds like you just need to find a club that is a good fit. Hang in there. Nothing pays well enough to spend your day in tears over your job.


    Promote yourself and earn more money! This is a business that is owned by strippers for strippers. Let's make that money!


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    Girl!! I feel you, it's been sooooo terrible in there. Be thankful you weren't there last weekend it was bullshit. I get what you mean, it's tough but all strip clubs are like this. Unless you find a club in a very strict area that is more of an 'air dance' club where men pay for company, it's gonna be like this in any club. And plenty of guys find you attractive, you always make good money on stage, you know it! I don't know if you know who Tiger is, but she's bigger than you and she was busy last Saturday. Rob actually came up to me and was like "This dude just came up to me and pointed at her and said: if you had more girls like this working here I'd be in every night" LOL. It's not you, it's a combination of a lot of things.
    1) Not the right kind of customers - same number of guys as usual, but the young non-spending type.
    2) Way too many girls. In a club that small when you have 65 girls closing in on every guy's face they are definitely not going to be wanting company.
    3) Only 10 booths for that many people kills earning potential. After you finally get a guy to agree to buy dances you end up having to wait forever to actually do them.

    Hang in there! I'm frustrated too. We should do something fun after finals are over, I still need to buy you a drink for your bday

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    sounds like montana and idaho would be good states for you to work in. i am not skinny at all and i do good in clubs located in these places

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