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    The guys that have contacted me arent following my screening procedures. -_-

    i ask for basic info- yet they try to substitute it for something else.
    for example i have one guy that gave me his board name and 6 references (i havent checked them or anything) and asks if he can meet tonight (it was 10:45pm when he emailed). without anything else.

    ill learn over time how to handle different situations

    unfortunately he's the first person to actually have some information on himself although my ad has only been up for a short time its all been one liners.

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    If they don't want to give you the info you need to protect yourself,then screw them!! Its not worth getting busted or hurt. No I'm not an escort,but from what I've read on here the "real" clients know that they have to provide certain info or they won't get seen. You'll have more cooperative clients who respect you enough to give you what you need. Just give it a little more time. Don't change the rules or you may regret it. NO ONE is an exception!!

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    find someone to set you up with a P411 ad so you can ease into screening more easily because any guy who contacts you automatically has them on their profile.

    Otherwise, I think if you can attract men as clients who review, their reviews connect you to their references (who you should still also contact because the guy could be full of shit and posting reviews on women he's never seen.)

    Ignore that guy and write him a really polite letter telling him that you will run his references and let him know when you guys are able to meet up. If he doesn't want to schedule, screw him. Consider having an auto-reply email that states something like "Your references WILL be checked, and so last-minute scheduling, unless you're a previous and recent client, will not be available."

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    Do NOT see anyone that refuses to give you info. Trust me, the ladies that I have mentored will tell you that there are LOTS of men that will give you the info you need in order to feel safe. If you want you can call me and I'll guide you on how to ask for info without having to ASK. Step 1.) If you have reviews already stop posting your number. You do not want to see just anyone. You want classy, professional men. Trust me it's possible. It seems to be the kind of men that I attract :/. pm me!

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    Yup...agree with not compromising on the rules of screening for anyone. Screening is for our protection..if a guy has an issue with us looking out for ourselves then hes not a guy you want to be alone with. Point blank.

    When a guy is older, its pretty certain its not his first time (another reason I like having an age limit) they know the drill and consider it industry standard to give the information required to be able to see you. Younger guys as well as guys who have something to hide are the only ones who will give issue. Dont entertain the thought of seeing either of those and youre good to go.

    I have *no* issue deleting one-liner emails, the "hey I saw your ad, you free in an hour?" voicemails or anything along the lines of "how much and do you do xyz" Delete and move on and dont think twice. Im very new myself, only a month in (wow time flies!!) and so far so good. Im sure I may have deleted some decent guys who just used the wrong approach, but again..if a guy has no common sense, I dont want to see him either.

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    I agree with the other ladies. If he can't provide the information you require don't even waste your time or safety on this asshole who is obviously playing games.

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    Quote Originally Posted by FiendishGyrator View Post

    Otherwise, I think if you can attract men as clients who review, their reviews connect you to their references (who you should still also contact because the guy could be full of shit and posting reviews on women he's never seen.)
    ^yea. I don't know anyone well enough to trust yet as far as another girl. I still want extra info for my own sake of mind.

    I have a webpage and have and email address set up for work.
    I've been posting on a local board. although i get a lot of hits from this site they arent filling out the screening info the first time.

    Basically they bypass the fact that i have a webpage and email me with references.

    so far ive had:
    -Reference guy- hey i have all these references let meet you today. end.
    -People asking for dates less than a hour.
    -here's my number im a nice guy,guy.

    Should i respond to these messages and ask them to fill out my screening first or simply disregard them?

    Quote Originally Posted by FiendishGyrator View Post

    Ignore that guy and write him a really polite letter telling him that you will run his references and let him know when you guys are able to meet up. If he doesn't want to schedule, screw him. Consider having an auto-reply email that states something like "Your references WILL be checked, and so last-minute scheduling, unless you're a previous and recent client, will not be available."
    ^i think this is a good way to handle it

    Im guessing that because its a local board they know each other well however i don't know anyone that i can trust yet. Even with references i would still feel more comfortable with the extra screening information.

    my eros ad just went up today so hopefully i will get more quality contacts from it.

    touringgirlfriend- I have a webpage, no reviews yet. I'll pm you

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    Quote Originally Posted by kisakim99 View Post
    ^yea. I don't know anyone well enough to trust yet as far as another girl. I still want extra info for my own sake of mind.

    One girl, no. Two girls, you're getting warmer. To me, three plus is great. With P411 I count Gina as a reference (she's the one who runs their ID info and references.) Typically, if a guy has five recent providers he's seen, I'll contact maybe up to five-- not that I have to hear from all five, but some girls lag on giving reference info, or give attitude, or don't remember the guy.

    Also, keep in mind that the references should be recent. I see a lot of guys with profiles that list the last provider they saw was a year or so ago. You've got to figure they've seen someone since then... And if she's non-P411, how do you know he hasn't changed and beaten a girl up? As one provider I met with said, she doesn't meet with guys who don't have three provider references in the last four months. Her reasoning is, you don't know if he's broken up with a girl, or is depressed, or lost his job and is bitter at the world-- so references older than that might not be reflective of who the guy is TODAY.

    So keep that in mind. I'm still willing to see a guy with older references but I need to contact them and see if they've seen him lately (pity they don't have an option after you okay a guy, to click again that you've seen him lately so it refreshes their provider list.)

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