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    So you have been escorting for awhile now and you and your ex starts "talking" again. You tell him that you're escorting and IF he'd be ok with it and he says "What's in it for me?" How would you react? I know what I'd do but I want to get other perspectives here.

    I guess this applies to camgirls/strippers and others in the adult industry. How would you react? Isn't there something wrong with this?

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    Oh wow. Sound like he asking for a cut. I could be wrong. But, if that is the case, if it were me the conversation would've ended right there.

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    It seems like he's asking for gifts or something. I would have hung up, or if in person, would have said "what the fuck do you mean? obviously a swift kick in the ass!" And then BURN this guy-- do not talk to him ever again.

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    Quote Originally Posted by tribalrose View Post
    Oh wow. Sound like he asking for a cut. I could be wrong. But, if that is the case, if it were me the conversation would've ended right there.

    Tribalrose: This is a great response! Why would you waste your breath asking or saying anything else when it is clear what he wants? I mean he is an ex for a reason, right?

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    Quote Originally Posted by taylormadison View Post
    Tribalrose: This is a great response! Why would you waste your breath asking or saying anything else when it is clear what he wants? I mean he is an ex for a reason, right?
    Correct.

    I'm getting over the shock that he even asked me that. Yeah I dated the biggest douchebag ever! He then goes on to say "I was just kidding!!! Get your money." Yeah right. No you weren't

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    Please tell me you're NEVER talking to this guy again?

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    Yeah, I'd be in shock too if someone I was once in a relationship with said such a thing. I'm sorry you had to go through that.

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    Quote Originally Posted by FiendishGyrator View Post
    Please tell me you're NEVER talking to this guy again?
    I blocked his number. That was one hell of a response .

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    Quote Originally Posted by tribalrose View Post
    Yeah, I'd be in shock too if someone I was once in a relationship with said such a thing. I'm sorry you had to go through that.
    Exactly. It's heartbreaking for sure.

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    the fuck?

    um, i'd tell him not to let the door hit him in his ass on the way out.

    as a former prostitute, as a camgirl, i get that there is an exchange going on. for sd/sb relationships i get that. for me personally, i don't want my romantic relationships to be a transaction, and i don't want people who are with me romantically to fetishize me because of my job. it just squicks me. my so does get some "benefits" from me camming - we're living apart right now and don't get to see each other very often so sometimes i send him videos i make for work - but he sure as hell doesn't expect me to give him something and has never asked for it, whether it's money, free shows, whatever.

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    ^ yeah, that's what I hate about different income levels-- I don't want to have to pay for most things. hell, I don't even want to pay for half. To me, paying for 25% or less of stuff like going to the movies or out to dinner is the most I want to do.

    However, my SO is struggling right now and I had to go on tour just because otherwise having to pay for both of us to do things I wanted to do (like go out to eat, my biggest downfall) was killing me. So he's working on getting his shit straight so financially he's secure and I don't get sucked down while I'm working on my financial shit.

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    Quote Originally Posted by FiendishGyrator View Post
    ^ yeah, that's what I hate about different income levels-- I don't want to have to pay for most things. hell, I don't even want to pay for half. To me, paying for 25% or less of stuff like going to the movies or out to dinner is the most I want to do.

    However, my SO is struggling right now and I had to go on tour just because otherwise having to pay for both of us to do things I wanted to do (like go out to eat, my biggest downfall) was killing me. So he's working on getting his shit straight so financially he's secure and I don't get sucked down while I'm working on my financial shit.
    So wait.. you went on your first tour already? ....

    ... and you did not tell me?

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    ^well shit, honey, I didn't know you were even in North Carolina or I would have said hi before I left

    But yup-- tracing my stripping tour path in case I get into trouble I know some clubs along the way.

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    Quote Originally Posted by FiendishGyrator View Post
    ^well shit, honey, I didn't know you were even in North Carolina or I would have said hi before I left

    But yup-- tracing my stripping tour path in case I get into trouble I know some clubs along the way.
    Well how did it go?

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    oh shit! lol. he gets the knowledge that his girl is so damn fine that men fall all over themselves to pay for what he gets because you love him. DUH

    plus:
    + your expertise in bed (we all know that experience makes a HUGE difference in how good you are in bed, how open you are to trying new things, etc.)
    + your content! if you take photos and such, he can have his own to jack off to when you're at work
    + the privilege of being with a financially independent woman - we are NOT a dime a dozen and modern men LOVE a woman who can take care of herself
    + your stories - if he's with you, he's an adverturesome guy! he's bound to find your tales intriguing and entertaining, as well as steamy

    I'm sure there's more but that's just off the top of my head.

    So if you want to be with me
    With these things there’s no telling
    We just have to wait and see
    But I’d rather be working for a paycheck
    Than waiting to win the lottery
    Besides maybe this time is different
    I mean I really think you like me

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    I'd be shocked and bewildered because it sounds like he wants a cut, and that would be really surprising and hurtful if I had been intimate (emotionally, not talking just physical) and close with someone...glad to hear he's out of your life and blocked but I'm sorry you had to go thru that!

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    you should have told him your specialty was pegging

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    Quote Originally Posted by TouringGirlfriend View Post
    So you have been escorting for awhile now and you and your ex starts "talking" again. You tell him that you're escorting and IF he'd be ok with it and he says "What's in it for me?" How would you react? I know what I'd do but I want to get other perspectives here.

    I guess this applies to camgirls/strippers and others in the adult industry. How would you react? Isn't there something wrong with this?
    Tell him that you are looking for a boyfriend, not a pimp!

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    Whats in it for him?? An a** whippin',thats what!!

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    Quote Originally Posted by TouringGirlfriend View Post
    Well how did it go?
    so far so good. Slowly building up steam, and taking it slow so I know I'm building up the best clients possible. Sent you a PM.

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    seems like he started "talking" to you again with a plan
    what an asshole
    why are SO many guys such assholes! why can't they be like our good clients?

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    Quote Originally Posted by leyla2 View Post
    seems like he started "talking" to you again with a plan
    what an asshole
    why are SO many guys such assholes! why can't they be like our good clients?
    Good question!

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    He has some nerve asking a question like that!!!

    Ugh!!!!! I think "a punch in the balls" totally fits whats in it for him for "jokingly" asking, and yeah, I wouldnt doubt he was being serious either. Ugh!

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    Quote Originally Posted by BlkSharpie View Post
    He has some nerve asking a question like that!!!

    Ugh!!!!! I think "a punch in the balls" totally fits whats in it for him for "jokingly" asking, and yeah, I wouldnt doubt he was being serious either. Ugh!
    I got over the shock. It sounded to me like he was trying to manage me/wanted a cut from my money. He's having some financial difficulty right now so with me about to start escorting full time again I must look like a walking ATM machine. The whole wanting to be with me again made sense. Totally blocked his number and email address from contacting me again. I stayed up last night trying to FINALLY write my first ad and plan my first tour...thinking about all the money I'm going to make made me get over the heartbreak fast. I used to be really boy crazy and I don't think I want to be that way again especially with this one that's not even worth it.

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    I'm sorry, boo. I'd feel so used and shitty if someone I love/loved said that to me.

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