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    Sad Dealing with club drama :( :(

    I get so sick of the drama at my club the bouncers act like they don't like me because I don't want to hook up with them and i feel like people just see me as a body not as a person with a life outside the club. Sometimes I worry soo much about the things they say it causes stress for me and I don't want to go back to work. I know I should'nt worry about it but I can't help it Its hard to explain but its like dealing with haters the entire time I'm at work. I don't know what to do I enjoy having money and living the life I want but I hate dealing with the people I have to work with and I don't think its ever going to change bc I don't lead the guys on I just work and they still bother me its not anything serious like gropping me just a constant pressure to date/call them and when I don't acknowledge them they seem to get mad about it weird.

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    This is pretty much what life is like for a dancer hun. Drama among staff is one thing and that might be fixed by a change of club, but the rest is something that I think just comes with the job. Most guys don't care that you have a life outside the club and you have feelings and opinions, they care that you're cute and willing to dance for them for money. They're sometimes drunk and want to try and grope you to see how much they can get away with. They want to date you and take you out for free, if they think they can get you to fall for it, and when you stick to your values and refuse, they think and sometimes say nasty things to you. It's what we deal with in exchange for all the benefits that come with it, and you have to have one hell of a thick skin and a "fuck you" attitude to make it work for you. Have you thought about what made you want to become a dancer initially? It's possible that it's just not for you hun.


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    Might I suggest trying a different club to work at. I've worked at all different types of clubs & there are def some that are all drama & others where the staff barely know each other. I'm lucky in the sense that our club is alot like a dysfunctional lil family, I guess -but I like it that way. If there are any other clubs nearby you then you should look into trying them out for a while on the sly or something. Good luck

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    For me, the bigger and nicer the club is the meaner the girls will be. I rather stick with a small ok looking club that has cool people to work with rather than a upscale large club. Been in both kinds of clubs, and I still prefer the smaller ones.





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    Default Re: Dealing with club drama :( :(

    Unfortunately this is a big part of the business.Although I've seen some big corporate clubs where drama-starters could be fired.That was nice actually,but drama was still around somewhat.Try so stay neutral and friendly.Don't worry much about it,you're there to make money and not friends!You can do that when the shift it over!

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