Is it just me or does anyone else feel weird when their club staff act as patrons on their nights off? I swear I don't feel weird or awkward when anyone else I know comes into the club, even if they feel awkward around me, but I just can't get comfortable with my staff relaxing in the club as customers.
I feel so weird asking a bartender that I rarely talk to if he would like to tip me, but I also don't want to be blatantly awkward and just avoid him if I'm making rounds around our tiny club. And I just feel strange when I see a doorman getting lapdances from a girl... I guess I just feel like if these are people who stand there and watch me onstage and walking around topless and even come into the dressing room all night long, those are the few people I want to think aren't looking at me as a sexual object.
Naive, I guess, they're guys just like anyone else who comes in there, but I find it difficult to feel comfortable like we have a professional or professionally friendly relationship if the night before they were tipping me from a table and buying dances from other girls who work there. Is this just me? Do other girls not have a problem at all acting sexy and flirty with the people they work with?



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I just wish they would find someplace else to be entertained on their nights off...

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