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    I've been noticing a weird thing lately. At my club, there's really hardly anyone who hustles hard. It's almost all neighborhood guys and regulars, lots of conversation and fun. I actually love it; it's just different from my old club because the guys here tip like mad for stage shows but hardly ever buy dances. They'll actually go up to any "new guy" who isn't tipping enough and shame him into it, lol. Gotta love our boys.

    But anyway. For whatever reason, the club's been a little busier lately with new people coming in. When I was first starting there I tried so hard to be super nice and approachable with everyone that came in, hugs at the door, "welcome to the best club in town!" *smilesmilesmile* etc.

    Recently I got talking to a dancer at another club and she told me that she hardly ever walks up to guys and starts a conversation; she likes to make eye contact and flirt from across the room and build intrigue until the guy just *has* to go speak to her. This week I've been trying her method, being a little more aloof (not mean, just not trying so hard) and my dance sales have gone through the roof!

    Does anyone else do this? Do you think I'm just standing out because I'm behaving differently, or is this a "thing"? Just curious about your experiences.

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    Default Re: The anti-hustle

    I've actually been seriously contemplating changing my hustle more to this "aloof" style lately. People like to compliment me all the time on how friendly I am and how gorgeous my smile is and how they appreciate that I don't look like the "typical downtrodden stripper" - but the girls these guys "insult" are the ones getting so much attention and all the dances. They barely even do anything and hardly smile but guys will throws tons of money onstage for them and they sell dances all night long.

    I don't know what it is that makes guys more prone to spend money on girls with no facial expression as opposed to the girl they compliment for smiling and actually being friendly, but it seems to be working for everyone else. So I'll probably try that the next time I go in.

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    Default Re: The anti-hustle

    I always make more money when I'm friendly and smile at people. I've gotten approached for dances in the past by just sitting on my ass looking bored, but not very often. I guess it depends how you do it.

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    Default Re: The anti-hustle

    I do that sometimes, but it's not a hustle I rely upon. It's useful in the right place and time though, that's for sure.
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    Default Re: The anti-hustle

    It really depends on the kindof club you work in. If its a small club with limited girls and it focuses around the stage, you can get away with sitting back and letting them fall into you lap.

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    omg this past saturday i was working a busy night shift and was waiting for a custie who was in the bathroom. we were about to go upstairs so i was avoiding eye contact with other guys.. just waiting for my guy to be done. 4-5 guys, one after another approached me for dances!! and this was when i was NOT hustling dances! i guess guys are more intrigued by the one non-hustling stripper in the room? weirdos.. haha

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    Default Re: The anti-hustle

    when I am super busy and in VIP longer than I am on the floor. When I end up going on stage guys are lined up after. Like "who is this girl that I haven't seen ALL NIGHT" and then they just keep on seeing me in the back and that's how I get most guys. It's just a cycle once it gets rolling. It's the getting rolling part that can be complicated.
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    The non hustle can work at my club only if its really busy, because when quiet, if one girl is avoiding hustling, they probably all are, in which case the customers just get pissed off and leave.

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    Default Re: The anti-hustle

    If it's working for you, it's working for you. Your club culture is different from any club I've ever worked, so I can't say i've done an anti-hustle.

    the closest thing I do when it's slow is sit a bar stool away from a guy, and get a water from the bartender, relax and drink it for a few minutes. Then I flirt with the guy and they love it, it feels like I'm picking them up! Then I slide over. But it's not really an anti-hustle. It's staged.

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