I've been noticing a weird thing lately. At my club, there's really hardly anyone who hustles hard. It's almost all neighborhood guys and regulars, lots of conversation and fun. I actually love it; it's just different from my old club because the guys here tip like mad for stage shows but hardly ever buy dances. They'll actually go up to any "new guy" who isn't tipping enough and shame him into it, lol. Gotta love our boys.
But anyway. For whatever reason, the club's been a little busier lately with new people coming in. When I was first starting there I tried so hard to be super nice and approachable with everyone that came in, hugs at the door, "welcome to the best club in town!" *smilesmilesmile* etc.
Recently I got talking to a dancer at another club and she told me that she hardly ever walks up to guys and starts a conversation; she likes to make eye contact and flirt from across the room and build intrigue until the guy just *has* to go speak to her. This week I've been trying her method, being a little more aloof (not mean, just not trying so hard) and my dance sales have gone through the roof!
Does anyone else do this? Do you think I'm just standing out because I'm behaving differently, or is this a "thing"? Just curious about your experiences.



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I don't know what it is that makes guys more prone to spend money on girls with no facial expression as opposed to the girl they compliment for smiling and actually being friendly, but it seems to be working for everyone else. So I'll probably try that the next time I go in.



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