Im pretty new but Ill bite
Okay, when its time for him to go..its time... All of the guys who saw me at my incall showered beforehand, none of them stopped to shower again afterwards. Even though if I knew they were heading home to someone, I would have obliged out of courtesy, they likely dont want to spend 20m of that time in the shower two times and would want to get as much of the time with me as they can.
Also, coming home smelling freshly showered is *way* more suspicious than even smelling of perfume...at least in Miami, everyone greets everyone with a hug and a kiss, so it would be fairly easy enough to say he ran into so and so and she had wicked strong perfume on that rubbed off on him. But how to explain away smelling so fresh so clean when he took his last shower before he left the house 10 hours earlier...
And if its outcall, forget it...perfume will stay in the air, and on the sheets, couch whatever you touch. Im sensitive to the scent of perfume, especially if I dont like it...and can imagine if they hae a woman in their life, she will smell it halfway down the block lol. I always shower right before leave home to go to my outcall, and the majority of guys always ask if Id like to shower before I leave their place..one of them even had an assortment of body washes, lotions and extra stuff in case I needed it (I bring my own everything lol but it was a thoughtful touch...)
Id guess really that the best defense is to not wear anything strong..its easy enough to smell good without it being transferable...like a great smelling shampoo and conditioner, body oils/lotions, even a scented deodorant...
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