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    Default Whats our place?

    Why do YOU think guys pay for webcam sex?


    Lets face it , With all the free porn on the internet
    guys DONT need our company.
    Maybe if we can break down what they are really
    coming to see / willing to pay hard earned cash on
    we can learn how to work it just a little bit better.

    1 Fetishes. Maybe they want to see something specific.
    Maybe their fetish is paying girls to please them
    or just having girls take thier money.
    This kind of client you MUST pertain their interests
    Keep them interested, If you wont do what they want
    they can easly click over and find someone els.
    2 Fanticys. Kinda the same thing as a fetishes
    but maybe they need the company of a live woman. In this case
    this kind of customer you MUST converse with.
    3 Obedience. Lets face it , 90 percent of the guys who are on here
    are here to tell us what to do.
    This kind of client you MUST Obey (Unless you feel uncomfortable
    in that case let them know your boundaries before hand).
    If you do not obey this kind of man because 'you aint no bitch"
    then your not going to be payed for him.

    So you can imagine , if you think you can convince them
    they should pay you 5 a minute to see something pre played out
    Not take any of their requests , Not do any fetishes , What use
    are you really?

    Your opinion?

    P.s. Dixie , If you read this , Are you getting any of my emails?
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    Default Re: Whats our place?

    While fantasies and fetishishes will get you some time in pvt, I think connecting on some sort of level is so much more important then what you actually do once your there. If they do not have that connection on either a physical or psycological level then your doomed to a 3 min pvt, so they can get off.

    If you can read them and relate then you chances of a long pvt and a regular are that much better. I guess it really depends on what your after.
    For alot of short PVTs, fetishes and fantasies will definatly make your nights full of one hit wonders.
    I think there are basically two types of guys looking for us. The married guy looking for an escape from reality kind (fetishes and fantasies) and the single guy looking for companionship and a connection to spend some time with and explore their wild side with the comfort of the computer screen.....
    And I don't think 90% of guys are looking for a sub.... Look at nightflirt and all of the financial domination goin on.... It's just a matter of wether or not that is your persona online..... BTW I do play a sub online, it seems to do better, but wish I could be a dom...

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    PS... Great post Buffy. Everyone should think about this all of time.... PV.

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    It's definitely a lot about fetishes (having a girl watch you while you eat your own cum or torture your balls, lol), and about connecting with another person (or the illusion of connecting) when you are lonely and don't have a wife, girlfriend, or even friends. These things are why I think camming will always be around and us cam girls will always have work, at least in some form.
    Great thread, Buffy. I like thinking/talking about these things.
    I like naked chicks.

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    Your very welcome , So many.. No TOO many girls think that they are
    going to log on , and have these guys hand them money
    for what they can get for free.
    Girls who think
    "Eww, watch a guy cum on his face.. I will NEVER deal with that!"
    Or
    ''Uhhm NO i WONT show you my pussy from doggy style.. You can see it how i want you to see it!''
    Or even. "Im in a bad mood! Just tip me and ill role over and show you my butt".


    Thats not what its about , You have to learn the system , They arnt going to pay you for something they can get for free.
    The fetish guys can look up fetish porn.
    But they cant tell the girl in the porn to choke herself 5 minutes while saying his name..
    On that not , they cant tell porn to say their names at all.
    Even the ugliest of creeps can get sex. Point blank. We may say they cant.. But hey can.
    There are bitches ugly as thou, and just as slutty to match.


    Haha its just my opioion.
    I saw myself slipping into that mood earlyer , That
    "Uhg you mother fucker, Im not doing what you say
    go fuck a cactus ass" mood. Haha the kind where
    you see someone say "ass bb"
    and you just want to say.
    ''How dare you set here in my chat room.. MY CHAT ROOM, AND
    TRY AND TELL ME WHAT TO DO, YOU BROKE ASS MOTHER FUCKER
    IM GOING TO CHOP YOU UP IF YOU EVER CONFRONT ME IN SUCH A MANNER
    AGAIN, I REALLY MEAN IT , ON THAT NOTE
    HOW DARE YOU NOTE TYPE OUT THE WORD BABY, YOU STUPID
    MOTHER FUCKER, YOU -IGNORANT- MOTHER FUCKER, YOU
    STUPID SOB. YOU WATCH YOURSELF NEXT TIME SLICK.
    ILL KILL YOU!

    Haha , and then i got to thinking, What do they expect
    they come here for a reason , even though they dont plan on paying
    they come to tell girls what to do , otherwise they would go look at
    pornhub.
    Americanmade18 on most sites.

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    Default Re: Whats our place?

    Buffy what did I tell you, CALL ME!!!! seriously!!!!! I'm moving - so for the next like seven hours I can't pick up the phone, but after 1pm central time, CALL ME!!!! seriously!!! I'm not getting your emails, fucking Windows Live lol - get a gmail!!

    I think it really depends - some guys definitely it's about the specific fantasy or fetish they want - but beyond that, I think the majority of guys just really really love live pussy I mean think about it - which would you rather do, watch a tv show about cooking, or have a live interactive cooking experience? (I picked cooking because, well, I'm obsessed with FOOD) Would you rather have a personal shopper video telling you how to shop, or LIVE WITH YOU IN THE STORE!!!!

    so I think it's the live, interactive experience, probably combined with the anonymity - in a strip club, there's zero anonymity, but the distance physically probably really helps a lot of dudes overcome their shyness, especially since it's all online! And they don't have to do cam2cam if they don't want to! Of course I play that back on them, and BEG for cam2cam and phone, and then they LOVE ME! lol

    So if you want to be with me
    With these things there’s no telling
    We just have to wait and see
    But I’d rather be working for a paycheck
    Than waiting to win the lottery
    Besides maybe this time is different
    I mean I really think you like me

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