Met a guy on a dating site. First meetup he suggests a REALLY low end bar, like the place all the college kids go for cheap drinks. (But it's by his house ) our tab is around $20 and he pays. We get along really well and I am interested in seeing him for a second date.
Second date: he calls me on Monday to ask me out for Saturday (I love this) so we're deciding where to go and he texts: Do you bowl? Umm yeah I'm not really a bowling kinda a girl, keep in mind in our town there's a lot to do bowling is really scraping the bottom of the barrel.
After I politely say "I don't know how to bowl", he suggests grabbing a "bite" to eat a or him cooking me dinner at this house. I select his house thinking it was sweet and wondering what he would make.
Saturday comes and he makes me halibut (no thrills, pretty plain) and butter beans yeah butter beans. No dessert, we eat in kitchen. I bring over wine which is good because all he had was of the "twist off" variety. After dinner he didn't have a rented movie or anything so we just watched tv. I ended up getting drunk and we gropped each other and made out on the couch. He tried for more but I told him I wanted to go slow.
So even though I feel a spark and we seem pretty compatible I just feel under-valued. We are both in our 30's he owns his own house and has a good job, he can afford to take me out for a $100-200 dinner. I'm really thinking he must be trying to get as much as he can get for as little $$ as possible, even though his profile said he's looking for a relationship!
Don't you guys think that if he is so cheap in the beginning it's only gonna get worse? Isn't this the time to try to impress? If he calls for a third date is there a way I can direct him to take me out to a nice dinner? or if he suggests something cheap ass again should I just decline? I'm attractive and desirable, he's cool but pudgy and not all that, but I like his personality, what should I do? Please be honest without flaming me![]()



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