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    I lucked out BIG time. I met a smoking hot man- so hot that heads turn, so hot that he is constantly offered modeling and porn jobs, so hot that I feel he's out of my league- BEAUTIFUL man with a perfect body. And penis.

    He is extremely modest and gets shy when someone compliments him, he is such a sweetheart and thoughtful. He helps me with my errands, he buys me gifts here and there, he is also emotional- he cried watching The Notebook and Titanic (LOL) he's sentimental- I nick named him Teddy Bear cuz he's a huge guy with muscles that looks kinda mean but on the inside he's soft. So respectful.

    He is also protective, and a very thorough man. He is hard working and a go getter. He is well respected and his employers are scared of him.

    And the sex- Oh god, the sex is amazing, over the top, pure escatsy, no joke, no words to justify how amazing our sex is. So passionate and soo much chemistry. Usually during sex, eventually I want the guy to hurry up and come but with him, I never want him to pull out of me. He's hard for HOURS and he fits soo good inside me.

    We get along great- always laughing. I'm never in bad mood around him. Well, sometimes he gets jealous.

    Single. Longest relationship- 6 years. To me, that says he's a man of commitment. No children.

    And on top of everything, he makes $300,000 a year.

    Can he get anymore perfect?? He is the man of my dreams.

    He tells me that I'm perfect for him too. And he loves my imperfections- one time I feel asleep in his arms and drooled all over him and he didn't even care!

    It's only been two months....and he's already talking marraige. I would so marry him....but how soon is too soon??? Even if the answer is yes, I would marry him?

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    thank you!! god you have no idea how amazing he is!

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    Wait, he's constantly offered PORN jobs? I don't mean to sound like like a jerk, but my BS meter went off right there.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Mr Hyde View Post
    Wait, he's constantly offered PORN jobs? I don't mean to sound like like a jerk, but my BS meter went off right there.

    if you must know, we were walking on hollywood blvd when he was approached. im sorry that no one wants to do porn with YOU mr hyde.

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    ^lol.

    Honey when it's right, it's right. No one and nothing but how you feel matter here. My ex and I were engaged after 2 months. I loved him. Still love him. If you want this, do it. And fuck anyone with a problem with it. He sounds incredible. Make him yours!
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    Girl I am stoked for you! I know exactly what you mean. Some guys just have the right chemistry to make your libido and energy go through the roof. Have fun (and clone him!)
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    what the hell are you waiting for????????????????????????????????????

    life's too short, snatch that man up.

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    Girlllllllll, he sounds like every woman's dream!! I'd marry him in a heartbeat if I were in your shoes. Awesome, lucky you!

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    While this all sounds so perfect now..what's the rush? I am happy for you and not trying to burst your bubble by any means..if anything I am jealous..but why didnt he marry the 6 yr relationship and then after only 2 months? you two barely know eachother..right now ur in the honeymoon phase, but trust me.. you have no idea how to judge how he will react when things aren't so "perfect"... Real love withstands the test of time... marriage is a serious committment... all i'm saying is... really think about it.

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    hey thanks guys for the support

    @bambi blu- he's divorced.

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    Quote Originally Posted by JoJoX View Post
    if you must know, we were walking on hollywood blvd when he was approached. im sorry that no one wants to do porn with YOU mr hyde.
    I wouldn't do gay porn anyway. I guess your new beau feels the same way.

    Listen, if you're gonna post something like that on a public forum, you need to get a thicker skin. Being offered a porn role ONE time on Hollywood Blvd is not the same as being being offered "all the time." Guys in porn are a dime a dozen, and porn companies don't look for guys.

    I also don't know that I'd brag about being offered work in porn.

    As for advice, I wouldn't marry anyone that I've only known for 2-3 months.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Mr Hyde View Post
    I wouldn't do gay porn anyway. I guess your new beau feels the same way.

    Listen, if you're gonna post something like that on a public forum, you need to get a thicker skin. Being offered a porn role ONE time on Hollywood Blvd is not the same as being being offered "all the time." Guys in porn are a dime a dozen, and porn companies don't look for guys.

    I also don't know that I'd brag about being offered work in porn.

    As for advice, I wouldn't marry anyone that I've only known for 2-3 months.
    first of all, i said porn AND modeling. and just because im not gona sit here and let you call me a fucking liar doesnt mean i dont have thick skin.

    i was not bragging that he gets offered jobs in porn i was making a point that he is hot. i was bragging about his LOOKS, you brainiac.

    and thanks for the advice.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Mr Hyde View Post
    I wouldn't do gay porn anyway. I guess your new beau feels the same way.

    Listen, if you're gonna post something like that on a public forum, you need to get a thicker skin. Being offered a porn role ONE time on Hollywood Blvd is not the same as being being offered "all the time." Guys in porn are a dime a dozen, and porn companies don't look for guys.

    I also don't know that I'd brag about being offered work in porn.

    As for advice, I wouldn't marry anyone that I've only known for 2-3 months.

    so how much thicker is your skin if you had to reply with a smart ass comment?? you are clearly offended by what i said, take your own advice and grow some skin.

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    Quote Originally Posted by JoJoX View Post
    so how much thicker is your skin if you had to reply with a smart ass comment?? you are clearly offended by what i said, take your own advice and grow some skin.

    hmmm.....i would wait.

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    Screw marriage. Just live together and be happy that way.

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    Hold onto the happiness as long as possible. Be careful though sometimes as hot as something can burn it can fizzle out just as quick. Enjoy the great moments. Enjoy urself but pls dont jump at marriage.

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    YES it's too soon. All the glitters isn't gold. I'm with BambiBlu on this one. Why rush it? Give yourself some time to get the stars out of your eyes and start noticing his flaws. See if you can still stand him after things stop being new and exciting. Also evaluating why he's so sure you're the one when his first marriage ended is important. Anecdotes have shown that's not a good sign.

    Quote Originally Posted by The Six View Post
    Screw marriage. Just live together and be happy that way.
    Not often that I agree with this cat, but THIS all the way. What does marriage accomplish exactly outside of keeping up a culturally valued tradition?

    Not trying to be a debbie downer at all. Enjoy your dream man! But don't let the ideal blind you. If he's real, he'll wait with you.

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    I think you should wait. Maybe you should try living with each other for awhile first. I've been with my man for almost 5 years, and were not even engaged. There's no doubt that we're in love with each other, but there's no rush. Just enjoy your relationship and take it slow. You can be in a committed relationship and head over heels in love with each other without being engaged or married.

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    I just came back from a week vacation with him and all I have to say it....I'm def waiting lol

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    I'm super nosy...what happened?

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    Yeah .... what went down ? He sounds incredible from your first post. It seems a little fishy with the super high income but maybe some people do really make that much.

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    what's the rush? what would change if you were married? nothing. you guys can still have a good time together. try living together first.

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    It's only been two months....and he's already talking marraige. I would so marry him....but how soon is too soon??? Even if the answer is yes, I would marry him?
    As long as you won't be required to sign a pre-nup, it sounds like you should marry him tomorrow !

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    I would wait. Way too soon.

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    Wait, so is he single now?
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