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    Crossfingers Need help please! (regulars)

    Ok. so i love the club i work at. its a neighborhhod bar ..where the girls get naked (thats what we say, LOL) its in an unexpected place in town.. its just real cool. We get alot of regulars in which is cool bc as we all know regulars can really save your ass on a slow night.

    so this is my problem.. i have regular(s) that come in right when the club opens at 7. they buy me a few drinks. get quite a few dances, stick money in my garter from time to time.. but then when the dances and the money throwing is over.. they almost want me to stick around and buy me drinks all night long and talk. which i see why they want to do this from their point of view... but i have a room to work!! This happened to me on friday night, i def feel like i missed out on oppertunities to make more money.. but heres me, afraid of offending my regular! i dont want him to think i think of him as a horny ATM machine bc i want him to still come back and see me along with the others, so my ultimate question is....

    how do i excuse myself without being rude? what would you guys do? any advice would be wonderful. i seem to be having some issues with this, thanks so much guys!

    Lacey
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    He knows you're at work. I understand that you want him to feel valued and special (in order to keep him coming back and buying dancesin the future) but he's not someone you're dating so you don't have to tip-toe around to avoid making him jealous. Just be straight with him, once you feel he's done spending, tell him you've had a really good time with him but you have to get back to work now (this is key to making him feel special, the fact that you aven't considered it 'work' being with him) as your boss will get mad/you have bills to pay/its club policy/you're expecting a regular. Give him the option to keep you around longer if he guys a VIP/CR, or tell him that he's welcome to stay drinking and you'll swing by and find him a little bit later.

    At the end of the day, how much money are you losing out on by sticking around longer than necessary. Its nice to have regulars but not always worth it if they keep you from the big spenders.

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    thats awesome! i will definitley use this next time this happens! thank you kitinboots!
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    YOu can encourage them to come back on a slower night when you will have more time. YOu can say something like, "Wednesdays are really dead in here. IF you come on a Wednesday we will have lots of time to talk." This can help pad up your slow nights and also let your reg get the time with you he craves.


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