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    Default Before I log in today (SM)...

    Thanks everyone for your replies. I am going to log on again today and I am still nervous. I know many of you said that even after doing this for a while you still get nervous.

    For the veterans...

    1. Is there any way I can make it less obvious that I am reading the screen to see what they want me to do next (esp when I have my back turned to the screen)?

    2. There was one guy where there were a lot of pauses during his requests. Although he was my longest private (22 mins), I felt like maybe I wasn't doing something right or maybe he wanted me to do it longer. How can you tell without asking a million times?

    3. With the little time I was on, how do you rate each private? I had one guy that knew exactly what he wanted and went right to it. He wanted me to kiss him, turn around moan, etc and I could see him on his cam. Of course, he was doing his business, and I did what he asked and about 5 mins into the session and said thank you and was done.

    I know that I will not be able to read these guys minds or please everyone, but I am a perfectionist to some degree. I want to feel like I am in control and handle my business to please my customers. Because I am new to all of this, I am not sure what is the norm or what is a good indicator that I am handling my business. The long pauses between me and the customer make me worry especially since they are paying my the minute.

    Thanks in advance

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    Default Re: Before I log in today (SM)...

    you'll get used to it
    sometimes guys will just be completely quiet for ages (or for the whole time)
    other times they will drop little clues and after a while you'll learn to pick them up (this is more for role-play and fetish play anyway)

    about reading the screen - put the camera directly on top of it

    don't worry about it too much - if they don't tell you what they want, that's their problem!
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    Somebody call the WAHHHHmbulance.

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    Default Re: Before I log in today (SM)...

    1. It never even occurred to me to try to hide I'm reading the screen. I like to think most of them knows I'm not psychic (though, if it's been to my liking, I persuade them I am sometimes ) It's only logical you'll be glancing at the screen if you want to read his message and/or request. Not a single client expressed distaste for...reading.

    2. Long pauses mean he's too busy jerking off and popping his eyes out whilst watching your incredible ass/tits/pussy. Not to worry about this, it's the way it's supposed to be. I'd be more worried if they spent the whole time directing me (as in being Tivo'd). You'll have clients who chat a lot, you'll have clients who type the ocassional request and do their business in the meantime, you'll have clients who'll just want you to do whatever you want or those who want to dirty talk to you. It's a variety. There'll be hints. Ask what'd they'd like to see when they come to your room (in a nice way, ofc), that'll give you a starter. Don't be afraid to ask question, just pack them up in a nice sexy wrapping and top them off with doe eyes.

    3. Rate? As in, how do you rate your performance quality? Ah, don't worry about it. Give it your best, but don't stress over guys leaving without goodbye, guys leaving after 20 second et cetera. Doesn't even mean they weren't satisfied. They're just that sort of a client.

    4. Deep breaths, relax and remember you're in charge in your room! Good luck, sweetie!

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    Default Re: Before I log in today (SM)...

    I am really new to this too but I always smile and look at the screen like I'm really excited to see what the guy has to say. Then I giggle. Works for me. Lol at Misty Rose if we were psychic we'd be out cashing our lotto tickets!

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