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    So I logged onto SM early this morning about 2CST. It was dead slow, but I figured that it would pick up when the UK guys woke up.

    I spent all that time on the cam and these MF stayed in my room just looking at me. The junk was really pissing me off. I don't want to be a b**ch, but I am not staying on here for you to just gawk at me for hours. WTF!!!!

    How do you girls deal with stalkers? It was unreal.

    I wasn't even doing anything because I saw that if I picked my nose they were going to stay there and watch me.

    UGH!!!

    Is there something I could have done differently to convert them into private? I don't believe in showing all my goodies in free chat. I just won't do it. Why buy the cow when you can get the milk for free?

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    Default Re: Getting the WRONG type of attention...

    Think of them more as traffic.
    You cant get mad at them , 98% of
    them men dont plan on paying.
    Use them as traffic , and conversation.
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    Thanks Buffy! I was just very irritating because it seemed like no one wanted to go into private. I know I have to get a camming mindset, but with the traffic being slow and then have about 4 guys in my room sending me all these pics of themselves. I wanted to make money not entertain for free. Sorry if I sound bitchy!

    I had this one guy stay in my room forever and he kept begging me to see my arm pit. Then he got upset and told me that I was an internet hoe, b**tch...blah, blah, blah. Of course, the sh*t pissed me off. Not because he was in my room just because he kept on begging. I knew he had no intention of taking me to private.

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    Heres a few tips.
    Offer to view pics for 1-2 Tip
    Offer to show ass for 2$ (Stand 2$)
    Cheap things like this get people tipping.

    I usually leave my face off cam and offer it for 1$
    Anything you wouldnt mind showing in public (mooning)
    I offer for 1-2 dollars.
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    I use my non payers as conversation starters to keep my room live.

    But when these non payers want to stay a it to long, I break out the " Tips are nice" Banner on my ManyCam and they leave, because they get it. If they stay after that and keep talking, I move on to the next man in my room to teach him , you need to KEEP my attention with money, not compliments.

    but this is the reason I hate free chat, and i'm mostly indy.... I still kind of feel if you want a show you will get it. My privates are longer on the sites I don't do free chat, because they did not see me before hand so they are not wanking to me already.

    You seem super reserved like me, maybe sites like Niteflirt | adultwork might be your style? Idk.?

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    I use them as conversation too, but once they start getting raunchy I let them know it's not appropriate in the free chat. You've got to keep them under control. I don't answer a lot of their personal questions either, because I'm working I'm not here for their personal amusement if they're not paying.

    I have trouble with regulars hanging out in my room and walking the line between giving them enough attention but not too much. It's tricky.

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    I just kick them out as a warning, then block them if they come back and act like babies about it.

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    All of these ladies have a very good point. That time of night you signed on is usually when I cam on SM as well. You will get into a groove soon, and learn exactly how you want to run your chat room. Don't be afraid to stand up and show them what you are wearing, or play music you love and hangout. I think if you would have talked a bit to them, or even to yourself you would have gotten more traffic in there. I have found when you say something, ANYTHING even if it's just to talk shit... guys will come into your room and eventually take you private. You sound exactly how I felt when I first started. You can get those privates without giving anything away for free, you just have to work it!
    And... the armpit guy sounded like he just finds new girls to dick with. Really, don't be afraid to ban. Even if you just don't like his screen name BAN HIM!
    Good Luck to you Hunny!!!

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    Default Re: Getting the WRONG type of attention...

    I don't mind the guys that chat in free, but if someone says "see boobs" "or "see pussy," I'll automatically kick them. It's so annoying and disrespectful. If someone is sending you a lot of requests, reply back by saying "in private." If they get the hint, they'll take you to private, if they keep begging, kick or ban them.

    I notice a lot less beggars late morning if that helps you at all. I was on yesterday at like 10am, and most of the guys in my free chat were paying members and I was getting privates back to back.

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    Default Re: Getting the WRONG type of attention...

    I'm not sure what is worse (for models), guys that don't say anything, guys that beg, or groups of guys that just seem to chat with each other (my personal pet peeve).

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    It was mentionned in another post that UK guys and other Europeans don't depend on credit cards like guys in the USA, who just ring up credit card bills. That may have something to do with the guys from there doing privates all the time, but they will do them when they have the money. I have several UK guys that come see me when they can.

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    Quote Originally Posted by BuffyFlame View Post
    Heres a few tips.
    Offer to view pics for 1-2 Tip
    Offer to show ass for 2$ (Stand 2$)
    Cheap things like this get people tipping.

    I usually leave my face off cam and offer it for 1$
    Anything you wouldnt mind showing in public (mooning)
    I offer for 1-2 dollars.

    I've been asking too much, 5 Gold for that stuff. 1 or 2 is much more reasonable for simple things ... If they tipped as much as they asked to see my feet, geez I could make a lot more money.

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    Thanks everyone for your replies. This was my approach...

    I did audio for 95% of the night. When I got to the point of realizing that these guys were not going to take me into private, I started typing.

    I talk with them and engaged them, but maybe I was too nice or friendly??? I had music playing and did a slow dance in my seat. I did not want to give too much for free.

    I would always try to divert them back to taking me to private, but they were not having it.

    Like CamWhore said, the compliments were nice but got old after a while. I don't know if it is my approach or what. I did not have on anything slutty but classy. I was very nice, friendly and seductive. I would get compliments on how beautiful I was, how nice my ass, blah, blah.

    I even put my cam on the bed face down so they could not see me. THEY STILL STAYED!

    I am going to log on at a different time today and see if that makes a difference. It is very disappointing to have a goal in mind and not make it.

    I will start asking for tips to see more. Like KittyKrane said, that could definitely help me earnings.

    Thanks again for all your help ladies!

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    lol, kittykrane. For all the requests I get for feet, I've only done one foot fetish show. I don't bother with foot fetish guys, women that can cater to them must know a secret that I don't. I just don't have the patience or care enough to take their $3.

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    Quote Originally Posted by jessatron3000 View Post
    lol, kittykrane. For all the requests I get for feet, I've only done one foot fetish show. I don't bother with foot fetish guys, women that can cater to them must know a secret that I don't. I just don't have the patience or care enough to take their $3.
    I managed to get a couple foot fetish guys to go private, but for the most part, they work the free angle as much as they can. It's insane.

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    Quote Originally Posted by kittykrane View Post
    I managed to get a couple foot fetish guys to go private, but for the most part, they work the free angle as much as they can. It's insane.
    yea i thought that was wierd, cuz i get some foot fetish guys in my room here and there, but i have only had one take me prvt. all of what happend was he told me to take off my heels and let him see the bottom of my feet, so i did and he looked at them for a min and then left. i loved them so much better when i was wrking at the club, cuz they would buy dances from me but instead of giving the dance they just rubbed and caressed my feet the whole time, even had one in the VIP for half hour for $130! i loved those guys so much better in person, but online i just done know yet
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    ^^^That's because the guys that ask to see your feet are just really wanting to see more of you, or your ass. Really foot fetish guys take you private... long privates. They worship feet, love feet and pay for the goods. They also tend to be somewhat of perfectionist when it comes to displaying your feet for them. At least this has been in my own experience with feet fetish gents.
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    yea I use those guys just to shoot the shit with. I know they wont spend money but at least they keep me moving and talking. That way I don't look boring if a potential customer passes through. I wouldnt really talk too much about their fantasies with them, just a couple of quick answers nothing in depth though, they have to pay for that. I do have a couple of stalkers I had to ban because they were just a little too crazy for me.
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