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    Duh guys seem to hate camming more then stripping?

    im having a hard time wrapping my mind around this. it seems like guys ive talked to think that camming is way dirtier then stripping. im not sure how or why but it seems rediculous to me.

    do you think its becuase more guys know little about the cam girls line of work? its easy for guys to talk to strippers but not cam girls about shop talk.

    men....rediculous creatures.

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    Default Re: guys seem to hate camming more then stripping?

    My boyfriend was way more ok with camming than stripping. He said as long as other men weren't actually touching me, it was fine.

    Maybe the ones you run into think that because there is more sex-toy play...?

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    Default Re: guys seem to hate camming more then stripping?

    i think thats what it is. i still think its odd. im not dodging hands, and i fake everything anyway. i dont get it.

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    Default Re: guys seem to hate camming more then stripping?

    having your girl strip and dirty dance is one thing, having her masturbate and shove a dildo up her pussy in front of other guys is totally different. so yeah i could see a guy being ok with stripping more than camming

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    Default Re: guys seem to hate camming more then stripping?

    i honestly don't see how camming is worse than stripping. stripping there is lots of physical contact with the customers and they are always trying to grab at ya and pester you to death, which is partially why i switched to camming. i think ppl think it's dirtier cuz we are doing sexual acts for ppl to watch. but i think that is just stupid. what we do is considered pornography and thrown out there for everyone to see while, stripping happens behind closed doors within the club. it's one of those stupid double standards in life unfortunately.

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    Default Re: guys seem to hate camming more then stripping?

    Quote Originally Posted by lolalolita View Post
    Maybe the ones you run into think that because there is more sex-toy play...?
    I would assume this. On the one hand, I can see how a guy would hate camming more than stripping since there is more sex play involved which could be considered more intimate even if the guy isn't actually in the room with you. And don't some camgirls sometimes have customers buy them gifts and such? Maybe a guy could see that as crossing the line of customer. Plus there's the issue of you being recorded and spread over the internet, whereas with stripping, you can basically keep your line of work private from anyone not in your immediate area.

    But I honestly think that camming is better than stripping since there's no actual contact with a customer. My bf said that since he was fine with me stripping, he would see no reason to not be fine with me camming. Like you also said, a lot of guys also probably don't know how to talk to camgirls about their work, and stripping is more familiar to most of them. They just need to get educated... dumb boys

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    Default Re: guys seem to hate camming more then stripping?

    Quote Originally Posted by Aurora_Sunset View Post
    I would assume this. On the one hand, I can see how a guy would hate camming more than stripping since there is more sex play involved which could be considered more intimate even if the guy isn't actually in the room with you. And don't some camgirls sometimes have customers buy them gifts and such? Maybe a guy could see that as crossing the line of customer. Plus there's the issue of you being recorded and spread over the internet, whereas with stripping, you can basically keep your line of work private from anyone not in your immediate area.

    But I honestly think that camming is better than stripping since there's no actual contact with a customer. My bf said that since he was fine with me stripping, he would see no reason to not be fine with me camming. Like you also said, a lot of guys also probably don't know how to talk to camgirls about their work, and stripping is more familiar to most of them. They just need to get educated... dumb boys
    i have to disagree with you on that point...i have had lots of customers buy me gifts, sent flowers to me, buy me stripper clothes and such, heck i have an old reg from the club that pays my phone bill for me still. i think stipping is more personal, yea you arent doing anything sexual with them like cam but it is more personal contact...i just dont see how a guy would think that camming is more of a threat to the relationship than stripping is when you l could easly go home with the customer and fuck but is much more hard to meet up with someone who isn't there in person..

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    Default Re: guys seem to hate camming more then stripping?

    My husband saw me reading this post, and he thinks that stripping is worst than camming. We talked extensively about camming before I did it, and he said he would much rather me do this than stripping.

    Yes we are exposing our private parts in a more exposed way, but we do not have guys touching on us.

    Camming has its risk, but stripping can be more unsafe especially when dealing with guys that become obsessed and try to follow you home, etc.

    I don't have to worry about someone trying to violate my privacy by feeling on me, etc.

    I feel more comfortable doing camming.

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    Default Re: guys seem to hate camming more then stripping?

    Quote Originally Posted by missginger View Post
    having your girl strip and dirty dance is one thing, having her masturbate and shove a dildo up her pussy in front of other guys is totally different. so yeah i could see a guy being ok with stripping more than camming
    Yeahhh. From a semi-gay perspective - There's a big difference between your girl giving light contact dances and needing a foot rub because she's sore from work...
    And having your girl not want to fuck because her pussy is sore from fucking herself for random guys all day.

    Not saying anything bad about cam girls... that's just how I'd think of it if it were my girlfriend.
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    Quote Originally Posted by bubblegumbitch View Post
    i have to disagree with you on that point...i have had lots of customers buy me gifts, sent flowers to me, buy me stripper clothes and such, heck i have an old reg from the club that pays my phone bill for me still. i think stipping is more personal, yea you arent doing anything sexual with them like cam but it is more personal contact...i just dont see how a guy would think that camming is more of a threat to the relationship than stripping is when you l could easly go home with the customer and fuck but is much more hard to meet up with someone who isn't there in person..

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    No no, I understand. I've also had guys bring me flowers and little stuffed animals and cutesy gifts at the club. And I completely understand the point that it's much more of a threat to the relationship to be able to go home with a guy instead of being mostly anonymous. I can just see how, from the perspective of a guy who didn't know much about camming, this could be seen as awkward and a threat - I mean, I've heard of girls getting customers to buy them new laptops. I would think some guys would be weirded out by that. I wouldn't think it's a big deal because I know the girl just wants the money and the goodies, but a guy could take it differently if that was his gf.

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    Yes we are exposing our private parts in a more exposed way, but we do not have guys touching on us.

    Camming has its risk, but stripping can be more unsafe especially when dealing with guys that become obsessed and try to follow you home, etc.

    I don't have to worry about someone trying to violate my privacy by feeling on me, etc.

    I feel more comfortable doing camming.
    I completely agree with this. I feel like camming is much safer. I remember being taken out to my car one night after work and having the bouncer warn me about a strange car that had been parked across the street for awhile... I've also had customers guess which car is mine when they went out for a smoke break... creepy shit

    Quote Originally Posted by DesuvsDeath View Post
    Yeahhh. From a semi-gay perspective - There's a big difference between your girl giving light contact dances and needing a foot rub because she's sore from work...
    And having your girl not want to fuck because her pussy is sore from fucking herself for random guys all day.
    But I've also thought about this too... wondering if, when I start camming, I'll be turning down sex occasionally because I get too sore for my bf... I can see that being a bit of a strain on the relationship...

    Overall, I guess I still stick to my original thought that camming is better than, or at the very least equal to, stripping and no guy should hate camming more than stripping. They both have their pros and cons. I guess it just depends on how you look at them.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Aurora_Sunset View Post
    They both have their pros and cons. I guess it just depends on how you look at them.
    Basically. Which is "worse" depends on how you think about it.
    There are also a lot of factors... I mean, there are strip clubs where you don't get naked and have no physical contact... and there are girls who do non-nude camming. There are clubs that full nude, full contact... and there are girls jamming giant dildos in their pussy in free chat. I think each situation is unique depending on what the girl does/is willing to do itc or on cam.
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    Default Re: guys seem to hate camming more then stripping?

    yea there are lots of different factors for both depending on each unique situation, every guy is different and what may be a deal breaker to one, may not be a big deal to the other. i just couldn't date a guy who had a problem with what i do for a living, i cant stand jealous guys.

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    Quote Originally Posted by bubblegumbitch View Post
    i just couldn't date a guy who had a problem with what i do for a living, i cant stand jealous guys.
    Agreed. I love how my bf isn't jealous at all. I basically only asked him how he would feel about camming as a way to bring it up.... not because I actually thought he'd care (or even that I cared if he cared lol). I figured he wouldn't have an issue with it since he doesn't have an issue with me stripping - which is exactly what he ended up saying. I think to him - it's all just work that doesn't put me or him at any serious risk (with the exception of possible club creepers). I wish all guys could see camming and stripping that way. Then we wouldn't have so many threads on girls upset with guys who don't have a clue...

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    Default Re: guys seem to hate camming more then stripping?

    My SO is absoutely fine with me camming, i'm not sure he'd be happy if i wanted to start stripping mainly because of the safety factor. He doesn't have any issue from a moral standpoint - he's much too rational and practical for that - he just wants to make sure i'm safe which is why i'm super careful about what info i give away on cam. He often sits with me when i'm camming (off cam obviously) - we have a really good laugh. He just has to turn away when he sees some guy's cock appear on the screen (he has a real aversion to cocks - except for his own obviously)!

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    Quote Originally Posted by missginger View Post
    having your girl strip and dirty dance is one thing, having her masturbate and shove a dildo up her pussy in front of other guys is totally different. so yeah i could see a guy being ok with stripping more than camming
    This is pretty much exactly what I planned to say.

    In their minds the more sexual something is the "dirtier" it is. People have become jaded about dancing, & in comparison camming is rather new while also being more sexual because many entertainers perform insertion... therefore making it "dirtier" in their minds.
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    Quote Originally Posted by crispy View Post
    i think thats what it is. i still think its odd. im not dodging hands, and i fake everything anyway. i dont get it.

    That is absolutely rediculous. You think cause you fake the orgasms that the guy thinks differently of you. ARe you kidding me. He will assume your are lying. Because everytime he masterbates the goal is to cum.

    This job is awesome. I get to orgasm and get paid for it.

    Enjoy your job, it will help you make more money.

    If your dating, unless he is paying your bills. Who cares?
    I make in one day camming more than I would working a 40 hours week in an office.

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    Default Re: guys seem to hate camming more then stripping?

    Oh my, I say what the hell.
    If he is into you. A hottie that other men are willing to pay to see naked. Then he loves BAD girls. Trying to say one is better than the other is pointless.

    If any guys wants a good, safe, boring gal, then he can go to church and find one there. One who isn't having sex until marriage.
    If he is making you feel guilty about your job, then he is just laying the ground work to leave the relationship without any guilt. It is his out.
    Are these men virgins? Saving themselves for that special one. Or using the double standard to make you jump through hoops for them. Unless there is a big diamond ring involved then discuss career options.
    If you were worried about these issues. Then you should have never stripped or cammed in the first place.
    Your job isn't an issue when you get all sexy and do them is it? No

    Flip the script on them gals. I date highly successful men who are NOT in the adult biz. They are well aware of my career. They love me being a bad girl.

    I would rather be alone. Then to have someone make me feel guilty about enjoying sex. Having a man who loves and supports you in life is important. But one who is tripping yet still fucking you is NOT a good guy.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Aurora_Sunset View Post
    Plus there's the issue of you being recorded and spread over the internet, whereas with stripping, you can basically keep your line of work private from anyone not in your immediate area.
    Exactly. Stripping offers more anonymity in that sense.

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    Quote Originally Posted by ZePeanut View Post
    Exactly. Stripping offers more anonymity in that sense.
    Until someone takes a pic or records the stripping with a cellphone and post it all over the web.

    Anonymity doesn't exist in today's world.

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    Default Re: guys seem to hate camming more then stripping?

    Or someone IRL recognizes you @ the club.

    Both jobs have their negative and positive aspects.

    No man would have any say about my job, if he disliked it so much he can start giving me $8,000+ a month to quit my job or STFU. I don't really care what men think of my job as a cam girl. Your not paying my rent, bills, etc. .....NEXT! And the quality men, wouldn't care anyways! I don't even associate w/ people who look down on this industry.

    Your job doesn't define you. I'm a lot more than just a softcore cam girl.


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    Default Re: guys seem to hate camming more then stripping?

    My boyfriend was really uncomfortable with me dancing so I quit, but he doesn't mind me camming at all. I wish I could still dance since it's so much more anonymous. But, this is a nice compromise.
    I guess he's more cool with me camming because no one is actually touching me, but in my opinion it shouldn't really be that different.

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    Default Re: guys seem to hate camming more then stripping?

    I would have less of a problem dancing. -but I'm a dancer. It's probably 50/50- some dancers do more than others~ same with the models. IMO

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    Quote Originally Posted by KyleeXO View Post
    Or someone IRL recognizes you @ the club.

    Both jobs have their negative and positive aspects.

    No man would have any say about my job, if he disliked it so much he can start giving me $8,000+ a month to quit my job or STFU. I don't really care what men think of my job as a cam girl. Your not paying my rent, bills, etc. .....NEXT! And the quality men, wouldn't care anyways! I don't even associate w/ people who look down on this industry.

    Your job doesn't define you. I'm a lot more than just a softcore cam girl.

    You Go Girl!

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