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    Default Re: Rant: Most dancers don't remember your names!!! Get over it!!!

    I am terrible with names in real life (I recently had to ask someone another person's name that I've known almost a year) so remembering many names is rough. I remembered for the most part names of guys that came in all the time, but the every so often guys? Not likely. I've forgotten names of regulars I had if they didn't come in all the time.

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    It is astounding entertainers remember any names, as many people as they meet.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Raider View Post
    Had a dancer ask me if I knew the guys name she was sitting with as her mind had totally gone blank and he had been in numerous times spending money and there was no way she could ask him. I waited til she went on stage, made small talk with him and then introduced myself. After getting his name...went to stage tipped her and gave her his name. All happy ....except I was out $5. ha........
    You performed a service for her. It's her who should have tipped you five dollars. Did she at least return you your five-dollar ?

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    ^ shut up


    Quote Originally Posted by kaiarose View Post
    I am so sick and fucking tired of guys coming in once or twice, getting maybe 2 dances from me and then expecting me to remember their goddamn names. Then they get all butt hurt and say stupid shit like, "Gee thanks." or "Wow, that's real nice." or "I bought a dance from you the last time I was here and you can't even remember my name?!" Do they realize how many men I meet on a weekly basis?! Sorry to say that I usually only remember names if A. The guy spent more than $100 on me or B. He's a repeat customer.. It's so frustrating because they try to make you feel like shit about it or they think that they are someone special and I SHOULD remember him. Nope. Sorry buddy.
    Tell them they should spend more on you this time and you'll never forget again.
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    Quote Originally Posted by BringOnTheMen View Post
    performed a service my ass...do you hold out your hand expectantly every time you hold the door open for someone?
    How would you feel if you did not get tipped for the services you performed? I am pretty sure you would start a dramatic thread on this board cursing all the PLs of the world.

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    Most of the replies have been Yeah I Agree and, well, I mostly agree. Though I've never said anything about it, I do get annoyed when a dancer asks me my name twice in the same night. If a dancer isn't good at remembering names she should say "Hi I'm Candy, nice to meet you" instead of "Hi I'm Candy, what's your name?"

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    Quote Originally Posted by Brigham View Post
    You performed a service for her. It's her who should have tipped you five dollars. Did she at least return you your five-dollar ?

    No...did not expect it back. A nice lady that was in an awkward situation and I was happy to help. The tip obviously was merely an excuse to go to the stage to tell her. My comment about being out $5 was merely a bit of humor and if I was really worried about it I would have tipper her $1. Guess I could have gone up to stage and told her I would be happy to sell his name to her.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Asian Sensation View Post
    Most of the replies have been Yeah I Agree and, well, I mostly agree. Though I've never said anything about it, I do get annoyed when a dancer asks me my name twice in the same night. If a dancer isn't good at remembering names she should say "Hi I'm Candy, nice to meet you" instead of "Hi I'm Candy, what's your name?"
    Saying nice to meet you twice in one night would annoy you less? Guys we're human beings, not machines. OMG you have to tell a dancer your name more than once, what a hardship this must be!
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    Default Re: Rant: Most dancers don't remember your names!!! Get over it!!!

    In my business, I have a hard time remembering names, too. Unless I've seen the same customer a few times, I won't remember their name. I'll have a new customer say to me, "Bob Jones" recommended me to you, do you know him, and I'll say, yeah, even though I have no idea who they're talking about.

    A dancer's job depends more on knowing names then my business, but it's hard to put a name on a face unless you've seen that same customer a few times. Plus, if the dancer has had a drink or two, it'll be even harder for her to remember your name. The dancer goes through too many customers to even try to remember all of their names. It's like a revolving door.

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    I always spend at least a 100, I come about every two weeks, they usually remember my name, but I don't remember there stage name! It takes a while for me to rember there names!

    Even then it gets confusing! Jeny, Jenifer, Jaden, Jessica, Roxy, Roxane lol to many names to close to eacthother! I never ask them what my name is, and am not offended if they don't know it!

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    Quote Originally Posted by NeedsHelp123 View Post
    Even if a customer (in any business) is stupid, just kill them with kindness (unless they are rude, i do not accept rudeness in any form)

    when i was a salesman and didn't remember someones name (for good reason) I would just apologize and make up some excuse blah blah, usually when someone is an ass like that, i'll remember their name next time just because I didn't like them lol, even if they aren't special the trick is to make them feel like they are.

    not that any of you need advice, just putting my thoughts out there
    I agree... I mean, you're hustling right? Trying to sell dances?... The way to a man's wallet is through his ego. You should just say something like - "Of course I remember you, John... Oh, your name is not John. Can I call you John, cause you remind me of this really cute guy I knew, John Smith, he was a teacher I had a huge crush on."

    I get clients that call me out of the blue and expect me to remember who they are and particulars about their case - I just fake through it, until I find the file and my notes.
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    Quote Originally Posted by lestat1 View Post
    Remembr my name? Shit, I'm thrilled if a dancer or even my ATF manages to hide her revulsion long enough to dance for me without a look of disgust on her face! lol
    I never looked at you with revulsion.
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    So I made myself look like a complete dick this weekend.
    This guy that has been in many times before and whom I normally remember his name (he looks exactly like Tom Cruise..) came in. Well I walk up and was like, "Hey Scott! It's good to see you!" And I kept repeating his name confidently after certain things I said and finally he was like, "Look, my name is Mark." I was quite embarrassed :/ Because I was soo sure of myself and had called him "Scott" so many times in the convo that I felt like a dildo when he called me out. LOL.. Needless to say he didn't spend as much as he usually does. I won't be mistaking his name again..

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    Kaiarose can call me any name (Okay, any male name) and I'd be fine with it. Yup.

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    Quote Originally Posted by JayATee View Post
    I never looked at you with revulsion.
    That's because the only look in your repetoire is sexy.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Brigham View Post
    How would you feel if you did not get tipped for the services you performed? I am pretty sure you would start a dramatic thread on this board cursing all the PLs of the world.
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    Quote Originally Posted by kaiarose View Post
    So I made myself look like a complete dick this weekend.
    This guy that has been in many times before and whom I normally remember his name (he looks exactly like Tom Cruise..) came in. Well I walk up and was like, "Hey Scott! It's good to see you!" And I kept repeating his name confidently after certain things I said and finally he was like, "Look, my name is Mark." I was quite embarrassed :/ Because I was soo sure of myself and had called him "Scott" so many times in the convo that I felt like a dildo when he called me out. LOL.. Needless to say he didn't spend as much as he usually does. I won't be mistaking his name again..
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    Quote Originally Posted by BringOnTheMen View Post
    Yes, I start threads all the fucking time here every time I do not get tipped. My friend just called me asking for directions to someone elses house and I am so pissed she did not stop by my place to hand me $3 for my services.

    At the club dancers are at work. Assholes like you aren't, so if you aren't familiar with common courtesy then please stay the fuck away from my club.
    Fair enough. I see your point. You are saying that unless someone is not at work, he/she should not expect tips.

    But was it really necessary to call me name? I think not.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Brigham View Post

    But was it really necessary to call me name? I think not.

    "NECESSARY"?


    hmmm..........necessary..............not 'deserved' or 'justified' that answer would be easy......but ...... n e c e s s a r y........

    that is a tough question Brigham.....I'm stumped.

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    Quote Originally Posted by lemiwinks31 View Post

    that is a tough question Brigham.....I'm stumped.
    There are some exercises you could undertake that are known to improve brain capacity. For example studies show that if you routinely do even the most basics of arithmetic, it can improve your thinking and problem solving capacity. Let me know if you need further help. I would be delighted to lend a helping hand.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Brigham View Post
    . Let me know if you need further help. I would be delighted to lend a helping hand.
    Well, unless I find the need to learn how to cum in my pants or undertip....I'm probably not a good candidate for your tutoring....but thanks anyway.
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    Anyone think this thread and the other about finishing in dance in pants is sorta similar to the one where it was stated dancers needed to be 39 yrs old to dance???? Troll......?

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    Well, unless I find the need to learn how to cum in my pants or undertip....I'm probably not a good candidate for your tutoring....but thanks anyway.
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    For your information, I do not buy lap dances.

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    ^ Ok, it's official, you must be Cyril back under another name.
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    I think a lot of dancers genuinely try to remember names of significant customers, and small fry obviously arent worth bothering with. I think for every customers name I've forgotten in the week since I saw them one has forgotten mine within about 30 seconds of introducing myself. The main problem as far as I can see is so many men have really generic names - Mike, Dave, John, Paul. And then some men like to give a fake name and they always go for the generic ones "Since you aren't going to give me your real name I'm not going to either, so you can call me Tim". MEN: if you want to give a fake 'strip club' name pick something memorable and catching! And don't assume your dancer has a fake name, I use my real name, in fact I legally changed my name to my stripper name. My job is safe, my club is secure, my name is awesome, and I dont see any reason to hide behind a fake name!!

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