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    Hi ladies,

    So I'm in a little dilemma, I met a customer at work who came in tipped really generously..He doesn't do dances or VIP just tips me about 200$ to sit with him for an hour.
    I normally don't go out with clients from the club, but we got along great so I agreed to have dinner with him only on the condition that I could bring my friend.

    So one thing I noticed is that every time he comes to the club he always has some "female friends with him that he helps out"

    I've googled him and he is the owner of a really big company , divorced and and has a lot of disposable income.

    He wanted to go out to dinner this week, I told him i couldn't because i didn't have a sitter, he tells me he'll pay for a sitter.

    We go to dinner, which is fab.. then at the end of the night I ask if he can still pay for my sitter, he's says yes and gives my 200$ bucks.

    I think he really likes me but I'm not sure how to bring up the sugar daddy thing with him. We're meeting for dinner next week, any ideas?

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    Default Re: Working him into a sugar daddy?

    Have you read many other threads on "Dating customers" & "SD" types? You are walking into dangerous grounds. Be sure you check your local laws first so that you don't cross the line. For example many states require a license for social escorting, & the way some SBs operate can easily fall into social escorting, thus places where this is being done without a license you could end up with a ticket. Also, make sure you do a lot of research on him. Don't assume he is safe just because he is always coming into the club with other women. Check to make sure he isn't on any sort of sex offenders registry, & that he doesn't have any charges for things like physical battery or theft. Finally, if he seems to be getting uncomfortable back off & re-approach the subject later.

    Your best bet is probably to not do this over dinner or when your friend is around. Just meet him for dinner at the restaurant, have fun, & leave.

    The next time after dinner that he comes to the club & doesn't have company with him, bring it up. Ask him what sort "help" he provides to these women, & if it is ever financial. If he says yes, he may go into detail or if he seems pretty comfortable talking about it you can pursue more details. You could ask questions like how many he does this for, what the average amounts are etc. Then ask if his reason for asking you to dinner originally was to pursue a similar type of relationship.
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    Default Re: Working him into a sugar daddy?

    Sounds to me like he's already assumed the role. My husband and I have a sugardaddy, and he also has other girls he 'helps out', which I guess is their way of saying it without saying it.

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    i got a couple of those types at the clubs, they usually don't last that long with me cuz they always want more than what i am willing to give and they are so high maintenance it's not even worth it. if he is coming in with different girls then that usually means that he frequents other strip clubs as well, those girls are most likely other stippers from other clubs that he regulars with as well, so you are not the only one. just milk him while you can while it is still easy, but when he comes too demanding then just cut you ties.

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    i just wanted to add that these types of guys aren't usually just looking for a sd/sb relationship. they are regulars of local strip clubs, that they frequent quite often, they get to know the girls that pass through the clubs and try to get close to them by spending large amounts of money on them for almost nothing in return (in the beginning). these guys feel all big and manly that they have all these girls that he is such good 'friends' with and it is such a huge ego boost for them. they get in all good with the club management cuz the guy always spends big money with them for so long and so they automatically think that they have a sense of entitlement and that they are above the rules (which unfortunately they are cuz the club will let them get away with anything). don't be fooled by those types, they are not sugar daddy material, they want to get as close to you have possible with as many strippers as possible. they are looking for an ego boost, and they think cuz they have alot of money that they can do whatever they want, they are manipulative and they will try and play the girls against eachtother to start drama. a big sign of those types is if he comes in other strip clubs with other girls like that, those are strippers and he feels all macho going into clubs with those girls on his arm, the girls that he has been a regular with for a long period of time, is most likely sleeping with him to keep the money flowing in from him. they are not worth it, they will try to invade your life as much as possible. just grab your money and get out...that is my advice anyway.

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    Default Re: Working him into a sugar daddy?

    ^^Well thats definetly something to think about!!

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    Default Re: Working him into a sugar daddy?

    You really can't turn anyone into a sugardaddy. If he wanted such arrangement, he would have let you know.

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    Thanks guys!

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