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    Default Re: Manager won't let me leave after being here for over 10 hrs

    You are correct. Do not get abrasive with her though or she could end your contract. Chances are she's confused. Remind her what time you came in, how many hours you've been there, & then tell (don't ask) her you need to leave.
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    Default Re: Manager won't let me leave after being here for over 10 hrs

    Just bring it up privately with your GM when you see him. It's probably a communication error- but don't mention the offending manager by name. Do it hypothetically, you'll make less waves.

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    Default Re: Manager won't let me leave after being here for over 10 hrs

    legally a gray area for independent contractors ... yes you have the legal right to leave any time you choose. Yes the club also has the option of not allowing you to return tomorrow if you do !

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    Default Re: Manager won't let me leave after being here for over 10 hrs

    That is insane. I thought most clubs just had a 6 hour shift. The legal work day is 8 hours. What they are doing is totally illegal no matter what "type of employee" you are. You can't allow yourself to be bullied like that. A bully is a bully. You have to stick for yourself or it will get worse. You have to make it very clear that you know what the laws are and that you are not some bimbo that they can take advantage of. Just say in a calm manner that according to your knowledge of federal law the legal maximum work day is 8 hours. If you make it clear that you will stick up for yourself they will probably back off. good luck
    You could also report them to the authorities if they don't get their act together. Remember you are not a slave. Slavery is illegal.
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    Default Re: Manager won't let me leave after being here for over 10 hrs

    Yea fuck that. Is there a diff club u could work at? Sounds like this one is dead a lot from what you write.

    I had something similar happen with a dreadful waitressing job a few yrs back. Dead as a doornail restaurant, most shifts I made under min wage even when u add on the $2.83/hr (paltry) waitress wage. One day a guy quit suddenly so they told--not asked--me that id now be working a double on wed to cover this dudes hrs...on a day I did volunteer work(which unlike this job, I actually liked). So I work 10hrs, make $40 the whole day, with the last 2-3 hrs having NO tables AT ALL. I ask to go home and the manager kEpt making excuses and having me wait around longer. It was bullshit!! I started getting hostile and snarky til she finally let me go. Less than a week later I suddenly quit...like so many others...a no-pay job is worse than no job...atleast my volunteer gig was something that gave back to the community, and in my desired career field.

    Bottom line, don't put up with it. Find a new job if need be. Tell that bitch she can take her "1 nite shift forfeiture" and shove it. If more people put up with shit, managers will keep giving out more shit.

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    Quote Originally Posted by kthnx View Post
    ...a no-pay job is worse than no job...atleast my volunteer gig was something that gave back to the community, and in my desired career field.

    Bottom line, don't put up with it. Find a new job if need be. Tell that bitch she can take her "1 nite shift forfeiture" and shove it. If more people put up with shit, managers will keep giving out more shit.
    So true!!!! A lot of these managers are not very smart. They are just like the people who used to whip the slaves who acted up. F*ck them!!!!! There is no reason to tolerate or be nice to stupid scum. Move on. I don't like getting ugly and angry myself so I'm just a bitch with a smile.
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