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    Last night I was short a few hundred dollars for critical bill today. I asked for the money from my favorite regular. He supprised me and lent me the money. I agreed to pay him back via a combination of money and dances.

    I am worried it might make things weird. Any advice?

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    It won't be weird if you stick to what you said you will do as far as paying him back. He may even cut you some slack if you make the effort and let some of it slide.
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    No I don't think it will be weird, however, I don't like owing people anything at all ever so I'd much rather have made the few hundred. But if you pay him back and all like you said you will you never know, you could have a bigger tip at the end of the night just for being honest.
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    I don't think it'll make anything weird. Whenever he comes back it's just a reason for you to go up to him and get dances. When you see him just say something like "Hey __! Thank you SO much for helping me the other night you are such a life saver! Now I definitely owe you some dances!" I'm sure he will let you know what he is expecting in terms of paying him back. He might say/hint at getting free lap dances and/or having you give him a little money that you made that night. I dont know and neither will you until you see him next! Maybe he will even say "No, no, don't worry about it I'm just happy to help!" Now THAT would be nice!

    I think you should just really show/tell him how grateful you are and that he really did do a huge favor for you! I'm sure that'll make him feel really good. The only way things would be weird is if you avoid him or you don't do anything to pay him back.

    Hopefully I'm right and this was somewhat helpful! lol

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    I'll be honest, I wouldn't be comfortable doing this & I do think it will change your dynamics with him. He now knows that you have vulnerabilities. Really the sooner you pay it back the better, particularly if you could pay him in full by the next time you see him. Very few men want to feel like the woman they fantasize about really need to be rescued. It's one thing to seem feminine & fragile, but quit another to show true vulnerabilities. Don't let time go one without getting this paid off, & it's better if you pay it in cash & let him spend it back to you on dances as he sees fit.
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    I agree...mostly on the front of now you owe him money and he has something over you...not in a bad way, just that...thats how I feel when I owe anything to someone and it doesnt go away until Ive paid them back. I always feel it...the dynamics have a way of changing when there money owed.

    Now...I have gotten money from a cam customer online, he was a total sweetheart about it, and it was never a loan. I was always super cool with him and not a clock watcher (he was genuinely fun) and after knowing me hrmm..around 5 years ( wow) he could just tell when something was wrong. No matter how much I said I needed, hes always send way more...figuring if I was in a bind, he wanted to send more so that I would be okay even after I paid whatever bill. Dont think I could have a relationship like that with a cam guy again, he really was just big hearted...and didnt expect anything extra from me or make me feel like I owe him anything. Hed pay for his shows just the same.

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    Im confused at why he didnt just give you the money... a good regular would want to help you without having something to hold over you like repayments. Next time I would say something like... "oh I couldnt take it because I wouldnt be able to pay it back"... hopefully he would read between the lines and give you a gift... not a loan.

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    why he didnt just give you the money... a good regular would want to help you without having something to hold over you like repayments
    It's very possible that this regular enjoys the idea of you 'owing' him big time ! Time will tell i.e. will this regular 'forgive' your debt, accept your payments, or attempt to have you 'repay' the debt by other ( non-cash ) means !!!

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