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    Default Slave contracts & setting up the relationship?

    Do you use them?

    I found a great one and have sent it to my new slave on SMW. So far he has used a paid message for each of his replies to me and has willingly answered all the questions i had for him. I am hoping to start up a great slave/ mistress relationship with him which will satisfy us both. He is already experienced whereas I am not. I'm reading all i can on the subject, and hope that having a contract outlining what i expect of him and what i offer, will help.

    Also, I have one outfit which could be used as a mistress type thing - pvc mini dress, fishnets and thigh high pvc boots. I also have a whip - do i need to wear this sort of thing every domme session?

    Can you keep an online slave without involving cam shows?

    All thoughts appreciated

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    Default Re: Slave contracts & setting up the relationship?

    I have used contracts and I make the sub pay for it.

    You can dress the way you like. I have done real time paid sessions in sun dresses and sandals. Really you can't flog well in tight latex too much arm restriction well I can't anyway. The fetish wear is only needed if to fulfill a fantasy, a subs mind. I make them pay extra for me to put on my gear. Yes you can have a relationship without constant cam sessions. Don't let them top form the bottom. Yes we may be fulfilling a fantasy but we are in control. The second a sub thinks he can call the shots, it's all downhill.
    Last edited by hidarlin; 05-23-2011 at 06:21 PM. Reason: forgot the main question . . .

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    Default Re: Slave contracts & setting up the relationship?

    I only use contracts for legality purposes and tend to treat them more as applications/negotiation/consultation forms since that's what they are. (In all honestly, I'd like to phase them out completely as I think they're a joke.)

    I try to limit slaves to RT only, specifically those that I can have a true 24/7 TPE-style relationship with, as I tend to be "old school" like that. I also don't like to do protocols online. To me, that's just silly and pointless.

    I pretty much just take subs online, and those wishing to be my 'slave' have to go through a long trial period.

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