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    Default bigger dancers: SUPPORT thread

    So obviously there is a lot of controversy and arguing on what constitutes a fat dancer . . . or curvy, or thick, or whatever. That's not what this thread is for.

    This thread is for the ladies that feel they are curvier, thicker, weigh more, etc. than the average dancer.

    This is a thread will be a SAFE (non critical) place where we can discuss our bodies and support each other because truth is sometimes it IS harder for a bigger dancer to make money than a thinner one.

    Let's make this a good thread ladies where we can feel comfortable talking about our weight and whatever else.

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    I'm 5'5" and weigh right at 140lbs. I've been trying to lose the weight but I seem to be stuck. My money has dropped since I moved and put on 15 pounds, even though it all seems to have settled into my boobs and my butt.

    I feel almost as if my self-esteem has bottomed out. No matter how hard I hustle, I can't get back to the level I was before. And now it feels as though it's carrying over into camming. I'm so frustrated I could cry and I really feel as though I have no one IRL I can talk to about it.

    ETA: my weight ticker is currently wrong, I'm at 138, but just can't bring myself to go in and update it.
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    Default Re: bigger dancers: SUPPORT thread

    yaaay!
    finallyyy..
    great post-idea Elusive..

    ** and by the way ....

    good gawd..ur a Hottie-McNaughty!!
    only 2pics??..what a teaser!!
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    Default Re: bigger dancers: SUPPORT thread

    I don't think I qualify as a thick girl...but I'd like to throw in my support for the curvy ladies. Thanks for posting the pics Elusive. You're gorgeous!

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    Now see? Here u go...now u know damn well, there are those that strongly feel that thicker girls shouldn't be anywhere near a stage.........OH WELL, FUCK EM!

    I like to look at girls with nice thick bodies...there's just nothing to see on a skinny broad.

    I support the thick sistas...I embrace my thickness!

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    I've been hating that fat dancer thread . . . . As many people know, I have lost a heap of weight since I went back to work. If i had seen a thread like that when I first came here, I would not have stayed.

    The truth is, there are many kinds of men, and they all want something different in a woman. My home bar is across the street form Scores Chicago, and I can't tell you how many men come in there because they have been to Scores and hated it. I used to have a bunch of regs when I was heavier, and I lost them when I lost weight. They went to the OTHER heavier girls! I usually get a few dances with them whenever I see them, "for old time sake" but they bulk of thier money goes to the bulkier dancers.

    I never accepted my body when I was heavier. However, the whole time I was trying, failing, and finally succeeding at losing weight, I finally did accept that MY ideal body was not EVERYONE's ideal body. Even when I was completely disgusted with myself, I could still find quite a few customers who loved my curves.

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    Well, weighting 164 sure makes me part of the larger group but since I carry on my weight properly (I'm also pretty muscular) and I'm 5'8" is not that obvious that I weight that much. Never got rejected due to weight issues.

    Here's me; the girls are a modest 36C/34D (depends on the bra).

    I also have plenty of junk in the trunk...but is very firm!!!!!

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    I now lost four extra pounds, and lost plenty of boob tissue, so I'm like a regular 34C now.
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    To the OP:

    You look fantastic!!!!!!

    I know a few twigs who wish they looked like you.





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    SOOOO...it's obviously apparent that some neanderthals believe that the composition of bodies between black and white women are equal. I know that to be wholly false so I've provided a study that proves what I already know. Hopefully the girls ignorant to it, will have learned something new upon reading it. I've also asked for any rebuttals to the studies to be provided, if any exists, since these girls are medical fields and have the IQ's to disparage these results.

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    COLLEEN to have alot of these broads tell it, ALL men like thin girls....you should have posted your comment on that thread.

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    Default Re: bigger dancers: SUPPORT thread

    Yay! Great idea for a thread. I just can't bother with the other one anymore.

    Anyway....in keeping with the positive nature of this thread, I will post a few pics in support.
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    [quote=bustybabe312;2125337]..OH WELL, FUCK EM!

    I like to look at girls with nice thick bodies...there's just nothing to see on a skinny broad.

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    SOOOO...it's obviously apparent that some neanderthals believe that the composition of bodies between black and white women are equal.
    Huh? I thought this was supposed to be a positive thread...? No need to hate on anyone.

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    no hate, no hate....yaaaay big girls!!!!

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    Bah...my pics suck- gotta take some better ones when I'm at work.

    I'm about 190 lbs in these pics

    I took the first picture in a store dressing room- I wanted to tone up and flatten my belly, so this was to be my before shot before I tightened up. The next pic is another shot I snapped at work- 3rd is my booty pic....even at that size, no cottage cheese or dimples. I love that pic!

    I just realized I had on my work thong even though I was at the mall! LOL
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    Quote Originally Posted by PleasureVictim View Post
    Bah...my pics suck- gotta take some better ones when I'm at work.
    I'm about 190 lbs in these pics
    HOOTT!!!

    id DEF pay for a VIP room..lol
    how tall r u??
    u dont look 190 AT ALL..i woulda "thunk" 135 at least!!
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    Thanks Luxi! I'm gonna hold you to that.

    I'm just under 6ft. People have always thought I was smaller than I really am because of the height.

    I may have started to lose weight by that time, I don't own a scale and I only knew I was 190 because I went to the doctor that month.

    I'm closer to 175 right now. It's a double edged sword because I don't want to get smaller, yet I need to change my diet due to a health issue. When I go back down south, everyone I know will be calling me skinny.
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    Quote Originally Posted by PleasureVictim View Post
    Thanks Luxi! I'm gonna hold you to that.

    I'm just under 6ft. People have always thought I was smaller than I really am because of the height.

    I may have started to lose weight by that time, I don't own a scale and I only knew I was 190 because I went to the doctor that month.

    I'm closer to 175 right now. It's a double edged sword because I don't want to get smaller, yet I need to change my diet due to a health issue. When I go back down south, everyone I know will be calling me skinny.
    i love how ur bikini top just sits there obediently..how do u get them small triangles to sit and stay there while dancing??
    haha
    im stuck wearing bras..
    my double Ds wont sit patiently like urs..mine wants to be all over the place!
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    I love those micro tops. I don't like bikini tops that cover too much of my breast.

    The ones I'm wearing above sometimes stay in place, sometimes not. I don't mind fumbling with them talking to a guy because he's definitely going to be watching me fix it. When I start dancing it stays pretty well while I'm upright. Once I move from that position, might as well take it off.

    When you can get an outfit made, just get a bigger cup size. Look at the dancer in the pic, she's holding too. Just a change from the bras if nothing else.
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    Quote Originally Posted by PleasureVictim View Post
    I love those micro tops. I don't like bikini tops that cover too much of my breast.

    The ones I'm wearing above sometimes stay in place, sometimes not. I don't mind fumbling with them talking to a guy because he's definitely going to be watching me fix it. When I start dancing it stays pretty well while I'm upright. Once I move from that position, might as well take it off.

    When you can get an outfit made, just get a bigger cup size. Look at the dancer in the pic, she's holding too. Just a change from the bras if nothing else.
    DAAAAAMN...
    yeah they are fighting to hold them bad boys up..mine look JUST like that..
    seems that one is wider and thicker..
    i noticed the flimsy ones dont do anything for me..
    shes nice and thick too..
    im stuck under a cold rock too..hehe
    if i was to lose weight, my fat leaves the buttocks, toes, fingers, neck, and THEN thighs... first...
    i DEF cant have that!!
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    I didn't get into that other thread for a reason... they are pointless. Now I'm apparently lost though...

    Sorry ladies, but I've not seen "big" here yet. So far I'm seeing:

    - Ecto/Meso combo body types
    - Mesomorphic
    - Maybe/Possible Meso/Endo combo body types

    Not really seeing any endomorphs. Just' sayin.

    I think a few of you have the right idea, just move on. Calling people "neanderthals" isn't going to make things any better.


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    LOL! My booty went down a bit too since I dropped the 20+ lbs, I'm so pissed.

    My waist and belly only got smaller by a little bit. I'm here stuffing down oatmeal, spinach, green beans, salads- all stuff I hate and almost everything ELSE got smaller than what I wanted to. Of course I just ate a chocolate chip cookie and it's midnight- so that didn't help the cause. Just so hard to cut out these carbs.

    Luxi- the bikini tops sold in the stores won't hold you up the way you need to be. They are usually mass produced in China or wherever. The better outfits are custom made & tailored.
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    ^^ HA! who are u telling??
    im a sugar addict..sugar is my cocaine
    i eat waaay too many carbs which prob is the reason for my belly......prob? :/
    soo hard to cut it out though. Why is it that the bad stuff is sooooo yummers??

    yeah i had a chicken sandwich/fries/sweet tea from McDonalds 6hrs ago..so im way ahead of u on the "cheat chart"
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    Personally, my weight is always fluctuating all over the place. I'm 5'1 & my weight can go anywhere from 120 to 135. My jean size goes down to a 3 all the way up to a 9 or slightly larger sometimes. But I've always been told that I carry my weight well.




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    Quote Originally Posted by luxi_kitty View Post
    ^^ HA! who are u telling??
    im a sugar addict..sugar is my cocaine
    i eat waaay too many carbs which prob is the reason for my belly......prob? :/
    soo hard to cut it out though. Why is it that the bad stuff is sooooo yummers??

    yeah i had a chicken sandwich/fries/sweet tea from McDonalds 6hrs ago..so im way ahead of u on the "cheat chart"
    Yeah mine too. I tried the substitute sugar with fruits, they are so yummy method. Fuck outta here- as soon as I finish eating that yummy apple or pear, my mind is like "....COOKIE....where's the fucking cookie?"


    I have done well alternating days though, I just have my snack every 3rd day. At some point though, it will have to be even less. I can't cut it out completely, but I can limit it. I'm actually on prescription meds that send my blood sugar through the roof, so I'm really not supposed to be eating these things. I gotta do blood work in the am too....if it shows up in the results my doc is gonna nail my ass to the wall.


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    Love this thread. at this current moment i weigh 133...I am 5'4" and at my biggest I was 153 and still made money. I think my age is getting to me and with burn out I am really critical of myself. I am technically 20 pounds short of my biggest but I am considered thicker around here..HATE THAT.. <3 the positive vibe this thread has I am going through some personal crap and that surely isnt helping matters overall... It will get better though I have faith.

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