Has anyone on here screened a client by meeting him in public first?
How can i do this successfully?
He hasn't see providers before



Has anyone on here screened a client by meeting him in public first?
How can i do this successfully?
He hasn't see providers before





Ive heard of this, and that its no more or less safe to do a public screening, and that providers have been busted this way all the same, thinking that le wouldnt spend time meeting for coffee or something first. They drink coffee anyway lol...
seriously though, especially since Im starting out, I request at least 2 references. No references, no date. And I screen the references...I figure, if Im a month in and have a website, ads, and reviews from several other clients who are established themselves, then the reference Im given has to have at least that much. LE has been known to make up references, or just give a number and when you call ist a female le saying hes okay.
Everytime I read about busts, or even if its not a bust...just a guy who turned nutso or got wierd...there were no references checked. The odds of all that drops big time when you check references. Maybe once Im more established, I will develop a way to feel comfortable with no references, but right now, Im not newbie friendly..no dice.





LOL LE uses that line all the time. "I am new at this, so just making sure I get what I pay for. So we are going to have sex, right?"
Yes, consider yourself busted as soon as you show up. LE needs to confirm that you will have sex for money. If it is on cam, in an email, or phone conversation. You have to assume he is LE and setting you up. It is much cheaper to not do it than it is to get busted.
Now, many gals get needy for the money and do it anyways. Bail, a laywer, a felony for a sexual conviction on your record so being able to rent an apartment, live near a school, church or places where kids reside is not an option anymore. If you have kids and ever have to fight for custody is now a major problem.
NEVER ever see someone who tries to get you to agree on cam, in an email, on the phone or in person to exchange sex for money. HE IS LE! There are many places for men to read up on the rules of what is okay and what isn't. So they are NO excuse.
Hence why I do porn & camming only. It is LEGAL.
Good Luck, Stay safe.
Sam





For escorting??? Do NOT meet them in public first! I thought I could do that for screening until I joined the escort board and everyone was like .. "YOU COULD HAVE GOTTEN BUSTED!". If he cannot submit information THROUGH the screening form on YOUR website.. He's shit out of luck! Do not meet anyone that wants to meet just for coffee or whatever first. very dangerous!





Not to mention time consuming.
Many will also hope you will find them soooo attractive that you will do it for FREE!
Meeting for coffee or public place, gives him the ability to watch you. Without you knowing who HE is and follow you home.
Those who suggest you meet in public first tend to be time wasters and will NEVER spend money. That is if they aren't LE
If you do meet him and he isn't LE. He will call or contact you tons to meet for coffee or dinner. Do the I really just want to date you thing. Hint hint fuck for free.
Time is money.
Good Luck,
Sam




Yeah I'm sooo green,I just have to ask: what does LE stand for? Is there a site that explains escort terminology? I'd like to read up on it if so!





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I seriously can't imagine going out on a real date with a random stranger who I know nothing about... let alone being in a room with them.
Is there some reason that running a background check, checking the local sex offenders registry (national if you can), employment check, etc. is so hard?
Also, keep in mind that anyone can put up a company website with their photo on it... so if the city keeps business license records online you should confirm its a real company. On the same note, check Way Back Machine on Archive.org to make sure the website isn't new, look for sites more than a year old.
Its simply not good for people to be randomly meeting strangers, not in your personal life or your professional life!
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i loves you guys.
I guess i got the idea from Amanda brooks- I believe this is one of her screening methods.
I am way to paranoid about my safety (which is a good thing) so yea you guys have great points and i don't mind losing a client or a few if i don't feel comfortable.
I screen well and don't accept a lot that come through.
Some of the best customers i have had are open- they add extra information, take time on their emails, make sure i have everything i need or more and most of the time they schedule ahead.
This is just a lot of people i have met - there is variations of course and people i meet are always different. I do appreciate and feel more comfortable about guys that make my job easier for me.



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