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    Default Lap dances?? Convo vs. quiet vs only sexy talk help

    So who here does either of the above lately I've found myself staying quiet with the "oh yeah" "u like that?" type of shit but I'm boring myself which makes me think I'm boring the customer .what can I do in the P.R to spice shit up. I use to work at this hard core hustle club and lost all the appetite for hard hustling cuz this new club is laid back. But man a girl has to make her money. And I haven't been working enough so that can also be messin me up help I need hustle tips. Thanxs
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    Default Re: Lap dances?? Convo vs. quiet vs only sexy talk help

    I think it really depends on the customer. I only have conversation lap dances if I think the customer would be into it. I have a hard time talking to customers as it is so if I really get going with someone who's easy to talk to I tend to keep it going on the couch. I wish I could do this regardless because the customers I talked a lot to bought the most dances from me - but I don't really know if that's because I kept talking or if it's because we already had a good thing going, and I would feel awkward trying to force it if I didn't already feel like they really liked talking to me.

    Most of the time I just keep quiet, maybe throw in some cheesy compliment partway through like "ooo, I looove when I get to dance for cute guys" (if that seems like a compliment that isn't just obviously fake lol). I do more the sexy smiles and heavy breathing on the ear. I'll flirtily answer back if the guy says anything, but if he doesn't keep talking I just shut up. If he's not talking, I figure he probably wants to just enjoy himself, so I try to go with more of the silent, sexy visual connection.

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    Default Re: Lap dances?? Convo vs. quiet vs only sexy talk help

    Normally what I do try to get customers into the booth before our song begins. This allows me to initiate conversation by asking their name if I don't already know it, & finding out if the are into any special attributes on women... that way I can make use of the knowledge during the dance. Basically I'm leading the conversation with questions that encourage them to talk with more than just a yes or no. Once the our dance starts though I STOP leading the conversation. This way if they like to talk they know I'm friendly & open to it, while not ruining the dance by forcing them to talk if that isn't what they are into. Generally I feel like there is more enjoyment to the senses when their is less discussion though.
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    Default Re: Lap dances?? Convo vs. quiet vs only sexy talk help

    I always have conversation lapdances. Conversations can often be more stimulating than physical contact, IMHO. You'd be surprised at how many guys just want the chance to talk to someone whom they feel wont judge them. Even when I do manage to get a quiet guy, I'll ask him something random that I believe would connect with him and next thing you know, he is chatting away.

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    Default Re: Lap dances?? Convo vs. quiet vs only sexy talk help

    It really depends on the dude...

    Some guys like a really intense, professional lapdance; no chit-chat.

    Some guys want to get me laughing and talking with them to take the edge off a bit.

    It's easy to tell if he wants a conversation-- he'll start one.
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    Default Re: Lap dances?? Convo vs. quiet vs only sexy talk help

    I'm so lazy with lapdances - I move around a bit at first, then position myself straddling one or both legs, give a good view of my boobs and just breathe on their neck and caress behind the ear. If they seems nervous I smile while I dance, if they dont then I give them my 'I want to do bad things to you' look.
    I HATE talking during a dance. If you want to talk then buy a VIP or tip me to sit with you downstairs.

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